I don't know if there is anyone who likes the TV series "Parental Love" as much as I do.
Last night, I had some free time, turned on the TV, searched again, and finally chose to watch "Parental Love" more than once, to be honest, this drama is really tired of watching. The actor's acting skills have nothing to say, it is really good, very grounded, the characters are portrayed very full, and the living conditions of that era are truly reproduced.
The story begins when Anjie was forced by the situation to go to the ball held by the military academy and met Jiang Defu, thus beginning their happy lifelong love journey.
Anjie, who likes to watch Mei Ting play, looks beautiful and generous, knowledgeable and reasonable, and is higher than many people at that time on a spiritual level. No one could have dreamed that she would choose a "big old man" as her husband.
But the yin and yang were wrong, the fate was so unpredictable, they finally came together, and gave birth to a group of children, happily hand in hand for a lifetime.
Why would Anjie, who is like a white swan, marry the "big old man" Jiang Defu? The following are the factors that contributed to the marriage:
1. Anjie's family origin
Coming from a bad background, always having a low brow and being often sneered at by others, this is the norm of Anjie's life. But since interacting with Jiang Defu, everything has changed, and all the people around her have different attitudes towards her.
At home, the brother and sister-in-law hoped that Anjie would find an officer who could support the façade and make up for the problems of family origin that plagued them, so they gave Anjie more concern and offered to boil mung bean soup to give her a fire.
In the unit, the eyes of leaders and colleagues looking at her have also changed, no longer cold to her, and their attitude towards her has begun to improve. Anjie has the experience of being noticed, envied, and looked at differently, and she enjoys all this, so she is not very repulsive to Jiang Defu, who is not at a cultural level, which gives Jiang Defu the opportunity to attack.
When their marriage was hindered by Anjie's social relations, Jiang Defu's attitude of not being relentless and not marrying Anjie impressed Anjie, who was at a disadvantage and had a fragile heart, so she agreed to marry Jiang Defu. Such a marriage was the most appropriate in that era.
Man is a social animal, human emotions, cognition, behavior is unconsciously affected by society and groups, everyone wants to be recognized and respected, living in the human population, you can not care about the surrounding environment.
2. Jiang Defu's personal charm
In the process of gradual exchanges, Anjie found that although Jiang Defu's cultural level is not high, he has many advantages, he has a scheming, very smart, he is good at learning, everywhere attentive, trying to accept new things, slowly changing himself.
Although he is not accustomed to dancing with men and women, and said that he will never find a woman to dance in a partner, he can go from not liking to dancing and not dancing to trying to dance.
He saw that Anjie's feet were broken, so he thoughtfully helped her and the leader said to let her go back, which can be said to be a hero to save the United States, which made Anjie feel grateful.
Realizing that his handwriting was not good, he stepped up his practice in a short period of time and quickly improved himself, so that Anjie was impressed by him.
He is not hypocritical, does not hide, when he goes to Anjie's house as a guest, he easily resolves the embarrassment of not drinking coffee for himself, and can also do what he likes and take Anjie to the café to drink coffee.
He is honest and simple, principled, although he likes Anjie, he did not accept Lao Ding's suggestion of "raw rice cooked and cooked to mature rice", and risked breaking up to confess to Anjie that he had been married.
He really likes Anjie, and in order to marry Anjie, he will not hesitate to give up everything and return to the field, which makes Anjie greatly moved.
These are all the plus points of Jiang Defu, and compared with the difference in living habits, these are the most important things in being a human being, and it is his shining points that attract Anjie.
3. Anjie has a different personality from her sister
Anjie was the smartest woman, and she didn't have the arrogant obsession of her sister. She can adapt to the situation and keep pace with the times, she does not look down on Jiang Defu, who has a low level of education like her sister and brother-in-law, but is good at discovering his advantages and married a man who likes her, appreciates her, and spoils her.
Anjie's marriage is the most successful, when she learned that Jiang Defu really liked him, she and Secretary Yang said that it was to go back to the countryside to eat chaff and pharyngeal vegetables, she could also marry Jiang Defu, at this time, Jiang Defu, who was standing outside the door, heard Anjie's decision, and had mixed feelings, and at the same time, he secretly resolved that he must protect this woman and give her happiness.
Anjie will live, understand life, after marriage she uses her own habits to influence and transform Jiang Defu, married to Jiang Defu she can willfully live the life she likes in the way she likes, she has made people live into what she likes.
People need to let go of attachment.
4. Matchmaking of people around you
The strong matchmaking between the principal and Secretary Yang is crucial, the first time, the husband and wife each invited the male and female protagonists to participate in the dance, so that Jiang and An knew each other, and the second time, they gave a formal introduction to Jiang and An at their own home. The third time, Jiang Defu went to the hospital to deliver burn medicine to Anjie, and Secretary Yang helped to contact him. The fourth time, Secretary Yang specially arranged for Anjie to invite Jiang Defu to make a heroic deeds report, which gave the two people the opportunity to contact and enhanced Jiang Defu's status in Anjie's mind through the deeds report.
Brother-in-law Anjie was also actively promoting this marriage, the brother was overwhelmed with excitement when he received Jiang Defu's call, and even said that he was Antai's brother, and also blamed Anjie for not being active and enthusiastic in receiving Jiang Defu's phone, and later personally called to invite Jiang Defu to come to the house as a guest, giving the two people the opportunity to know more.
Anjie is the happiest woman in the play, in every period of life, Jiang Defu shields her from the wind and rain, whether materially or spiritually she is satisfied, she is admired by men, envied by women, and it turns out that her choice is correct. Anjie is happy and lucky!
"Parental Love"
"Parental Love" family portrait