Boys and girls...
The most different growth process from small to large is:
Girls tend to believe that they are "lucky",
Boys know they're the "majority.",
So a small probability event was born,
One only looks at the mediocre crowd going.
In fact, neither is quite right.
Firmly believe that they are lucky, behind the scenes must pay more than ordinary people's efforts.
Those who firmly believe that they are mediocre people must understand the cost of mediocrity.
"One cannot be persuaded, one can only be apocalyptic"