In today's society, where there are so many unforgettable loves, in the ordinary life of no illness and no disaster, there are always some people who want to walk into another landscape, but when they go in, they can see the scenery, but what they can't see is harm.
(1) Holding hands
Deng Lei and Chen Wei have been married for many years and still respect and love each other. The so-called seven-year itch, in their happy lives, is nothing more than a simple number. In the long years, endless love, endless love, everything was spent in chai rice oil and salt.
Since college met and fell in love, five years in love, ten years in marriage. Although they have passed the age of standing, under the tempering of the long river of years, each other's hands have become tighter.
In the first few years of their marriage, the two enjoyed the wonderful world of two. After dinner, take a walk and go shopping. On weekends, we pack up our little homes together, go to a movie, climb a mountain, and so on, and have a very pleasant life.
(2) Consummation
A few years later, a daughter Duoduo was born. The family of two became a family of three, and the happiness was even greater. From the initial surprise of pregnancy, watching her daughter learn to talk and walk step by step, to going to kindergarten to make new friends, and then naturally going to elementary school.
On every stage of the child's healthy growth, companionship is the happiest happy time for parents.
Since having Duoduo, Deng Lei's mind has also undergone subtle changes. In the past, after work, all the focus of life was on Chen Wei's side, but now after work, the focus of life is here for my daughter. This is actually the inevitable way for a family to grow. They also slowly got used to the new mode of getting along.
(3) Heartbreak
Most people's lives may be like this, from love to keeping each other, having children, and accompanying them to grow up slowly. And the children are gradually growing up and drifting away. Young couples have been companions for a long time, in fact, this is not a waste of love.
But life will not be as good as it should be, Deng Lei inadvertently found, but ended this marriage that was favored by everyone.
Deng Lei and Chen Wei had already discussed it when Duo Duo was in kindergarten, and the two took turns interacting with their daughter and cultivating her various abilities. If there are special circumstances, it is best to greet in advance. Before, it was fine, but when it came to tutoring Duoduo Primary School homework now, Chen Wei was obviously impatient. Often excuse overtime, or let Duoduo study independently, but if it is not possible, ask a professional teacher to tutor.
In the past six months, Chen Wei has often worked overtime, and even has half a month a month on business trips. At first, Deng Lei also thought that perhaps people are middle-aged, the pressure in the workplace is too great, thinking of coming back every day to help with homework, must feel tired, slowly with him, their own hard work is nothing.
On this day, Chen Wei was taking a shower, the mobile phone was charged on the nightstand, she heard the sound of WeChat coming from her husband's mobile phone, and looked at it slightly curiously: Baby, hurry, the old place is waiting for you.
This made Deng Lei confused on the spot, quickly unlocked the phone, and looked through the previous chat records. The more I look at it, the more heartbreaking I get.
This woman, she knew. Even if it is not a girlfriend, it can be regarded as a good friend. It was her sister, and she also helped Deng Lei a lot when she was looking for a job. Over the years, his two sons often invited her to come to the house to get together. A while ago she was divorced, and he comforted her for a long time.
Deng Lei couldn't figure out why her husband was cheating? She also admitted that after the birth of her daughter Duoduo, her energy was indeed dispersed, but for this family, it is still considered to be loving and harmonious. Is the husband's impatience only because of tutoring homework? That's not going to happen.
(4) Waking up from a dream
Deng Lei decided to divorce, the reason is very simple, the beauty of the past, just stay in the bottom of your heart.
Love can be willful, but marriage is indeed sacred. There's nothing wrong with liking someone, and it's easy to see different thoughts. But all the premise is that the marriage and family are not destroyed. Marriage has a rift, can be repaired, is really not good, divorce to find new feelings is also unavoidable. But infidelity in marriage is immoral. Deng Lei really can't understand that people are middle-aged, have houses and cars. The wife is virtuous, the daughter is lovely, is such a life not happy? Is it to say that the outside world is wonderful and full of temptation?
The promise of love that was once gone with the wind.