As the saying goes, home and everything is happy. A small family is a small society. In family life, if you want to be harmonious and happy, you must not only be husband and wife and beauty, but also have a good relationship with your parents. Only in this way can a family be happy and harmonious. Otherwise, even if the relationship between the husband and wife is good, if the relationship with his parents is cold, sooner or later it will crisis the relationship between the husband and wife, affecting family harmony. Today we will learn the eight tricks together with the other half of the parents.
Every elderly person will not receive a large amount of money from their children's spouses, but occasionally sending a small red envelope or occasionally buying a small gift, or buying a souvenir on a birthday, etc., will definitely win their favor. They can feel your filial piety and intentions in the gift. This warmth will also dissolve some of the dissatisfaction with you and make family life happy and harmonious.
Many people don't like to communicate with their other half's parents, feel that the relationship is not close enough, and there is nothing to say. In fact, this is a good opportunity to promote relations. You can listen to them tell stories of the past, ask them for some parenting tips, or talk more about your feelings. All of this can greatly bring you closer to each other and bring you closer to them.
In today's society, the elderly with babies has become a social phenomenon. However, due to the different parenting concepts between the elderly and young people, it often leads to many family conflicts. The old man's physical strength has declined, and if he encounters the incomprehension of his daughter-in-law or son-in-law, his mood will be even worse. Therefore, at this time, you should take the initiative to help them do some things, understand their hardships, tolerate their complaints, and do not be too preoccupied, so as not to contradict the plan.
The elderly like sensible children, do more housework in front of them, wash more clothes and cook, will definitely get the praise of the elderly. It would be better to be more considerate of the elderly. For example, help them beat their backs, rub their hands, etc., usually when they see the old man's face is not good, they will care more, which will greatly promote the relationship with the other half of the parents.
The old man has worked hard all his life, many people have not really enjoyed the blessings, we should take advantage of their lifetime, take more money to take them out to travel, see the world, taste the delicacies that have never been eaten, which can greatly win the hearts of the elderly, but also let them fully feel the joy of life in their old age.
In life, it is inevitable that there will be times when there are disagreements with the elderly, if it is not too challenging to challenge their own principles, you should try to follow the wishes of the elderly, do not argue with them, tit-for-tat, which will make the elderly think that you are very sensible. In the future, I will follow your heart to heart. Your relationship will grow more and more harmonious.
Many people are very angry, and there may be a conflict between the spouse's parents in the presence, which will invisibly increase their prejudice against the son-in-law or daughter-in-law, because each parent's heart is towards their own child, and they do not want to see their children scolded by the other half. When there is a problem, the husband and wife can solve it privately, and do not argue in front of the elderly.
Many people like to let their children get along with their parents, but they are picky about their children getting along with their other half's parents. This kind of thinking must be completely dispelled. You know, both parents are the child's relatives, have endless love for the child, do not artificially reduce the child's time with the other half of the parents, and even feel suspicious.