As a parent, I believe that everyone wants their children to become the dragon and phoenix among people, and many parents are also trying to do everything for the future of their children.
In the eyes of parents, children are the whole of life, and if their children are very prominent in their grades, parents are very happy.
In an ordinary family in Hunan, there is such a child with very good grades, and everyone in the local area also calls him a "prodigy".
However, such a prodigy brings glory to his parents at the same time, but also makes his parents extremely sad.
In 1983, in Huarong County, Hunan, a boy fell to the ground and his parents named him "Wei Yongkang".
At first, the parents' idea was very simple, they only wanted their children to be a healthy and happy person, and parents did not ask for anything for his studies.
When Wei Yongkang was very young, his father was paralyzed due to illness, and the family that was not rich was even worse, and the family's livelihood fell on the shoulders of his mother.
Wei Yongkang has been very sensible since he remembered, he also understands the hardships of his parents, and in terms of learning, Wei Yongkang will never let his mother worry.
Every time she came back from school, she finished her homework first, and her mother was very pleased to see that Wei Yongkang was so studious, and she also fantasized in her heart that Wei Yongkang could be admitted to college as soon as possible.
What she did not expect was that Wei Yongkang was very talented in learning, he was admitted to high school when he was 8 years old, and at the age of 13, he was admitted to Xiangtan University.
Wei Yongkang's deeds also spread throughout the county, and everyone also called him a "genius child", and some people called him an "Oriental prodigy".
Because such a thing rarely happened, Wei Yongkang's mother felt very honorable, and he felt that her son's future was very impressive.
When Wei Yongkang's deeds spread throughout the streets, many media also wanted to interview him, but Wei Yongkang's mother refused in order not to delay her son's study.
The media then approached Mr. Wei's school and asked him about his former teacher how he had studied.
When wei Yongkang's school was found, the principal of the school used only 8 words to evaluate Wei Yongkang:
"Genius and eccentric again."
The protagonist Wei Yongkang suddenly received a lot of attention, he did not immerse himself in these praises, but continued to study hard.
When he was 17 years old, he was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and his mother was also very pleased, and she felt that the phrase she often said: "Everything is inferior, only the reading is high", which is a very reasonable sentence.
However, not long after Wei Yongkang entered the Chinese Academy of Sciences, he was dropped out of school, and many people wanted to know the reason for this.
So after the media learned of this news, they also found Wei Yongkang's mother, and everyone was also very shocked after learning the reason for dropping out of school.
It turned out that the reason why Wei Yongkang was dropped out of school was that he had no ability to take care of himself, when he was very young, he did not help his parents to do housework, and when he grew up, he still did not do any housework.
Before Wei Yongkang went to the Chinese Academy of Sciences, his time was spent studying, and he never stopped.
When a child his age is playing, he is learning, when others are learning, he is also learning, and when others are eating and sleeping, he is still learning.
When his mother saw her child working so hard, she also said to Wei Yongkang: "You don't have to care about anything, just study hard."
Wei Yongkang is also very obedient, all his energy is focused on learning, as long as there is something to find his mother, even the simplest meal is her mother feeding.
The most important thing is that his mother feels that there is nothing wrong with this, and his son should focus on learning.
In the end, this still harmed Wei Yongkang, when Wei Yongkang lived alone in the Chinese Academy of Sciences, he could not take care of himself in his daily life, that is, he did not know how to do it even if he simply said hello.
His situation, which we often call "nerds", the school leaders, after seeing Wei Yongkang's performance, after many discussions, decided to dissuade Wei Yongkang.
The fact that Wei Yongkang was persuaded to retire caused a great sensation, and it was only then that everyone knew that the original "prodigy" was not as simple as we thought.
After Wei Yongkang was persuaded to retreat, she didn't know how to go home, her mother had to come to pick him up, and when she saw Wei Yongkang, she also broke down and cried, and she said emotionally: "I would rather not give birth to him!" ”
After Wei Yongkang experienced being dropped out of school, he did not give up on himself, but began to learn from scratch.
After returning home, Wei Yongkang started with the simplest things, and soon he took care of his life in an orderly manner.
Wei Yongkang also did not put down his studies, and in 2009, Wei Yongkang also made a comeback and was admitted to Beijing University of Technology.
This time on the university campus, Wei Yongkang has changed a lot, and he has an opinion on what he does.
After graduation, he still did not give up the dream of being a scientist, he went to several companies, and finally took root in Nanjing, and now his work is mainly software development.
Wei Yongkang, who has a fixed job, also found his other half early, his wife is also a college student, and the two now have a son.
Now Wei Yongkang dares to communicate with others, and every day after returning home from work, he will take his son for a walk in the park with his wife, and his life is also very fulfilling.
Wei Yongkang's life 26 years ago can be said to be mixed with luck and bad luck, if her mother had not been so doting on the child, perhaps Wei Yongkang could have realized her dream of being a scientist early.
Fortunately, it is not too late for him to change, so he will have today's achievements, and I hope that his future life can be happy.
Wei Yongkang's incident is also a wake-up call for many parents, we can let children study seriously, but also give children time to play, so that children will be better.
I hope that some parents' education methods can be changed and give their children some personal space.