Ever heard of the grand concubine?
This kind of similar plot takes place in some idol TV series and novels, and Cinderella, who has nothing, happens to enter the domineering president's house as a nanny.
The domineering president does not love anyone, all kinds of famous people do not look at it, they love the arrogant Cinderella, and Cinderella also hates the overbearing president very much.
But the overbearing president just couldn't catch up, and finally Cinderella was moved, and the two went through hardships, established a deep relationship, and finally came together happily.
Although this kind of plot does satisfy the fantasies of many people, the probability of this kind of thing happening is extremely low, and even if there is, it is not as beautiful as imagined.
In 2009, because of the outbreak of the mother-in-law conflict, Zhang Ru was kicked out of the house by her mother-in-law, so she took her husband and children, rented a room outside, and prepared to start another stove to live.
More than ten years have passed, and the mother-in-law who visited relatives abroad some time ago suddenly returned, and as a result, her husband would divorce him not long ago.
In July last year, when the in-laws returned from abroad, her husband was estranged from herself, and she thought that something had happened to her husband, and later learned that her in-laws had returned.
As a result, it did not take long for the husband to take a divorce agreement to sign himself, Zhang Ru said that there was no contradiction between the husband and wife, and the husband's sudden divorce must have ulterior motives.
Remembering her own experience of being driven out, this divorce is estimated to have a husband's family figure, Zhang Ru can not accept this result.
Zhang Ru was born in the countryside, her husband Qin Tianyuan had a good family affair, his parents were working in government agencies, Zhang Ru was also considered to be married into a rich family, and was envied by many people.
At that time, the parents of both sides were very optimistic about this marriage, so how could Zhang Ru be expelled?
Zhang Ru said that after getting married, the family lived together, naturally there were some contradictions, and later the sister grew up the contradiction was more and more acute, and several people in the husband's family beat themselves, and they couldn't stand this nest before moving out.
After getting married, the mother-in-law often finds herself in trouble, today the clothes are missing, tomorrow the cotton thread is lost, these mother-in-law blame themselves, saying that they stole something.
Originally, I and my husband have moved out for more than ten years, but now that the mother-in-law has returned on the front foot, the husband's back foot is about to divorce, which must have been instigated by the mother-in-law.
For Zhang Ru's speculation, the mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law herself did not want to be with her son, and also accused the daughter-in-law of refusing to sleep in a bed with her son.
When I came back in July last year, I saw that my son actually looked like a 70-year-old man, and his skinny appearance looked very frightening.
When he was still in England, his son once called himself, "Mom, you come back quickly, or I will die." ”
The mother-in-law said that it was not her own instigation of her son, but the son himself who wanted to divorce, because his son inadvertently discovered the daughter-in-law's secret.
After the son's tracking, it was found that the daughter-in-law was actually having an affair with other men outside, and the husband Qin Tianyuan loudly said that his wife betrayed him, but there was no substantial evidence in his hands.
Zhang Ru immediately denied that this was completely her husband catching the wind and catching shadows, he went to work every day to make money, how did his husband become a betrayal of marriage.
However, Qin Tianyuan said that his wife has not been sleeping with herself in the past six months, and has begun to dress up and paint lipstick and draw eyebrows, if the wife is not going out to date people, why should she dress up like this.
Although the wife said that she was going out for a walk, but the wife just refused to take herself, called her wife herself, and it was actually a man who picked her up and let her get up, which is not a betrayal.
The mother-in-law said that she had recently heard some rumors from her daughter-in-law, and now that her son said so, there is no doubt that her daughter-in-law has betrayed her marriage.
The mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law and her son have long been gone, the daughter-in-law is looking at her own family's money, and when the two get married, they all rely on themselves to support themselves, but the daughter-in-law as a whole goes out to live, that is, to divide the family property, so that the second elder will transfer the house to his son's name.
For the mother-in-law's accusations, Zhang Ru denied it, and Zhang Ru believed that the mother-in-law was just borrowing the topic to play, thinking that she was worthless and wanted to drive herself away.
When he insisted on moving out, it was not to divide the family property, but to live too wronged, and his mother-in-law would find trouble with herself, beat herself, and say that she stole things every day.
If she didn't do it, she naturally had to argue a few words, but the mother-in-law did not allow herself to argue at all, but instead accused herself of talking to her.
I have been married for 25 years, and I have paid diligently to this family, saying that I am a daughter-in-law, in fact, I am a nanny, and now I am more than half a hundred years old, and I have to cross the river and tear down the bridge without using the value of my in-laws.
Now the various reasons are to drive themselves away, after all, if you want to add to the sin, why bother, but the mother-in-law said that this is all the daughter-in-law lying, in fact, the daughter-in-law is very fierce to herself, what is right or wrong?
Qin Tianyuan had a high fever when he was one year old, which led to his physical disability, so it was naturally very difficult to find an object when he came to find him.
When it came to the age of marriage, but there was no object for a long time, Qin Tianyuan's parents had good conditions, so they targeted their parents' rural areas, and on the pretext of hiring a nanny, they were actually looking for wives for their sons.
22-year-old Zhang Ru came to the Qin family to start a nanny, Zhang Ru confessed that she had been a nanny for a year without getting any money, and only gave 200 yuan and a ticket to go home in the New Year.
In fact, to say that it is a nanny, in fact, to find a partner for Qin Tianyuan, Zhang Ru actually knows and trusts and accepts, in Zhang Ru's words, working in the city is easier than in the countryside, and at that time they were proud to marry into the city.
However, Zhang Ru did not live the good life she expected, but fell into a quagmire that made her unable to get out.
After marriage, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law friction continued, from the initial quarrel to the hands, and Qin regarded herself as a nanny, and the family threw herself into a person.
Qin Tianyuan also has a younger sister, and the burden of taking care of her sister-in-law after marriage also fell on Zhang Ru's head, and Zhang Ru and Qin Tianyuan's children were also born, and all kinds of pressure were pressed on Zhang Ru's shoulders.
Later, Zhang Ru not only had to be responsible for the family's life, but also had to go out to make money, slightly inferior to her mother-in-law's intentions, and was also scolded by her mother-in-law.
If she dared to give feedback, she would immediately be attacked by the whole family, such a life made Zhang Ru very depressed, and it was also very different from the life of the giants she imagined.
She seems to have completed the transformation from nanny to wife, and completed the counterattack from the countryside to the city, but Zhang Ru often feels that her life is not good when she is in the countryside.
After the conflict broke out completely, Zhang Ru moved out with her husband and children, and at that time, she had no money and could only rent a rough house.
Many of these things in the family are picked up by Zhang Ru outside, and Zhang Ru said that he usually buys vegetables and runs to buy special-priced dishes.
It is precisely because of their frugality and hard work, the family is barely maintained, although the mother-in-law promised to give the child 700 yuan a month living expenses, but the husband's salary is stuck in the mother-in-law, in fact, this money is still the husband out.
Even though he had separated from the Qin family, the economic power of the small family was still in the hands of the mother-in-law, who now took back Qin Tianyuan and cut off her rent.
Also framed themselves for cheating and their hands and feet are not clean, in fact, they see that they have no use value, and they just find a reason to kick themselves away.
Colleagues' opinions:
A person who has worked with Zhang Ru for more than 20 years said that Zhang Ru has always been a diligent and sincere person in his work.
In her opinion, Zhang Ru is a generous and honest person, and she does not have any rhetoric at all, although she married a rich husband, but in recent years Zhang Ru has worked harder than ordinary women.
Every morning at five o'clock to get up to make breakfast, the income is not high but to support the family's life, these twenty years Zhang Ru has worked hard, no merit should also be a little hard work.
Now that the Qin family has done this, zhang ru has been left homeless and she is also upset about it, which is simply too bullying Zhang Ru to be honest.
Now colleagues also said that Zhang Ru is very good, not like her mother-in-law said that there are petty theft behavior, these are her mother-in-law blind.
And the mother-in-law also came to beat Zhang Ru several times, although she did not know why, but Zhang Ru was silently beaten every time and did not fight back.
Although he was treated like this, Zhang Ru still did his best to take care of her husband and children, and the average person may have stopped doing it for a long time.
After working together for so many years, I have never seen her smile, Zhang Ru is completely closed to herself, and how can there be friends of the opposite sex, this is completely slander.
Zhang Ru has such a strong mother-in-law, and they are not surprised that the mother-in-law asked Zhang Ru to clean up the house.
The mother-in-law said that the daughter settled in the family outside, and now these must be left to the son in the future, the daughter-in-law is too anxious, wants to seek property, and she also helps the daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's family a lot, just to stabilize the daughter-in-law.
After Zhang Ru married into the Qin family, the Qin family has experienced two house demolitions, and the demolition of the old house was divided into two houses, and the results were all placed in the name of their daughter.
The welfare house under Qin Tianyuan's name, after the demolition, got more than 800,000 yuan, and was also detained by the in-laws, which Zhang Ru only knew through the newspaper.
This money is obviously Qin Tianyuan, but the in-laws and mother-in-law refuse to buy a new house for their son, because they are worried about their own real estate.
The husband is unreliable, Zhang Ru called her son for advice, but the son stood on the side of the mother-in-law and complained that Zhang Ru failed to give herself a good life.
Although the son supports his mother's divorce, he does not support his mother to ask his grandmother for money and a house, and even thinks that his mother is unreasonable.
The son's words immediately made Zhang Ru collapse, the husband and mother-in-law were so to themselves, Zhang Ru could know, but she could not accept that the son who was brought up by her own hard work was also the same.
The son Qin Kai is quite tall, but he and Zhang Ru are now a little angry, and they are also very indifferent to their mother's crying, which makes Zhang Ru even more angry.
Zhang Ru believes that her son feels that his conditions are not good, unlike his grandparents who can provide him with good conditions, Qin Kai uses his own understanding to try to refute.
Regarding divorce and property division, Qin Tianyuan, who is in his fifties, said that he had no right to answer the matter, because he was a disabled person, and the answer could not be answered until his parents returned.
Zhang Ru said that her ultimate goal is not to divorce or divide the family property, but to let herself have a place to live, and at the same time hopes to get rid of the identity of the nanny and truly integrate into the family, rather than a puppet manipulated by the mother-in-law.
Qin Tianyuan did not give an answer, and the mother-in-law said that she would no longer negotiate with Zhang Ru, and Zhang Ru could divorce at any time, but the family property had nothing to do with Zhang Ru.
The mother-in-law's words made Zhang Ru very broken, paying for this family for so many years, in the end there was not even a place to live, and finally Zhang Ru's sister did not want to let the marriage be wronged again, and wanted to take her sister home.
Zhang Ru is also willing to leave the house and sue for divorce, recalling her own experience for so many years, Zhang Ru's heart is also sighing.
In the eyes of outsiders, he was "climbing a high branch", and he also thought so at that time, and wanted to use marriage to change his own life.
But this kind of marriage without emotional basis must be full of crises, and I have always been an outsider, a nanny that they have never paid attention to.
This Zhang Ru chose to divorce, but there are still many Zhang Ru who are following in the footsteps, and there are many women who fantasize about changing their lives through marriage.
Pan Gaozhi was not as happy as he thought, he did not have the ability to manage happiness, and in the end he could only suffer.
Get married or find someone you like, don't pay too much attention to material conditions, after all, other people's things are always other people's things, and they are more practical in their own struggle.
Author: Mushroom
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