Talented and beautiful, they have been a perfect match since ancient times.
In the eyes of the world, Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin should be a natural pair, they have too many common languages, but unfortunately, this pair of Bi people, in the end, there is no fate.
Xu Zhimo is obsessed with Lin Huiyin, as long as she is willing, Xu Zhimo is willing to give everything.
Unfortunately, in this love, Lin Huiyin has been cautious, not knowing how to be good, she does not know whether this love is right or wrong.
When I met Lin Huiyin, Xu Zhimo's child was 3 years old, and Xu Zhimo was 8 years older than Lin Huiyin.
When they first met, Lin Hui almost called Uncle Xu Zhimo, even if there was a huge difference in age, he still couldn't stop the seeds of love.
Many people say that Lin Huiyin does not like Xu Zhimo, but in fact this is wrong.
In fact, they are in love with each other, and since they are in love, why are they not together in the end? Even if Xu Zhimo left Zhang Youyi, Lin Huiyin still did not look back and still chose Liang Sicheng.
So, lin Hui chose Liang Sicheng because of the money because he left Xu Zhimo?
On the surface, there seems to be some truth, but in fact it is not, but inside, a knot that can never be untied.
This knot does not matter to others, but for Lin Huiyin, it is a lifelong pain.
Objectively speaking, Xu Zhimo understands Lin Huiyin, so they have a lot of common languages together.
But Xu Zhimo is very good, and the only bad thing is to get married.
That is, the two met the right person at the wrong time.
Of course, for the sake of Lin Huiyin, Xu Zhimo chose to divorce his wife Zhang Youyi, but even so, she still could not accept Xu Zhimo.
If Xu Zhimo was not married when they met, they should "have lovers and eventually become dependents."
But it is a pity that Xu Zhimo is married, even if it is divorced, because Lin Hui, because of the influence of his mother, attaches too much importance to his name.
When they were in love, Zhang Youyi once received a letter, which was inadvertently opened and suddenly felt like a whirlwind, which was written by Lin Huiyin to Xu Zhimo.
The content of that letter is still impossible to verify.
It has been said that the content of the letter goes like this:
"I am not the kind of woman who abuses her feelings, if you really love me, you must choose between me and Zhang Youyi."
At this time, no matter how deeply they loved each other, they could not change the fact that Lin Huiyin was the "third person".
Although Xu Zhimo took the initiative, but a slap can not make a sound, if she does not love, how can Zhang Youyi's pain?
Later, for the sake of Lin Huiyin, Xu Zhimo divorced.
He originally thought that the two of them would be able to fly in both places, but it was only his own Huang Liang dream, and she finally chose Liang Sicheng.
Why is that?
This has to start from Lin Huiyin's heart knot.
Talking about Lin Huiyin, it is necessary to talk about her mother, He Xueyuan, a moody "concubine" who often hurt her in her childhood.
Yes, Lin Huiyin's mother was a "concubine", not the so-called "Mrs. Lin".
Originally, Lin Huiyin's father had no intention of taking a concubine, but for various reasons, he still married the second room when Lin Huiyin was 9 years old.
It is reasonable to say that Lin Huiyin's mother should be Mrs. Lin, why did she become a concubine?
The main reason is that she, Mrs. Lin, is extinct in name only, and the second room is too good at competing for favors, becoming the "Mrs. Lin" in the bystanders, so Lin Huiyin's mother has become a "concubine" in the bystanders.
It is precisely because of this that He Xueyuan is completely dead-hearted, which has also become a pain for her life.
In fact, Lin Huiyin is deeply in love with her mother, and she has a good relationship with her father, but unfortunately the relationship between her father and mother is not good.
In her eyes, the mother is unqualified, but even if she is not qualified, she should be famous.
It is also this subtle relationship, so Lin Huiyin regards the fame ratio as particularly important, so when Xu Zhimo pursues herself, she makes a mistake.
Because they are already married, even if they are divorced, they are married people.
From this point of view, under the influence of her mother, she has already had an emotional purity.
If this is left aside, then they may really be together and become partners for a lifetime.
If He Xueyuan is a qualified mother, she is not moody and can be at ease with her husband's godson, perhaps Lin Huiyin will not be so overwhelmed in her feelings later.
She couldn't blame her father, nor could she blame her mother.
But their view of marriage has had a lifelong impact on themselves.
When she encounters love, she does not dare to fight for it, because the other party is married, even if she loves in her heart, she chooses to refuse, not that she does not want to love, but does not dare, her heart is full of fear.
Her mother's calculation of fame also made her pay special attention to fame, and she wanted to marry a man she liked and had never been married.
Unfortunately, this point Xu Zhimo is not suitable.
In addition, at that time, her father and Liang Sicheng's father had a verbal marriage, so she agreed to each other's pursuit.
Compared with Xu Zhimo, Lin Huiyin's father preferred Liang Sicheng.
Although he admired Xu Zhimo's romantic poetry, he finally felt inappropriate, and he allowed his daughter to fall in love with Xu Zhimo, but as for marriage, he still chose Liang Sicheng.
Xu Zhimo is a romantic person, who can say sweet words and sweet words, but in terms of living a life, he can't. Especially from the fact that he met Lu Xiaoman and married her.
Xu Zhimo's life is all poetry, and these poetic intentions should not be able to live in a life, and Lin Hui, because of the influence of her mother, what she wants is a stable life.
To put it simply, Xu Zhimo is too magical, and Lin Huiyin is too realistic, so the two people can't be together after all.
Compared with Xu Zhimo, Liang Sicheng is much more sincere, although he is not as poetic as Xu Zhimo, he has always proved his love to Lin Huiyin with actions.
In addition, Lin Huiyin respected his father very much and loved his father deeply, so it was reasonable to make such a decision.
At any time, we must know that the parents' concept of marriage and love will actually affect the child's life.
Their attitude towards feelings often hides the attitude of children to feelings in the future, and it is often difficult for parents to have children who are dedicated to feelings.
Xu Zhimo still missed Lin Huiyin after all, even if he had loved each other, it was still a beautiful dream after all.
But no matter what, Xiao Bei still felt that Xu Zhimo's infatuation with Lin Huiyin was not worthy of praise, because it was not fair to Zhang Youyi, who was pregnant.
A man with a family who can't afford his duties as a husband and even falls in love with someone else outside of marriage. This, in fact, is an indulgence of one's own feelings.
Even if the marriage between Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi was arranged by his parents, even if Xu Zhimo did not love Zhang Youyi, zhang Youyi already had a child in her belly at that time.
Therefore, Lin Huiyin is also because of this "heart barrier", feeling that he has interfered in someone else's marriage and become the culprit of the breakdown of other people's marriages, plus the husband he hopes is a "clean" man who has not been married.
To put it simply, Lin Huiyin did not choose Xu Zhimo, not because he did not love, but because he could not step on that "heart barrier".
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