"A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June." The meaning of this sentence is to exhort people to say more good things and make good friends. The biggest difference between good words and bad words is that one benefits others and one harms others and does not benefit oneself. Evil words will not only embarrass the other party, but also may bring themselves the misfortune of killing themselves, and among the famous people of the Three Kingdoms that we are familiar with, the talented You Heng You Zhengping is because of cursing people everywhere, and finally losing his head.
You Heng's death was purely self-inflicted, he defected to Cao Cao, scolded Cao Cao's men over and over again, went to Liu Biao and Huang Zu to eat, in fact, he came and went freely, not only did he not judge the situation and find another Lord, but he was arrogant and arrogant to point out that Sang scolded Huai, the cultured Liu Biao did not have the same knowledge as him, and the uncultured Huang Zu could not care about three seven twenty-one, and after beating him on a board, he clicked.
You Heng was still cursing when he was hit by the board, so Huang Zu moved the knife, but I don't know if You Heng had time to tie his belt when he was stabbed.
With the characteristics of Your Heng's eyes and high teeth and sharp mouth, that is, when he arrived at Liu Bei, he would not live too long--Zhuge Liang would not tolerate him, Guan Yu and Wei Yan were not good tempered, and although Zhang Fei respected the scholar and doctor, he would not look up to You Heng, who could only curse people.
Yang Xiu Yang Dezu, who died under his tongue like You Heng, looked a little bigger than You Heng's ability, and he could guess Cao Cao's thoughts, indicating that even if he didn't have great wisdom, he had some small wisdom, otherwise he wouldn't have become the master of the Xiangfu Palace—that was a senior staff member similar to Shi Ye, and Lü Bu had served as the chief bookkeeper for The Commander of qidu and the assassin Shi Dingyuan (when Lü Bu was the master bookkeeper, Zhang Liao was an envoy to Hezhou and also a senior staff member of Ding Yuan).
If Yang Xiu had not made himself clever and leaked military secrets, Cao Cao would have wanted to kill him, and he might not have been able to find a reason. Yang Xiu's death verifies a proverb: If you don't die, you won't die.
You Heng and Yang Xiu committed suicide with a sword of tongue and tongue, the lesson of blood did not make the famous soldiers of the Three Kingdoms take the warning, after you Heng Yang Xiu died, there were at least seven famous soldiers of the Three Kingdoms who died under their own swords, from the deaths of these nine people, we seem to be able to sum up a little lesson: the tiger's ass cannot be touched, the beard of the King of Yan cannot be touched, Liu Bei and Cao Cao hold the handle of the sword, and playing with them is equivalent to dancing on the tip of the sword.
Including Yang Xiuyouheng, nine famous people of the Three Kingdoms died under their own poisonous tongues, which cannot but make us sigh and sigh at the same time, but also to ponder some of the following questions: What did these nine people say that Liu Beicao, the tyrant of the world, was so angry that he could kill Liu Beicao? Was the death of these nine celebrities Cao Cao Liu Bei's ruthless hands, or was the "poisonous tongue man" to blame for himself and deserved to die?
Liu Bei has always been known for his benevolence, but he has never been soft on sharp-toothed people, such as Zhang Yu Zhang Nanhe, who ridiculed Liu Bei's lack of beard, when he was on an errand under Liu Zhang, he gave Liu Bei a nickname, called "Lu Zhuojun".
Lu Zhuo (harmonic pecking, the meaning of the mouth) Jun is the meaning of less beard, now it is not a bad term, because the small fresh meat that is now popular is not only Lu Zhuo Jun, but also Guang Zhuo Jun, the reason why they are "light pecking" is to facilitate the application of lipstick.
When Zhang Yu was under Liu Zhang, he smugly ridiculed Liu Bei for his lack of masculinity, which made Liu Bei, who had just married the young Lady Sun and had a not very harmonious life between husband and wife, greatly angry. If Zhang Yu had come to this point, after being taken in by Liu Bei, he might have saved his life, but his poisonous tongue problem had been committed again: "The years are in Gengzi, the world is yidai, and Liu Shizuo is exhausted." The lord duke (at this time Zhang Yu's main duke was already Liu Bei) gained Yizhou, and nine years later, Yin and Yu were lost. ”
Zhang Yu's prediction is of course inaccurate, because after the Western Han Dynasty was the Eastern Han Dynasty, after the Eastern Han Dynasty was the Ji Han (Shu Han), the orthodoxy of the Great Han Empire was not broken, and Yizhou was not lost nine years later, and Chen Shou, the author of the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, later surrendered to Cao Wei, who was controlled by the Sima family, so he opened his eyes and said nonsense to perform Zhang Yu: "The establishment of the Wei clan, the ancestor of the lord, are all carved by Yu." ”
Chen Shou believed that the Cao Wei Dynasty Han marked the end of Han Zuo, which was obviously a traitor's trick, in fact, when Zhang Yu said this, it was the twenty-third year of Jian'an (218 AD), while Liu Beixue died in the third year of Zhang Wu (223 AD), and Ji Han did not end until 263 AD, which had nothing to do with Zhang Yu's "nine years theory" - 223 years is the year of Decay, and 261 years of Decay.
Zhang Yu's poisonous tongue could not curse Liu Bei to death, but Liu Bei could take Zhang Yu's life in one sentence: "Fang Lan is born of the door, and he has to hoe!" ”
Zhang Yu was exhumed by a "hoe" and dried in the downtown area for several days—abandoning the city means that after the beheading, it will be exhibited for several days, until the Sui Dynasty, the punishment of abandoning the city was abolished, and replaced by beheading and hanging, and the family can wait at the execution site to collect the body.
Zhang Yu was killed by Liu Bei, who had always been known for his benevolence, but there were still many strange stories about Liu Bei's clique, and the people who gave Liu Bei nicknames did not disappear, and Peng Xian peng Yongnian also followed Zhang Yu shortly after, and Peng Xi gave Liu Bei the nickname "Lao Ge".
Peng Xi has some ability, Liu Bei can smoothly enter Sichuan, and Peng Xi has also made some contributions.
Peng Xian betrayed Liu Zhang, and also received a reward from Liu Bei, and became arrogant because of this: "The first lord led Yizhou Mu, and pulled out Yi To engage in governance." Hiking (Zhang's hippits are apprentices, it is because Peng Xi always scolds Liu Zhang behind his back, and Liu Zhang cut his hair in anger and punished him for hard work), and once he was above the people of the prefecture, he was arrogant and arrogant, and he was very self-conscious. ”
Peng Xi had just been a high-ranking official for a few days and had eaten a full meal for a few days, and his tongue poison began to attack again, and when he coveted Zhuge Liang's position, he gave Liu Bei a nickname, and even Zhuge Liang refused to protect him (Zhuge Liang once wrote to save Zhang Yu, but failed).
Zhang Yu Peng's poisonous tongue made "Renjun" Liu Bei intolerable, which showed that they were no longer suitable for living in the chaotic world of the Three Kingdoms at the end of the Han Dynasty, and their poisonous tongue had actually become a sword of suicide.
Liu Bei was still polite, and did not exterminate Zhang Yupeng of the three tribes, and had always killed Cao Cao, who was decisive, but he would not be merciful, and under Cao Cao's sword, he fell down five poisonous tongue masters in a row: Bian Wenli, Huan Shao HuanYuan, Xu You Xu Ziyuan, Kong Rong Kong Wenju, and Lou Gui Lou Zibo.
The deaths of Kong Rong and Xu You are similar to the novels of yanyi, they take Cao Cao for pleasure when they have nothing to do, and they leave such a record in the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Volume XII": "Taizu is jealous of nature, and those who are unbearable, Lu Guo Kong Rong, Nanyang Xu You, and Lou Gui, all of whom are ashamed of their old age." ”
The so-called "old and not pious" means that they talk about old friendships and ignore them, and they all forget the elders and children. The consequences of cursing Cao Cao were very serious: Bian Rang, Huan Shao, and Kong Rong were not only in different places, but also suffered the scourge of annihilation. If it had been known that poisonous tongues would be used to commit suicide, why shouldn't these people be careful in their words and deeds?
These nine famous warriors of the Three Kingdoms seem to have died at the hands of Cao Cao Liu Bei, but in fact, these people do not "judge the Lord", only know the benefits of the tongue and do not have the ability to protect themselves, they all belong to the "tongue sword suicide" and the like, just like those "omnipotent" trolls - if they really have the talent of heaven and earth, or live everything as they wish, they can't do the right thing, and the good days have not passed enough, how can they have the leisure to scold others?