The Room N incident, the sexual assault of an adopted daughter by an executive... One sad news after another, pointing the finger at the sexual abuse of minors, has aroused widespread concern. This fear of being dominated by "darkness" was also a shadow of Jia Jingwen's childhood.
With "The Distance Between Us and Evil", Jia Jingwen successfully counterattacked and became a hot hit, and also became a guest in the new issue of "Lu Yu Has About a Day". In the preview of the show, Jia Jingwen took Lu Yu for a walk in the streets of Taipei, recalling her experience of growing up here.
When the two strolled to a small park, perhaps because of the touch of the scene, it evoked Jia Jingwen's memories of "childhood shadows".
When Jia Was 5 or 6 years old, she played slides in the park. A strange man dragged her down the slide and dragged her into the small toilet next to her.
Fortunately, Jia Jingwen's cousin was present, pulled her out of the small toilet and shouted around to attract the attention of others, so that Jia Jingwen was protected from the "pervert". However, this terrible experience became a shadow of her childhood, and every time she came to the park, she had a lingering feeling.
Fortunately, this frightening experience did not bring serious psychological trauma to Jia Jingwen. Today, she is a mother of three children and has a happy family. Presumably, she will pay special attention to the education and protection of her daughters.
Jia Jingwen's experience of encountering perversion in her childhood is not unique in the entertainment industry. Yang Rong once posted a long article on Weibo to expose her experience of being molested when she was four years old.
In 2017, the child abuse case of the Beijing Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten was widely circulated on the Internet. Many stars have come forward to speak out.
Yang Rong is also paying attention to the "kindergarten incident", and even in order to avoid more pairs of black hands reaching out to children, she bravely chose not to be silent anymore and told the secret that had been buried in her heart for more than 30 years.
Subsequently, Yang Rong Studio forwarded this Weibo to cheer for her bravery.
In the long text, Yang Rong tells the story of an acquaintance uncle who took the little girl alone into the bedroom when she was four years old and let her lie on the bed. Trick the little girl into playing a game and do something obscene to her.
Later, when the girl told her parents about this as fun, the father was even angry enough to take a knife to cut people. A secret that she chose to forget has become a fear that the girl can never erase.
Telling this secret is a very disgraceful thing for a girl. But Yang Rong feels that it is the greatest sorrow to pass on the "disgrace" on the children who have been violated.
Yang Rong's bravery and kindness have been unanimously praised by netizens, and only one hour after the Weibo was sent, it has been forwarded more than 15,000 times. People thank "her" for her efforts for the children.
Just seeing these frightening experiences is enough to make the melon-eating masses feel sad. However, there is an actress who also suffered from a serious mental illness because she was almost sexually assaulted, and even wanted to end her life. She is the Taiwanese artist Wu Yijin.
Mention this name, you may be a little unfamiliar. Li Yijin debuted as an advertising model and released her own album "Flipping the Bad Future". Fresh oxygen type, she also won the Taiwan TV Drama Golden Bell Award for her outstanding acting skills in "New World".
Once on the variety show "Actress I Am the Biggest", she revealed that she was invaded by xing when she was a child and was bullied by her classmates. Coupled with the lack of parental love, she suffered from "crowd phobia" and "depression".
Li Yijin once recounted this encounter. When she was 7 years old, she once met a big brother outside her apartment, who said he wanted to borrow a toilet. Although she was surprised, out of courtesy, Li Yijin still invited the other party to her home.
What Li Yijin did not expect was that as soon as he entered the toilet, the other party immediately closed the door, extended his "salty pig hand", and asked Li Yijin to help him do a lot of things with a tone of request for help. It is no secret that my expression at this moment is the same as that of the host.
Li Yijin did everything according to the other party's requirements, until she began to feel unwell, so she said that her parents had returned, and the other party quickly put on her pants and left. Although there is no real violation of nature throughout the process, almost all acts of a contact nature are done.
Later, when Li Yijin found out that the other party was actually going upstairs when he left, he realized that the so-called "big brother" was his neighbor. Since then, Li Yijin has been very broken, and in an instant, she has broken up her trust in others, and she is still afraid of people.
The encounter of being almost invaded by Xing brought deep psychological harm to Li Yijin. I used to be anorexic and overeating, and even wanted to take my own life at one point, thinking that I would never be happy again.
Fortunately, the strong Li Yijin chose a positive and optimistic life, and through reading spiritual books and acting in stage plays, she overcame the dark side of her heart. It was also this incident that made her learn that "forgiving others is equal to forgiving herself."
But this is not only bothering female celebrities, male celebrities can also see the traces of "xing invasion" and "wei blasphemy" in the childhood shadow of male celebrities. For example, Yao Chi, who is well known to everyone through "Children of Tomorrow 2" and "Youth Has You".
Bao Yuming's xing invasion case made people realize that the things that destroyed humanity happened all around us. When many star artists face this matter, they are obligated to stand up and speak out and establish a good positive image for netizens.
Yao Chi, who has been silently speaking out for the weak, has personally opened his wounds and posted his childhood experience of being desecrated on social accounts.
It happened when Yao Chi was 5 or 6 years old, and he played alone in a place similar to an "amusement park" near the community. Met a well-known uncle who wanted to play the game of "riding a frog" with him. The uncle made Yao Chi squat on the ground, and he took off his pants and rode on his neck, which was a terrible picture.
After that, Yao Chi told his mother about this game, and his mother immediately decided to let him not play in that place again, so that he did not suffer secondary injuries, leaving a particularly large psychological shadow.
To say that Yao Chi's three views are really correct. According to his team, Yao Chi and the team discussed for a long time whether to tell their experiences, so that they were attacked by people with hearts. However, in order to arouse the public's awareness of prevention, Yao Chi still chose to tell the truth without hesitation.
From the "one-sided" affirmation of netizens, I believe that Yao Chi's efforts will not be disappointed, children will be able to grow up healthily, and the growth paradise will no longer be "first love paradise".
In addition to Yao Chi, Guo Degang's son Guo Qilin also revealed in the variety show that he had encountered one more "pseudo-xing invasion".
Guo Qilin said that when he was 6 or 7 years old, he went to the bathroom alone with his family while eating at a fast food restaurant. When he was about to enter the separate compartment to go to the toilet, a 40-year-old uncle suddenly pushed the door without mentioning his pants. Subsequently, excessive and perverted demands were made of him.
Guo Qilin was already scared silly at that time, and after the two confronted each other for a while, the uncle who failed to succeed left. Young Guo Qilin didn't even have the courage to tell his family what had happened.
Recalling this past, Guo Qilin jokingly joked that this was his punishment for not locking the door. But more importantly, children, in the outside world, really, really should strengthen their sense of self-protection!!!
Pointing out a hell is not about telling us how to save people from hell and how to weaken the flames of hell. Rather, it is to make people realize that there is human evil in the world we share with others that causes infinite suffering.
Thanks to these star artists for bravely standing up and telling their "tragic experiences", people began to pay attention to the popularization of sex education, so that perpetrators can be punished as soon as possible, so that there will be no more Fang Siqi or Suyuan-style tragedies in the world.