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In the hazy past of the Republic of China, the story of talented women is always talked about.
When it comes to those romantic and legendary loves, you can't miss the match between Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin.
As the recognized first talented woman of the Republic of China, Lin Huiyin is not only beautiful and elegant, but also strong and independent, gentle and tolerant... Even living in a turbulent and chaotic world, she still lived as she expected, and she also got the life and love she wanted.
Marrying Liang Sicheng, although it is to follow the orders of the oldest parents and the words of the matchmaker, the two know each other and pity each other, and interpret this marriage into the most envied story in the world.
For Liang Sicheng: Lin Huiyin is not only his wife, but also a strange woman who has a deep cultivation in literature, art, architecture and even philosophy, and is also a strong woman who is willing to endure any pain for the cause of architecture.
Unfortunately, fate is jealous: this pair of talented women who are deeply in love with each other did not usher in the most romantic white-headed old age.
Because of years of fatigue and travel, Lin Huiyin, who was tormented by illness, finally died in April 1955.
Lin Huiyin's death gave Liang Sicheng a great blow, and since then, his personality has become more and more silent and introverted, and he has closed his door except for work, and this lonely and quiet life of living alone slowly seems to be adapted by his family.
But what the family did not expect was that at some point, a woman walked into Liang Sicheng's life, giving him the warmth and stability he longed for the most, so that Liang Sicheng, who was emotionally blank, could get rid of the entanglement of loneliness and miss.
1962 was also the 7th year of Lin Huiyin's death.
Suddenly, Mr. Liang, 61, made a "ridiculous" decision to marry Mr. Lin, a student of Mr. Lin, who was 27 years younger than himself.
When friends learned the news, they were even more stunned, and people advised Liang Sicheng one after another:
"A woman 27 years younger than you, marrying you old man in his 60s, you say she is not trying to get your money and fame, what are you?"
In the eyes of family and friends, the decision came too abruptly and too unacceptably.
In order to prevent this "absurdity" from happening, Liang Sicheng's children and many friends have tried their best to do their best, including many who threaten to break up with each other; but even so, Liang Sicheng is still unmoved and marries Lin Su into the family.
Perhaps Liang Sicheng would not have thought that this decision to act obstinately would plunge himself into a situation of late life and insecurity; and lin Su, the second wife who happily married into the Liang family, looked back at the old past, and perhaps had an unspeakable dazedness and trance:
In this fate-twisting marriage, she seems to get everything she wants; but carefully flipping through the dusty past, it seems that the bamboo basket is empty, and she does not get anything but ridicule and sarcasm...
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The news of Liang Sicheng's announcement of remarriage was supported by everyone; because no one wanted to see that this remarkable architectural talent would fall into the pain and sorrow of losing his beloved all day long, and he would be depressed for a lifetime.
However, for the two words "Lin Su", everyone is like a great enemy; whether it is Liang Sicheng's family, friends or colleagues, they are firmly opposed to this upcoming marriage, and his close friend Zhang Xiruo even said: If Liang Sicheng marries Lin Su, he will break off his friendship with him.
The reason for everyone's resistance to Lin Su must start from Lin Su's marriage and choice!
Born in 1928, Lin Su, because of her competitive spirit and desire to become an only female, is also extremely hard at studying.
Her teacher-student relationship with Lin Huiyin also began with a letter of help.
It was 1948, and 20-year-old Lin Su came to Tsinghua to study.
Because his father and Lin Huiyin were related to each other, his father wrote a trust to pay Lin Huiyin to help take care of it.
At that time, although Lin Su was young, she was extremely eager to get ahead; when she learned that Tsinghua students were full of talents, she had the idea of entering the advanced course of Tsinghua University, but the English was a mess, which became the biggest obstacle to study.
In order to help Lin Su realize her dream of studying, Lin Huiyin personally tutored Lin Su's English every Tuesday and Friday; at that time, Lin Huiyin was seriously ill and bedridden, and her body was extremely weak. But because it was entrusted by her fellow villagers, she couldn't bear to refuse, so she dragged the sick body to Lin Su to make up lessons.
Because she often went in and out of Lin Huiyin's house, Lin Su and Liang Sicheng also slowly became acquainted; even half a century after the object was not human, she still remembered the opening sentence of the other party when she first saw Liang Sicheng: "Such a beautiful girl, it must be Miss Lin!" ”
Because of this familiarity, Liang Sicheng also became a witness to Lin Su and her first husband, Cheng Yingquan.
Speaking of: Cheng Yingquan can also be regarded as Lin Su's teacher.
After Lin Su entered Tsinghua University as he wished, he met Cheng Yingquan, who taught in the Department of Architecture.
He is a humble gentleman with a humorous conversation, and he is also a young teacher with great spirits; such an identity and knowledge deeply attract Lin Su.
Therefore, despite her father's objections, Lin Su fell in love with Cheng Yingquan and married; and used this marriage as a springboard for a new life.
But after all, good expectations are the illusion created by personal subjectivity, and the real appearance of marriage ultimately violates Lin Su's expectations.
Because Cheng Yingquan had just arrived at Tsinghua to teach, the salary and treatment were not as good as Lin Su imagined; in the mediation of chai rice oil and salt, Lin Su also complained and accused her husband more, and the feelings between the two were not as good as before.
It is worth mentioning that in the special era, Cheng Yingquan, who had a straight temperament, had disputes with two people with different positions because of academic problems, and finally under the planning of the other party, he became the object of criticism, and his career reputation was seriously damaged.
Marriage is originally a mutual support and trek of thousands of mountains and rivers, but in Lin Su's eyes, the husband who is in distress has become the biggest drag on the family and himself.
When Cheng Yingquan needed support and help the most, Lin Su chose to leave without hesitation; he did not even let Cheng Yingquan meet with the two children, on the grounds that "you can't let the father drag the children down." ”
She told Cheng Yingquan:
If he could get rid of his crime and become the architecture teacher in two years, they would have a chance to remarry.
Lin Su's various practices also made the people of Tsinghua Garden feel stunned; it was also at this time that questions about Lin Su's character also came to question.
In fact, the suffering suffered by Cheng Yingquan is not a personal reason, but a disaster that the times cannot avoid; as long as it survives, it will surely usher in a turning point.
However, Lin Su's approach made Cheng Yingquan suffer a blow, and also made him extremely desperate for marriage; he was independent and strong, and in despair, he finally chose to commit suicide by throwing himself into the river.
According to the memories of the Cheng family's relatives, when the two divorced, Lin Su once said to Cheng Yingquan:
He only had two things that made her feel good; one was that in 1956, as a member of the delegation of Chinese architects, he visited Poland and other Eastern European countries, and Lin Su, as the wife of a young architect, felt that the scenery was infinite; the other was that he translated a lot of good books and received a lot of writing fees.
It is not difficult to find that the happy experience identified by Lin Su in this marriage actually points directly to fame and fortune.
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When Liang Sicheng announced his marriage to Lin Su, the crowd was extremely repulsive:
Because of Lin Su's various practices towards her ex-husband, everyone in Tsinghua Park is well known.
Whether it is family lineage, personality, or academics and personality, Lin Su and Lin Huiyin can be described as thousands of miles apart.
Under this unconscious comparison, people's sense of rejection of Lin Su became thicker.
But the 61-year-old Liang Sicheng, who seems to be enchanted with firmness, did not hesitate to break off his friendship with his best friend Mr. Zhang Xiruo, or married Lin Su back home.
The marriage that is not recognized naturally brings endless burdens; Liang Sicheng, who was once revered as a master builder, because of this stubborn choice, has more absurd thin feelings, so that the late festival is not guaranteed, and people still can't let go.
In fact, in this marriage, what is under pressure is not only Liang Sicheng, who insists on continuing the string?
Lin Su, who is rejected by everyone, may not think of it himself: marrying a generation of architectural talents, the scenery is difficult to hide.
Admittedly, Liang Sicheng gave Lin Su the greatest glory: she is Liang Sicheng's legal wife and can enjoy the treatment of vice minister; going out is a special car transfer, and can follow Liang Sicheng to a foreign country or vacation at any time...
Liang Sicheng gave more to her former husband Cheng Yingquan; what her former husband Cheng Yingquan did not give her, Liang Sicheng also gave effortlessly.
But no matter how much glory there is, some truths can never be hidden:
As a continuation of the string, Lin Su, since marrying Liang Sicheng, has begun a nanny-style busyness, she not only has to take care of her husband in her 60s, but also serves Lin Huiyin's mother in her 80s; in order to get Liang Sicheng's recognition and smiling face, she has been busy with housework all day, and there is almost no time to breathe.
In addition, Lin Su did not change her life against the sky here in Liang Sicheng; she had tried to find a stable place for her two children, but Liang Sicheng's marriage seemed to have never planned for Lin Su's children.
You know: Liang Sicheng's income is very high, and even the maids in the family have a special room; but even so, he never allows Lin Su's two children to live in the house; once he encountered two children taking a bath at home and found that the bathroom was dirty, Liang Sicheng was directly angry and asked the two children to write a review immediately.
Therefore, Lin Su's marriage to Liang Sicheng did not bring any favorable changes in the lives of the two children; on the contrary, since she married into the Liang family, the two children have lived with their grandmother, because the house is small and broken, and her brother Lin Zhe can only sleep in the kitchen.
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Since marrying Liang Sicheng, Lin Su has been compared with Lin Huiyin by all parties.
To say that it is a comparison is nothing more than a satire of the difference between clouds and mud: because Lin Huiyin's talent and achievements are the height that Lin Su cannot surpass in his lifetime, her appearance cannot replace Lin Huiyin's status, nor can it replace Lin Huiyin's importance in Liang Sicheng's life.
As the saying goes: You are not blessed in a blessing!
I think the meaning of this sentence is also directed at the greed and delusion of human nature.
Lin Su married Liang Sicheng and got her beautiful marriage; but the humiliation and shackles brought about by this marriage also made her heart greedy, trying to want more.
And Lin Huiyin, the mentor who once dragged the sick body and helped her with her homework, became a nail-like existence.
Shortly after the two married, Lin Su, who had been living in the shadow of Lin Huiyin, finally broke out.
She was very dissatisfied with the practice of keeping traces of Lin Huiyin's life everywhere in her home, so she took off the huge portrait of Lin Huiyin in the living room by declaring her status.
She wanted to prove to everyone that she was the mistress of the Liang family.
But she did not expect that this move would eventually hurt herself.
Liang Sicheng's daughter Liang Zaibing originally disagreed with her father's marriage to Lin Su; when she found out that her mother's portrait had been removed, she angrily slapped Lin Su in the dispute with Lin Su.
When Liang Sicheng learned of this, he did not blame his daughter for ignoring the elders, nor did he enlighten Lin Su, who was "bullied".
He seemed to be indifferent to himself, and he seemed to be extremely tired of coping: Let this family stop and stop!
Does Liang Sicheng love Lin Su in the end?
In Liang Sicheng's last ten years, it was Lin Su who gave him care and warmth, and I can't be sure that he never moved his heart; but on the matter of Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng's position was incomparably firm.
That is: nothing can replace lin Huiyin's position and importance.
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What really tested the marriage between the two was the catastrophe that surged undercurrents.
In 1966, Liang Sicheng, who had made outstanding contributions to the cause of architecture, was branded a "reactionary academic authority" in an absurd atmosphere, and his family's property was confiscated and all economic resources were lost.
This change in the family has hit Lin Su hard.
Seeing marriage as a springboard for life, she has always wanted to live a life of recognition and respect as "Lady Liang"; but before everything can be realized, all hopes are doused by the cruel reality.
Everyone thought that Lin Su was about to stage the scene of "abandoning her husband and going away" again, but what was unexpected was that Lin Su did not cry or make trouble in the face of this huge change, but chose to accompany Liang Sicheng and carry the burden of life with him.
On the most difficult day, Liang Sicheng could not be hospitalized, and Lin Su learned how to inject, how to measure body temperature, and how to dispense medicines.
Liang Sicheng was thirsty, she sent hot water; Liang Sicheng was hungry, she held up the ingredients she had just made; Liang Sicheng did not sleep well during his illness, she massaged him over and over again to relax; Liang Sicheng wanted to work, she took paper and pencil...
In addition, she also had to do her best to support her family, and during that time, she became the pillar of the family.
In 1972, Liang Sicheng died of illness.
Before dying, he sighed at his friend Chen Zhanxiang, who accompanied him: "Over the years, thanks to Lin Su. ”
This 8 characters, which are full of complex emotions, also became Liang Sicheng's last words to Lin Su.
Carefully reading Liang Sicheng's sentence, many things that are difficult to determine seem to have dusty answers.
At that time, he insisted on marrying Lin Su as a wife, perhaps more like a forced choice.
Over sixty years old, he needs to be taken care of, and he also needs someone to take care of Lin Huiyin's mother; and Lin Su's appearance just solves Liang Sicheng's problem.
In other words: he never seems to need a lover again, but he needs a partner to accompany him in his old age, or a nanny...
After Liang Sicheng's death, Lin Su once commented on him: "Such a person, I am like a treasure." ”
Lin Su finally got something: the scenery or the honor... All of them were given to her by Liang Sicheng, which is gratitude and the exchange of ten years of time.
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Many people are wondering:
Former husband Cheng Yingquan fell into trouble, Lin Su chose to abandon without hesitation; in his later years, Liang Sicheng was affected, but Lin Su made the opposite decision, using the company of not abandoning to help Liang Sicheng spend his last time.
Is this heavenly difference between choices because of love?
Maybe! Women who fall in love always have the courage to fight for themselves, and they also have the tenacity of superpowers.
Of course, it is more likely to be a helpless move to weigh the pros and cons -
It should be known that when she divorced Cheng Yingquan, Lin Su was still young and had many choices and possibilities;
After meeting Liang Sicheng, Lin Su's perennial efforts made Lin Su exhausted, and she was ridiculed for various actions; in the face of these surging torrents of the times, she did not dare and could not make any eye-catching decisions.
Careful analysis, it is inevitable to feel that human nature is thin and cool.
In this world of camping, everyone is doing their best to find a refuge to protect themselves; but how many storms there are in this world are meant to beat and temper the world.
Marriage or life, once mixed with some calculations, always lose the taste; only by learning to bear and face, can we get breakthrough growth.
If Lin Su knew about the relationship, would he still make the decisive choice of "abandoning his husband and abandoning his family"?
She has always been a clever woman, but this cleverness is too sharp, scratching too many innocent people...