"Jane Eyre" is a world famous book that every girl is worth seeing, and Jane Eyre's concept of love is very positive, especially worth learning for girls in love.
When you like it, love it wholeheartedly, love a man without humility, do not feel inferior because of your low status, and do not lose your mind because of the other party's material abundance. In love, Jane Eyre always maintains rationality, comes in and out freely, and controls the rhythm of love.
Her rationality and self-esteem are not available to many girls now. Jane Eyre was born with her parents and was raised by her aunt and uncle. Later, the uncle died, and the aunt did not fulfill her promise to the uncle: treat Jane Eyre well and raise Jane Eyre to grow up.
At her aunt's house, Jane appreciates her aunt's differential treatment, and she is different from her cousin and cousin. Cousins and cousins can bully Jane Eyre at will, and Jane Eyre will be punished by her aunt as long as she resists.
For her aunt, Jane Eyre was a heavy burden, a trouble she wanted to get out of. So even if Jane Ai tries to narrow her presence at home, there is still no way to eliminate her aunt's dislike for her.
When the time came, my aunt sent Jane Eyre to boarding school. There Jane loved to live materially poorly, but inside she was rich and happy. She met a good teacher and made good friends, she was treated kindly by the people around her, and she experienced the respect and love of the people around her. They taught her faith and strength.
In school, Jane Eyre has been studying tirelessly. She became a teacher. She is widening the boundaries of life step by step. Later, in order to find a broader world, she left school and became a tutor, and she was pursuing the life she wanted step by step.
On this road, she met the man she loved. The man was handsome and golden, and he tested Jane's affection for him.
When Jane Eyre found out that her beloved man was going to marry someone else, she still blessed him with a knife and said that she would leave his house when he got married and would not become a burden to him.
People who have loved know that love is not the most grinding, and some people are willing to abandon their self-esteem in order to offset the pain in their hearts, in order to be with each other, and try to please each other, even if they have no name. But Jane Eyre is not such a person. Jane Eyre is: I can tell you I love you and can unabashedly express my feelings, but when I know you don't love me, I have the courage to leave, I love you, it has nothing to do with you.
I was deeply struck by Jane's view of love, and I admired her brave and broken wrist. How many silly girls in life, hurt by lovers, but still unwilling to break up, even if they are hurt and still bitterly keep each other, hoping that the other party can change their minds.
How many girls mistakenly think that they still love each other because they can't stand sleepless nights. How many girls forgive each other's betrayal because of heartache, because they feel that they will die without each other. How many girls, obviously do not love, because they can not stand the life of a person, and do not dare to break up...
Such girls abound in our lives. When we are outsiders, we think that such girls are really stupid, abusing themselves for the sake of people who don't deserve it. When we become insiders, we will feel the pain in our hearts and know how hard it is to let go of the people we love.
But Jane Eyre did. When she was about to enter into marriage with her favorite partner, she unexpectedly learned that the other woman's wife was still alive, and although she was crazy, she was still alive.
Jane Eyre found out and left Thornfield despite Mr. Rochester's retention. Even if she loves someone more, Jane Eyre will not be someone else's mistress, she wants a bright and upright identity. If not, she can give up the relationship together.
The journey was not smooth sailing, Jane Ai lost all her belongings, and her life was in danger along the way. But even so, Jane Eyre did not think of going back.
Slowly she started a new life and found a new job. She still misses Rochester, but no longer envisions the future of the two.
Because of the thoughts in her heart, Jane Eyre sneaked back to Thornfield, but all she was left with was a ruin. Jane inquired about Rochester's whereabouts.
When we met again, Rochester was no longer handsome and wealthy. He was disabled and blind in both eyes. Jane Eyre was not intimidated by Rochester's embarrassment.
After Rochester became a widower and disabled, Jane Eyre chose to stay with Rochester.
The days of separation never cut off Jane Eyre's thoughts about Rochester, and in the days when jane couldn't see Jane Eyre, Jane Eyre was the spiritual pillar of Rochester's life in misery.
Two people in love, even after a brief separation. As long as there is love in the heart, you can still keep each other after going around.
After separation, Jane Eyre and Rochester are more serious about each other's feelings. The barrier between them no longer exists. So even though Rochester wasn't perfect anymore, Jane still chose to be with her. Two people started a happy life together.
Who says fame doesn't matter? The bright and upright identity allows the men and women in the relationship to love each other in a dignified manner, and the emotions between them are worthy of love, otherwise it is just an underground love that cannot be put on stage.
Girls don't be stupid, if a man can't have a bright and righteous love identity, he doesn't love you at all, just wants to play with you, just wants to minimize the risk of being with you, and just wants to dump you when he doesn't want to play.