A woman of phoenix nirvana - read the biography of Zhang Youyi

Because of Xu Zhimo, I know Zhang Youyi.

Once, it was called "rural buns" by Xu Zhimo. Marrying Xu Zhimo is the beginning of her life's nightmare, leaving Xu Zhimo, she lived her wonderful life.

Today, reading Zhang Youyi again, I have a different harvest.

Women must have their own opinions.

Women want to be independent, to grow themselves, to be not attached to others. Zhang Youyi has had her own opinions since she was a child: she resisted foot binding at the age of three, and at the age of twelve, she fought for the opportunity to study for herself. This laid the foundation for her later achievements.

Don't complain when things happen.

If fate does not give you what you want, then it is useless to complain, it is better to learn and improve yourself. Zhang Youyi still insisted on learning English when her husband Xu Zhimo was extremely indifferent to her and her life was poor.

We must calmly face the ups and downs of life.

All experiences, for better or worse, will become your life's treasure. Nietzsche said: Those who can't defeat you will only make you stronger in the end!

To face life with a positive and peaceful attitude can we achieve a better self.

Reading Zhang Youyi again made me understand even more:

1. Some things are destined not to belong to you, so don't be too sad to lose.

Zhang Youyi finally saw the true face of her husband Xu Zhimo, and in the face of his indifference and ruthlessness, Zhang Youyi, who was pregnant for several months, resolutely signed the divorce agreement and quickly walked out of her sadness.

At this time, Zhang Youyi really began to be herself, and she began to study hard with anger.

2. There is no road in life, and every step counts.

Do what you love with determination and persistence, and you will eventually achieve something. Zhang Youyi did not give up studying even after experiencing the darkest time. It was her persistence and strength that led to the later president of China's First Bank, Zhang Youyi, the general manager of Yunsheng Company.

3. Seize the opportunity and bravely move forward.

Dare to try, accept the challenge, let yourself go through more experience, in order to train a steel bone. Doing things without looking forward and backward, using his own wisdom to fight against fate, Zhang Youyi did it, and fame and fortune were both gained.

4. To perfect others is to complete oneself

If the marriage is a mistake, it is better to end it early.

Xu Zhimo never loved Zhang Youyi, and even asked her to beat up the child when he learned that she was pregnant, and shortly after the birth of the child, because of the bitter pursuit of Lin Hui, he asked Zhang Youyi to sign the divorce agreement.

Zhang Youyi did not complain, let alone cry, and decisively ended the marriage. She fulfilled Xu Zhimo, and even more completed herself.

5. Know what you want to achieve a better self.

Whether in marriage or outside of marriage, Zhang Youyi always knows what she wants. She never gives up learning, insists on self-improvement, and constantly grows and progresses. In the end, he became his own sun, and met the right person and was able to live a happy married life.

6. The three views fit, mutual appreciation, and common progress are the best marriages.

In a happy marriage, you appreciate his excellence, he praises your excellence; you understand his difficulty, he understands your hard work. Both people put each other in their hearts, support each other, and grow together.

Zhang Youyi, a phoenix reborn in Nirvana, she lived her wonderful life. Perhaps, only those who have been cruelly abandoned by life will have extraordinary optimism and double their lives.

May every woman be treated with tenderness. Of course, the premise is to love yourself well.