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Love is a thing that needs to be favorable at all times and places.
Meeting a rightfully good person at the right time is called love, but having feelings for a person at the wrong time is not fate, but evil fate.
The man and the unmarried woman are not married, and the two began to talk about a vigorous love at a glance, which is indeed a good story.
But if it is "a king has a wife" or "a husband in Luoshi", then this relationship that has been wrong from the encounter can naturally not end in happiness.
Some people may say that love is uncontrollable, and no one can predict what kind of person will fall in love with when.
It is true that the arrival of love is without warning, but the development of love can be controlled artificially.
If you know that the other party already has a family, but also stubbornly strive for a result for your love, then the final outcome must be a lose-lose situation.
Love has a very strong exclusivity, and only two people can be accommodated in a relationship.
If you are in love with a man with a family, then you must be extremely flustered at the moment, because you do not understand why your sincerity should be let down like this.
So, you will first fall into a kind of self-blame, and then you will fall into confusion, because although you know that this behavior has destroyed someone else's family and hurt another woman, you really can't let go.
You want a man to give her an answer, and you want him to give you an explanation, although it may be nothing more than those innocuous justifications.
But you just can't let go so easily, you don't know how the road ahead should go, or even whether to contact him tomorrow.
At this time, you may wish to read Yishu.
The concept of love revealed by Shi Tai in the book seems at first glance to be the supremacy of love, hedonism, and game life, and once love disappears, the old joy is like a dream, and the new joy can be found, not obsessed with the past, only pursuing the present.
But in fact, she is telling women through one love story after another: in this life, the only way out lies in protecting herself, and the most effective self-protection is to develop an independent character and the ability to make a living.
At any time, loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Fall in love with a man with a family, remember Yi Shu's three sentences, you can find a way out.
Human nature is so cold and thin, as long as you take better to exchange, you must be willing to give it. - "As Beautiful as You Want"
Women should understand that there are only 0 times and countless times of cheating, he can betray his wife today to "love" you, then he will also fall in love with other women in the future, thus betraying you.
To put it bluntly, you are just a tool man he uses to pass the tediousness and emptiness, and the deep affection he pretends to be in front of you is actually just to make you fall into his trap faster.
And you have to force yourself into the play, thinking that he loves you to the point of being unable to extricate yourself, then isn't it yourself who suffers in the end?
Therefore, it is not so much that human nature is cold and thin, but that men's nature is cold and ruthless.
Their love can be divided into many parts and then distributed to many women at the same time, and you will not be the first person to cheat on him or the last person to cheat on him.
You are at best a spare tire he used to transition, and when he meets something better, you will repeat the tragic end of his wife, betrayed and brutally abandoned by him.
The reason why many women are unlucky is because they would rather believe men who have lied many times than believe the truest judgment from their own hearts.
You have obviously felt that something is wrong with a man countless times, but you still choose to deceive yourself, telling yourself to believe the other party, are you not stupid and what is it?
Why should I, a very good person, run into someone else's life as an interlude? - "The Mandala"
Yes, you are just in good age, and you have a lot of youth to find your own soul mate, why go to the love of others to be the third person? Don't you feel crowded?
Every woman has her own unique style in life, if you want to bloom, it must be the most beautiful one.
Therefore, why should you sacrifice your precious youth for a man who is already a "second-hand" man for no reason, which is not cost-effective no matter how you think about it.
You are young and beautiful, and the material conditions are not bad, then you should go to find one, you love him and he loves your little fresh meat to talk about a sweet love.
Instead of looking for someone to middle-aged, beer belly highlighting the greasy uncle, what do you say you figure out, love?
That's ridiculous, because one can drool at a willow tree that sprouts new shoots, but at least one shouldn't be confused by an iron tree that can no longer blossom, or you're too unprovocative.
Women should understand that a person as good as you should be the protagonist in her own life, rather than running into someone else's life as a not very harmonious interlude.
Self-love, calmness, and then love others. - "Jiaming and the Rose"
It turns out that women who can't learn self-love will never get real happiness.
You say that you all know that you have inadvertently become an accomplice to the destruction of other people's families, then you should wake up in time, instead of breaking the jar and pretending not to know how to continue to entangle with the scumbag to the end of the world.
As the saying goes, karma, there is a cycle, you break through the bottom line of morality and ethics today, to get along with someone else's husband.
Then tomorrow you are bound to receive your husband's "big package package" of having an affair outside and making other women's stomachs bigger.
What kind of cause you planted today, then you will have to wait to get what kind of result you will get in the future, and fate is very fair to everyone, so it is not that you do not report it, but the time has not yet come.
Women who know how to love themselves can precipitate their hearts to love others, and when facing love, they will never be afraid of the end, nor will they be afraid of timidity, because you know that what belongs to you will be yours after all, and no one can take it away.
If a woman is unfortunate enough to fall in love with a man with a family, first of all, please do not feel flustered or overwhelmed.
As long as things are too late, not to the point of irreparability, then you have a chance to turn the tide.
If you don't know how to do it or how to choose it, then looking at Yishu's three sentences will definitely find a way out.
First: human nature is cold and thin, as long as it is exchanged for better, it must be willing.
You don't have to hesitate any longer, you should have cut off your relationship with him earlier.
Second: Why should I, a very good person, run into the lives of others as an interlude?
Therefore, you should put yourself in the right position and stop obsessing and indulging in it.
Third: self-love, calmness, and then love.
You have to understand that only those who know how to love themselves are entitled to the love of others.
The world is big, there are many good men, why waste time on a wrong person.
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