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Henri Heine was a famous German poet and politician who began writing poetry at the age of 15 and has since written many outstanding poems.
Due to the ups and downs of life and the depth of suffering, his poems are full of sadness. Famous composers such as Mendelssohn and Tchaikovsky have composed music for his poems.
The reason why Heine was able to become a great poet who caused a sensation was actually inseparable from the unfortunate love he encountered. His "Poetry Collection" is hailed as a genius poem, and it was the publication of this poem that made him famous all over the world.
In fact, when Heine first appeared in poetry, Goethe had reached the pinnacle of love poetry, as if love poetry had been written by Goethe, and it was difficult for others to achieve anything.
While goethe's poems are mostly the joy and joy of love, Heine is the opposite, describing frustrated love on the subject matter of the poem.
The reason why Heine was able to write about frustrated love so deeply, so deeply in the hearts of the people, is not only to write about the humiliation, disappointment, deception and injustice of love, but also to write about the coldness, reality, cunning and intrigue of love.
All this stems from Heine's real emotional encounters.
Because he has personally experienced the pain of two lost loves, he is writing with tears and blood, pouring out all kinds of hearts in love: or partying, or happy, or frustrated, or humiliated.
In short, when Heine was young, after experiencing those two unforgettable failed loves, after tasting the bitterness of love, he truly understood that it is difficult for men to get happiness in love without such things as "money and wealth".
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Why did Heine think so and sigh so deeply? This has to start from his two emotional experiences.
This first love experience is the tragedy of his love affair with his cousin Amalia, who is the daughter of Uncle Heine, she is very moving, beautiful, with a small red mouth and snow-white arms, making the young Heine god unruly and intoxicated.
At this time, Heine praised the beauty of Amalia with moving verses, saying that she was radiant and beautiful, like a goddess born from the waves!
Heine expressed his admiration for Amalia in fiery language:
My sweet life, my young blood, is happy to give it to you, the angelic girl! My beloved, if you go into the grave and lie in a dark tomb, I will climb in and find you, and snuggle up with you.
With all his passion and pure love, Heine finally knocked on the door of Amalia's love.
They fell in love, and with such a beautiful lover, Heine felt that he was poor, but in his heart he felt that he was rich.
However, in a society where money is pervasive, love often has the nature of a commodity.
At this time, Heine, with a strong love and passion for Amalia, wrote many poems. However, Amalia slowly lost her enthusiasm for Heine.
Until later, she completely abandoned Heine, who had been in love with her for six years, and chose to marry a very rich landlord and become a landlord's wife.
For Heine, Amaria's desperate approach was undoubtedly a fatal blow to the head, which made Heine's heart bleed, his liver and intestines broken, and he was in pain.
In real life, sometimes this is the case, some love loses to time, some love loses to distance, and some love loses to money.
Heine's first love affair ended in defeat at money.
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After the failure of this first love, Heine was not completely disheartened or learned his lesson, and once again transferred his love to Amalia's sister, Thals.
His sincere courtship to Thals was so sincere, even as fanatical as before, but Thals had only sympathy and pity for Heine and was unwilling to accept his love.
This rich woman, willing to dedicate her beautiful youth to a shabby poet, chose to marry a jurist who had joined the ranks of high society.
Facing the pain of lost love again, Heine thoroughly understood a truth: if a man does not have "money and wealth", it is difficult to get happiness in love.
In fact, whether in Heine's time or in this era, in a society that values money, some people will inevitably become realistic and utilitarian.
Whether it is love or marriage, it will face the test of money, whether it is a man or a woman, it is easy to be wrapped up in materialism.
In fact, for Heine, although he lost love for a while, he exchanged it for a great achievement in literature. A lot of times that's the case, where there's a loss and a gain.
Without the piercing pain of the emotional frustration, Heine would not have been able to vent his creative desire in poetry, nor would he have achieved so much.
In this sense, Heine also had to thank Amalia for her cruel departure.
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Heine's love story tells us:
As a man, no matter how much you desire love, no matter how much you like a woman, if you want to marry her, if you want to give her a marriage and a family, you must let yourself have one thing, that is, the real two words: "money"!
Don't think that "money" is very vulgar, in any era, people need to live in reality, who can not do without money, especially in the era of material development.
In response to the saying: money is not omnipotent, but it is impossible to do without money.
Of course, "money" is "something outside the body", and people cannot live with money as the center, let alone use money to buy everything, especially love.
However, in life, love and marriage want stability and happiness, and they are inseparable from the support of money.
For men, in the relationship, first of all, do not complain about the reality and utilitarianism of women, but should strive to build their own strength, to continue to struggle, work well, make good money, when you have the conditions to talk about love, and then marry and have children.
Only in this way can you get the happiness you want in your relationship, and can you let a woman willingly throw herself into your arms.
As far as women are concerned, naturally do not be too utilitarian and realistic, many times, love and money are not necessarily contradictory, we must balance the relationship between the two.
Many times, based on the concept of money based on love, you will not lose yourself, do not sell your love and soul for money.
In fact, Amalia chose to abandon Heine and marry the rich landlord, and in the end she did not live a happy life, and was even tortured to the bone.
And Heine, stimulated by two failed loves, eventually became a great poet who attracted the attention of the world, and the comparison between the two is enough to illustrate an ordinary truth in the world:
Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid not to be strong!
However, among them, women should not be too realistic for money, and men must let themselves have a career for the stability and happiness of their feelings.
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