Zhang Jiaojiao, a 34-year-old northeastern woman, became a mother in January 2019, which was a turning point in her life, and all the joys and sorrows, from this moment on, seemed to be doomed. In 2006, Zhang Jiaojiao was already married to Zhou Xiaoheng, a young man from the same village, because of an accident in 2008, she fell into a crushing fracture of her lumbar coccyx and a crushed fracture of her ankle bone, and almost spent her life in a wheelchair. Doctors advised her that she fell into a bad position and might not be suitable for pregnancy. But Zhang Jiaojiao thought twice, but she still conceived a child in 2018 and is a twin. However, one child was stillborn, and although the other was born smoothly, it also completely shrouded the family under the haze. "Maybe I really don't deserve to have children." Zhang Jiaojiao lamented the injustice of fate to herself. So, what really happened to this family?
Zhang Jiaojiao is from Bin County, Heilongjiang, when she married her lover, she was naked, no bride price and no house, so Zhang Jiaojiao married the love in her heart. Husband Zhou Xiaoheng is hardworking and hardworking, and within two years their lives have improved. But in 2008, Zhang Jiaojiao fell from the stairs and underwent major surgery, and 3 years later, doctors found that the steel nails and stents she operated on were broken. The doctor stressed that if she is pregnant, it may cause the nail to break again, which can seriously cause Zhang Jiaojiao to be paralyzed. After hearing this news, Zhang Jiaojiao's whole body was lost, and her husband comforted her that she could adopt a child in the future, but for a Zhang Jiaojiao, she had a dream of being a mother, and the reality was too cruel for her.
In the early years, Zhang Jiaojiao concentrated on recuperating, but as her friends of the same age became mothers one after another, Zhang Jiaojiao's heart that wanted to be a mother throbbed again. "I decided to give it a fight, even if I tried my best, I wanted to add a child to my family." Zhang Jiaojiao said. In May 2018, Zhang Jiaojiao, who was already 32 years old, successfully became pregnant and confirmed at the time of 4 months of examination that they were twins. The whole family raised Zhang Jiaojiao as a "national treasure", afraid of some accidents. But the next time I went to the hospital, I found that one of the babies had died, and the doctor said that one of the babies was too strong to absorb all the nutrients, resulting in the other dying because there was no nutrition.
This is not a good thing for Zhang Jiaojiao, after all, it will be safer. For the sake of the remaining child, Jiaojiao plucked up courage. Pregnancy was cruel to her, and she was woken up by wounds every day. When the child is 8 months old in the womb, the doctor requires that she have a caesarean section to ensure the safety of the adult. Fortunately, the child was born in good health, and the family named this hard-won boy Hengheng, and the neighbors of the whole village came to congratulate him. "This is the child I bought my life for!" Petite watched the baby grow up day by day, full of tears of emotion and excitement.
Originally, Jiaojiao thought that having a child would be the harshest challenge of her life, but she obviously underestimated the absurdity and hardships of life. In November 2019, when Hengheng was 10 months old, the child had an unknown large bag on his head, and the white blood cells were particularly high in the hospital, and he was finally diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia.
When Zhang Jiaojiao heard the result, her whole body was paralyzed, her head was blank, and her breathing was short. "I felt like I was about to suffocate at that time, and I think God must have thought that I had a great life in my previous life, and that's why I was punished like this in this life." Zhang Jiaojiao said, "Originally we could be as happy as other families, but now I have made all my efforts and given me such a slap in the face." Please, God, leave me the only child, this is the only child in my life. ”
The petite husband and mother-in-law are really good.2 In this case, they not only did not abandon the petite, but also said: The child is the only one in our family, and it is also the only one in your family, and we must cure it. "If I were to change to someone else's house, it would probably be that my children and I would have been swept out of the house." Petite was glad that she married a good family. They did their best to heal Eternity. On December 18, 2019, the couple took Hengheng to Beijing Kyoto Children's Hospital for treatment, and found a compatible donor in the bone marrow bank to prepare for bone marrow transplantation.
"The child is too small, the chemotherapy drugs are too strong, the child can't bear it for a while, and my heart is broken when the bone wears the waist." When he became a mother's petite, watching the child suffer, his heart was like a knife, "His mouth is rotten, and he can't drink his milk." My ass was rotten too, and I was crying in pain. Coupled with the side effects of chemotherapy drugs, the child's whole body is hairy and black, and the whole appearance has changed. I really want to bear all this for my children. ”
After 3 months of chemotherapy, Hengheng entered the warehouse for transplantation on March 9 and successfully exited the warehouse on April 5. Since the child has been sick has spent about 700,000 yuan, at present Hengheng is in the rejection, infection period, the real test is the various stages of rejection after transplantation, the family has sold their property, borrowed money everywhere, and it is difficult to give Hengheng a bone marrow transplant, and cannot give up in the final stage. But in the face of tens of thousands of yuan of treatment fees per day, Zhang Jiaojiao and his wife were overwhelmed. In order to earn some living expenses, Zhang Jiaojiao repaired shoes and shined shoes on the street, and when it was good, she could earn one hundred and eighty a day, but this was enough for the family to fill their stomachs every day.
Zhang Jiaojiao sometimes wondered if she really shouldn't have become a mother, whether she didn't listen to the doctor's persuasion, stubbornly became pregnant, and was punished. But now I can't think about it that much. Saving children is the only way.