The most unforgettable thing in a person's life is the time of first love, the first love is passion and love, but if it comes to marriage, it is not only love that needs to be considered. Therefore, more often, when the first love meets the person she loves, when she gets married, she chooses the most suitable person.
The result of such a choice is regret in old age. Dai Ailian was lucky, she was obsessed with her first love, but in the end she married the so-called most suitable person twice before she recognized her heart, and God once again gave her the opportunity to love in her later years.
First, the most unforgettable nostalgia is the first love
Dai ailian is a purebred Chinese whose ancestral home is Guangdong, but migrated to the West Indies during her father's business career. Dai Ailian was born on the West Indies, although she did not live in China since she was a child, she has longed for Chinese culture since she was a child, after all, her family is Chinese.
Due to her good family, Dai Ailian has received a good education since childhood, especially in dance, on the one hand, because Dai Ailian has a special interest in dance, on the other hand, it is also derived from local customs, and it is normal for women to learn dance.
Dai Ailian is a very talented woman in dance, and with the support of her family, she went abroad to study. It was during her study abroad that Ailian Dai met Willie, her unforgettable first love. When they first met, Elleine dai modeled for a show, and it was Willie who designed her clothes.
At that time, Willie was not a big-name designer, and was in the early stage of entrepreneurship, and Dai Ailian studied abroad because of family changes, studying half-work and half-study, which led to the encounter and fate of the two.
Therefore, from this point of view, the two are just the same disease abroad, and they have experienced the hardships of life. After getting along this time, they had endless words and gradually came together. It is not easy to live abroad, not to mention that both are currently in a low period, emotionally fragile, and comfort each other to warm up.
For Dai Ailian, who has lived abroad since childhood, she does not mind marrying willy, a foreigner, but unfortunately, the first love she fell in love with is a person with a marriage contract. Despite not giving up, Dai Ailian still smiled and left Willie. Later, Dai Ailian did not expect that this short period of time with Willie would become an unforgettable time of her life.
Second, when you are happy, I will not bother
After leaving Willie, Dai Ailian returned to China, coinciding with the outbreak of the War of Resistance Against Japan, although she did not live in China for a long time, but her feelings for the motherland were indeed quite deep. With Dai Ailian's strength value, it was not realistic to want to go to the front to participate in the anti-Japanese resistance, so she thought of a roundabout tactic.
From this day on, Dai Ailian began to perform dance performances throughout the country, and all the funds received were used to support the anti-Japanese resistance. In the process, she meets Ye Qianyu. Ye Qianyu is a painter, both of whom are considered to have artistic people, and in some respects have a common language.
Ye Qianyu is married to Dai Ailian with two children, and although this is a little unfair to Dai Ailian, she never complains. For many years, Dai Ailian has worked hard in life to take care of Ye Qianyu and his children, but even so, she has never felt love.
Marriage without love is difficult to last, not to mention that Ye Qianyu is still a person who loves his career far more than his family, and the two eventually ended in divorce. On the surface, the marriage ended because of Ye Qianyu's indifference to the family, but in fact, only Dai Ailian herself knew, and the real reason was that she could not forget Willie.
Although in her heart, Dai Ailian very much wants to find a future frontier, but at this time, Willie has married and had children, and her life is happy, and she should not bother. Now that Willie was happy, all Dai could do was not to disturb.
Third, recognize the sincerity and take care of the elderly
Therefore, after divorcing Ye Qianyu, Dai Ailian bravely tried another marriage. However, the ending is surprisingly similar, and Dai Ailian divorced for the second time. This time, Dai Ailian finally realized that as long as the person is not right, even if it is married, it can only end in divorce, and the right person is Willie.
After forty years of searching, in 1979, Dai finally found Willie again. At this time, Willie had a family and children, and Dai Ailian was happy for him from the bottom of her heart, although Willie's happiness was not given by her.
This time, Dai Ailian was reluctant to leave Willie again, even if it was good to just look at Willie from a distance. As a result, Dai Ailian often ran to Willie's house and became friends with Willie's family. In 1993, Willie's wife died, and Dalen accompanied him through a difficult time.
The following year, Willie suffered a stroke and his children were not around, so Dalene took care of Willie day and night. In her opinion, this kind of care is not tiring, on the contrary, she is very happy. For most of her life, she missed time with Willie. Now, Willie has suffered a stroke, and she can take care of it all the time until she is old.
I don't bother when you're happy, and I take care of you when you're unhappy, which is probably the best look of love.