It is said that men without first love are not normal, and the girl that every man falls in love with first is always unforgettable, because it is the purest love, and that feeling of ignorance and shyness will make people remember for a lifetime, and every time they think of it, they will scratch their hearts!
Yesterday received an email from the reader Xiaoxin, saying that the husband and the first love girlfriend who had been separated for seven years met, the two people hugged together, just bumped into by themselves, she was very entangled, their children are already six years old, should she divorce her want to hear my opinion?
When Xiao Xin and her husband were just married, they once inadvertently saw a photo of a girl in his mobile phone, with a pure appearance, a clever smile, and the thick sweetness of the two people standing together seemed to overflow through the picture frame, making people breathless.
She had always known that there was a white moonlight in her husband's heart, although it was a little uncomfortable, but who had not passed, and then gradually calmed down.
On the way home from work yesterday, on the opposite side of the community, I saw my husband hugging a girl into his arms, and the joy of losing and regaining was what she had never seen on his face, it was the girl in the photo, beautiful still.
Xiao Xin and her husband have been married for five years, the door is right, the family is happy, and the two people have also been sweet, but after marriage, the chai rice oil and salt have long worn away the initial passion, leaving only plain.
The two people now basically rarely have emotional collisions, after all, people to middle age, there are old and young, each has their own career to be busy, has long passed the age of wind and snow, abandon the love between the two is more like family affection, mutual support, mutual foam.
Seeing this scene in front of her, her heart was full of mixed feelings, and she was shocked and resentful, but she was not hysterical, but chose to return home silently.
After her husband came home in the evening, Xiaoxin and her husband showed cards. Husband did not deny, so many years in fact, the feelings have long been put down, the first love of the married life is not very happy, this meeting the first love asked for a long time, entangled or think about seeing only one side, this talk about the sad place suddenly rushed into the embrace, is not expected, he did not want to cheat on the idea.
Xiao Xin did not say anything more, the days were still calm and quiet, but this matter became a thorn in her heart, jumping out from time to time to prick her, so that there was a gap between her and her husband, and she could never return to her original feeling.
First love is beautiful, for first love, everyone will have some youthful memories, but it is only a memory, and it can never go back to the original ignorance. The beauty of the past only exists in the past, life must go on, and everyone should live in the present.
Since two people have formed a family, they have responsibilities. The most important thing between husband and wife is trust, and a marriage without trust is in jeopardy, and it may collapse as soon as the wind blows.
If a man really loves his wife and loves the family, then he will have a sense of responsibility, and since he has formed a family, we should have a little more trust and less suspicion, so that the marriage can be happy and complete.