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To say that the entertainment industry is really low-key rich man, then the first thing that comes to mind is definitely Guo Qilin and Ma Boqian. There is no arrogance in them, no contempt for others, but very humble, educated and high emotional intelligence.
Ma Boqian is not a professional actor, but in the "Actors Please Take Place" program, he conquered the audience and judges with his acting attitude, self-motivated heart, and innate confidence.
After that, he and Guo Qilin participated in a love variety show "Heartbeat Signal", and everyone learned how his good character was cultivated.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > Ma Boqian rarely talks about family education, and grew up in a loving atmosphere</h1>
The communication about family training in the program caused discussion, and Ma Boqian also rarely talked about his own family education.
He exposed his relationship with his parents, in Ma Boqian's life, his father played many different roles, was a reliable partner, but also an amiable father, but also a leader when he was confused.
However, in front of the mother, the father has become a child who will be spoiled, humorous and gentle. Yes, in Ma Boqian's family, the mother's status is the highest, and their family has an unwritten rule - unconditional kindness to the mother.
Therefore, Ma Boqian's mother often joked that their family had three small children, and the third child was the child's father. Guo Qilin also had the privilege of meeting Ma Boqian's father, praised him in the show, and bluntly said that he wanted to see him again.
In Guo Qilin's eyes, Ma Boqian's father's mentality is very young and humorous, and it is estimated that this is one of the reasons why Ma Boqian is so cheerful and optimistic.
When a mother in a family is valued, the family is absolutely happy. Netizens have also praised the good atmosphere of ma Boqian's family, and only by growing up in such an atmosphere can children be confident and gentle.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > family atmosphere, although it does not completely determine personality, it has a significant impact</h1>
However, is the quality of a person's personality only related to the original family? The answer, of course, is no!
The formation of human personality is related to many factors such as individual development, and the influence of the family in different stages of the child's life shows a downward trend, and with age, emotions, behaviors and views will be different from those of parents.
But even so, we can not underestimate the impact of the original family on the child, it will plant seeds in the child's heart, and even blossom and bear fruit for a lifetime.
The neighbor's child Xiaole has poor language expression ability and concentration, has no friends at school, and is more enthusiastic about talking to himself than making friends.
Because when he was 3 years old, his parents divorced and he has been living with his grandparents. Someone told Xiaole that the reason why his parents divorced was that his father did not like Xiaole.
This sentence was deeply remembered by him, and I can imagine how much psychological trauma it caused, and I suddenly understood his often dodgy eyes and why he didn't want to intersect with his classmates.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" > how lucky to have a good family atmosphere</h1>
A middle-aged man named Nicholas recalls his and his mother's various things, and his deepest memory comes from the panic after being separated from his mother once, and then seeing his mother's figure in the crowd.
The mother comforted him at the first time, this kind of care, touch, to give the child a great sense of security, and Nicholas has always been an optimistic and positive person, which is the influence of different families on the child.
But why are some children from children from families with bad family atmosphere and single-parent families able to grow up optimistically? This is related to its own resilience.
Resilience refers to the ability to effectively cope with adversity in development, in the family parents are not good for the child, but the grandmother cares for the child, so that the child's grievances and injured hearts have some comfort, slowly produce self-confidence, and the resilience will also increase relatively.
In short, family can make people feel happy, but also can give people unforgettable memories. Anyone has a reason to make themselves better, don't use inherent thinking to imprison yourself, a good life, don't fight for yourself how to do it!