Yishu is a female writer I like very much, and in recent years her novels have been frequently adapted into movies and TV series on the screen, and the ratings and word-of-mouth are very good, I think it is particularly happy, because more people can see the women in Yishu's pen and learn a lot from them.
Whether it is the strength of Tang Jing in "The First Half of My Life", or the tenacity of Zhu Suosuo in "Flowing Golden Years", or the sobriety of Xibao in "Xibao", we can see how a woman should live to be the best.
Of course, Yishu also has many classic novels, such as "Chao Hua Xi Shi", "Star Fragment", "Rouge" and so on. After reading these Works of Yi Shu, you will find that although the fate of the women in her pen is very bumpy and the experience is different, they always have a tenacious character, can turn against the wind, and nirvana is reborn, and many of them also have a common characteristic, that is, they have a girlfriend who does not abandon.
Just like Zhu Suosuo and Jiang Nansun in "Flowing Golden Years", just like Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life". They can all bless each other when they are rich, and they can not give up when the other party is down, they are each other's backing, and they are also the best reliance of the other party.
It is such a friendship that makes us understand that for women, there may be a lot of bad feelings in this life, and even the right love, but good friendship must have, which is the most precious thing in our life.
"Flowing Golden Years" has two film and television experiences, the first time starring Maggie Cheung and Zhong Chuhong, which has aroused heated discussion in the whole society. Many years later, reinterpreted by Liu Shishi and Ni Ni, we experienced something different.
"I succeed, she is not jealous, I am weak, she does not despise, life is enough to know oneself." 」 I think this is the best interpretation of the friendship between Zhu Suosuo and Jiang Nansun.
This pair of good friends are people from two different worlds, Jiang Nansun is a miss of qianjin, Zhu Suosuo has been sent to the fence since childhood, Jiang Nansun does not eat human fireworks, and Zhu Suosuo has understood that human feelings are cold and warm since childhood.
These two girls don't seem to have any intersection, but because they have a little insecurity since childhood, they have something in common, become good friends, tolerate each other, trust each other, and appear when the other needs it most.
Jiang Nansun would let Zhu Suosuo live in his own house when she had no place to go, and would listen to her all night and all night about the heartache that he had fostered in his uncle's house.
And Zhu Suosuo also understood that Jiang Nansun's grandmother preferred sons to daughters, and her father only hoped that she would marry the sadness and helplessness of a rich man.
I will be touched when Zhu Suosuo is looking for a place for the down-and-out Jiang Nansun and taking care of his family, and I will also be touched by jiang Nansun's abandonment of his image in order to maintain Zhu Suosuo and the appearance of beating up the bad guys in the hospital.
I think that true friends are like this, I have absolute trust in you, I will maintain your dignity and interests at any time, I support you in pursuing the life you want, leave you with a shoulder at any time, and always behind you.
Do you have such friends? I have, though not much. My girlfriend and I can also be each other's backing, she will be there whenever I need it, and I will do my best whenever she needs it.
We can rest assured that we can surrender our vulnerabilities to each other, and we know that no matter how sinister the world is, there will always be someone who will become the harbor of our hearts.
In my opinion, this emotion is more pure than love, and more reliable than love, because we don't expect much from each other, only the urge to give.
I like what Zhu Suosuo said to Jiang Nansun: "I have principles, but as long as it is you Jiang Nansun, my principles can be changed." ”
May you also meet such a person, you do not have to give each other any promises, but you will never be tacit.
In addition to the pair of girlfriends in "Flowing Golden Years", the "First Half of My Life", which was a fire some time ago, also caused everyone to discuss.
Tang Jing and Luo Zijun are college classmates, after graduation, Tang Jing fought out his career in the pile of men, and Luo Zijun married someone to live the life of a rich wife.
Two good girlfriends often fight together, but always out of a good intention for each other. After Luo Zijun was abandoned, Tang Jing used all his strength to help her, not only to help her tear the scumbag, but also to help her try to stand up.
I think a good girlfriend is like this, not blindly indulging you, but trying to make you sober, she will always accompany you, but also let you have the ability to support your own life.
Although "The First Half of My Life" has a certain difference from the original book in the adaptation, I still feel that such a girlfriend is very envious, because in the adult world, there are many people who lie to you, but there are too few people who dare to tell you the truth, and we all need a Tang Jing to make ourselves better.
Of course, I am a little unacceptable to the adaptation of the second half of this TV series, Luo Zijun and Tang Jing turned against He Han, which is indeed a little sad.
However, through such a plot, we should also understand a truth, that is, no matter how good the friendship, there must be a sense of boundaries, some things can not be shared, such as the other half, do not let your other half and girlfriend too close, this is the protection of your love, but also the protection of your friendship.
Yishu is called "Shi Tai" by readers, because most of the women she writes are strong and independent, and they can have no men, but they must have careers.
Although these women live in the novel, they also give us good guidance, so that we can understand that women should try to make themselves stronger than to beg for a living under men.
Of course, in addition to telling women to be strong, Yishu's works will also make women understand that friendship may be stronger than love. I think this is also related to Yishu's own experience.
Yi Shu lives in a wealthy family, has been a star and moon since he was a child, and has not suffered any hardships, so he also lives more self and willful.
Most importantly, she has a proud capital, because she is born with a talent for writing, and she can write manuscripts that have been robbed by many magazines at will.
Such a woman can live a very self-sufficient life, because she is the master of her own life. That is why, in her eyes, love is not a necessity in life, but friendship can make a woman's life richer.
I like Yishu because I can live like the sunny appearance of the women she wrote, but I know that not all women can be so free.
But no matter what, I hope that everyone can remember this truth that Yishu told us, for women, friendship is a very important feeling, because a right friendship is long-lasting, can give you a sense of security, and will make you better and better.
I hope that you can choose the right person carefully and carefully, and then use sincerity and sincerity to manage this friendship well.
Of course, no matter what kind of life you want to live and what kind of feelings you want to have, the most important thing is to live your own personality.
Just like Jiang Nansun and Zhu Suosuo in "Flowing Golden Years", no matter what kind of difficulties they encounter, they work hard and work hard to make money, just like Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", no matter how the world changes, they all support their lives with their own hands.
I hope that every woman can be independent, dare to love and dare to hate, not to be will, not to be inferior, not to expect Ai Ai, not to suffer from gain and loss, to rely on their own strength to fight a piece of the world, and to live happier and happier with the support of a strong heart.