Two days ago, I opened Weibo and saw a message: The wife of the third young man of the Tang family passed away. Click on the relevant Weibo and see the Weibo sent by Tang Jiasanshao in the early morning:
I just learned about their story in The Reader, and I didn't expect to see this information. His wife has been fighting cancer for three years, looking for famous doctors, originally some improvement, but finally left.
I don't know how Tang Jiasanshao, who loves his wife deeply, will survive this period of time. He also sent this message in the morning, and the sadness in his words was really unbearable.
Tang Jiasan Shao once said, "If she leaves, I will not have myself." ”
137 love letters of love stories
Regarding the name of Tang Jiasanshao, readers who like to read online literature should be more familiar. He is the richest, most prolific and hard-working online writer of the moment, and has been constantly changing for fourteen years.
His works include "Douluo Continent", "Child of Light", "Ice and Fire Magic Kitchen", "Zodiac Patron Saint", "Dionysus", "Dzi Change", "Divine Seal Throne" and so on.
Writing is a mental and physical work, and he can do such diligence because he has a selfless and dedicated wife behind him, Li Mo. And Tang San worked so hard, one was to love writing, and the other was to let his wife live a good life.
A recent TV series, "For You I Am Willing to Love the Whole World", is based on their story.
It's just that the ending of the TV series is happy ending, but the reality is very cruel.
The love that began at the age of 18, the feelings nourished by 137 love letters, the mutual support of 20 years, the wife's ten years and waist-length hair, and the happy marriage of a son and a daughter, but now the heavens are eternally separated, and it is inevitable that people will regret it.
I am willing to love the whole world for you
In Tang San's book, love is single-minded and sweet. Many readers have found that there is always the figure of the third sister-in-law Li Mo.
He said: "That's because I've only been in love once in my life, and I've only had one experience, and I look at my wife every day, and I only have her in my head..."
After 20 years together, I still love you as before. Whoever said that when you enter marriage, love will become affection. If love is there, love lives on.
He wrote their love story into a novel "For You I Am Willing to Love the Whole World", but in the third of the story, Li Mo was ill and had breast cancer.
The book's preface has a passage:
Some people say that two people have been together for a long time, just like the left hand and the right hand, even if they no longer love each other, they will stay together, because they have long been accustomed to it. Occasionally holding together no longer has the feeling of heartbeat, but if you cut off one, it will hurt a lot. But that's not the case for us. We are also a pair of hands, but we are always clasped, never separated...
The original book was called "I am willing to give up the whole world for you", and he said that he could give up the whole world for her. But later he changed "give up" to "love".
"Because all my wife brings me is good, so I want to infect her with optimism, love the world, and love her even more."
On Li Mo's birthday a year after his illness, the book had not yet been published, and Tang San printed a copy in advance as a gift for his wife.
Because the surgery required chemotherapy, Li Mo also cut off the long hair that had been left for ten years and left it for her husband as a birthday gift.
I'm your longest fan
Tang San and Li Mo's love began with online dating.
Li Mo became his girlfriend at the age of 16 and accompanied him for many years. She was Tang San's number one fan and first reader, and she had seen all her works. From a princess of a thousand gold to the wife of the chaff after marrying him, from the ten fingers of the yang spring water to the chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, accompanying him through several ups and downs of life, but never choosing to back down.
Last year, at an award ceremony, Li Mo recorded a VCR for Tang San. Telling the journey of so many years, he also took the small short film as a love letter and gave it back to his husband, encouraging him to adhere to his ideals, adhere to his beliefs, and pay attention to his body.
The host asked mischievously: You wrote more than 100 love letters, and she took a short video back to you, don't you feel at a loss?
Tang San smiled and said, "She has left me long hair for more than ten years, and she has given birth to two children for me, which is already the best she has given me." Because without her support, I believe I would not have been able to do more than five thousand days of continuous change. ”
Behind every man, there is a woman who silently supports him. He bore children, took care of the housework, and maintained the family.
The husband's gratitude and cherishing is also the best gift to his wife.
Write in the last words
Breast cancer has become a disease with a high incidence of cancer in women. Last month also took away the author of "Cherry Pills". And a generation of goddess Audrey Hepburn, Lin Daiyu played by Chen Xiaoxu, singer Yao Beina, also died of breast cancer.
It is recommended that women over the age of 35 should be examined once a year; those under 35 years of age should be examined once every two years; those with benign breast disease, breast cancer family history and advanced maternal age and other high-risk groups of breast cancer should be examined semi-annually.
Husbands, please also pay more attention to your wife, do not take the good time to quarrel, cold war, fighting spirit, can meet and know each other, it is not easy to meet, can become a husband and wife is a special fate, more cherish the pillow people.
May the wood be like a star in the sky, shining, eternally brilliant, and long and peaceful.
Source: Central Committee of the Communist Youth League
EDIT: Mo Mo Da