After men and women fall in love, vertically they are always tired of being together, even if they can't spend the previous month from time to time, they hope to be able to cuddle and cuddle so that they can draw strength from each other and have the confidence to face more complex work.
However, under the pressure of life, this idea sometimes fails to come true.
For example, actress Ariel Lin and husband Lin Yuchao. The rich remuneration and influence brought by the profession of actor have made many people who have tasted this taste reluctant to give up.
Although Ariel Lin understands the truth that "no one has a hundred days, no hundred days of red", he does not want to give up all the popularity he has accumulated during the rising period of his career.
After all, it is not easy for her to work hard from an ordinary girl to today. Second, marriage is a woman's harbor, but it is not the ultimate destination.
Women's ultimate destination should be themselves, otherwise they will rely on the mountains and rely on everyone to run.
This is very common in life. There are many women who, in order to ensure that the whole family can function well, give up their hard-won jobs and thus revolve around their husbands and children.
At first, the husband will be very grateful for his wife's efforts. But as time passed, gratitude was replaced by what it ought to be.
At this time, in the face of external temptations, we will try our best to open up our own thoughts and behaviors.
Therefore, the woman who was originally envied by everyone, in a marriage, lost both her job and her husband, and more importantly, the growth of her children could not be separated from herself, and she was powerless.
This is also the root of many women's reluctance to enter marriage. Ariel Lin has been in the entertainment industry for so many years, naturally she will not even understand this point, so even if she gets married, she has not given up her career.
It is not that I do not believe in my husband, but I feel that only by holding my fate in my own hands is the most reliable. However, it seems unrealistic to let your husband abandon his business abroad and settle in Taiwan with him.
Women want to be recognized and appreciated in the workplace, and men naturally do the same. Most importantly, men also bear the burden of supporting their families.
It is true that now that society has progressed and women have become half the sky, this has greatly eased the burden of men raising families. But if men are allowed to give up completely, then many people who believe it are also unwilling.
In this way, it is actually the work that has made us successful and let our value be displayed. Ariel Lin could not go abroad, and her husband could not return to China, and after discussion, the two decided to start a separate life between the two places. After work, they can also go to their respective places and have a good time.
Of course, there are more than one reason for a couple to temporarily separate, but this is only a common reason.
Although I know that this is only temporary; although the social platform is now very advanced, only need to have a smartphone and network signal to video call each other; although it is believed that in the near future, the two will be reunited and will never be separated again. But it is inevitable that the heart will be full of thoughts of the lover.
Female writer Yi Shu, because she often walks in the feelings of others, has a clear grasp of her thoughts.
She pointed out that there are two kinds of men's thoughts about women, but because of different moods, different environments, etc., the degree of liking is also different.
Yi Shu said: Missing someone when you are lonely is nothing, but if you miss it when it is lively, it is different.
In "Nine Pin Sesame Officer", the famous prostitute Liu Ruyan thinks that Bao Longxing is a high-ranking disciple, and in order to make him die for himself, she decides to take advantage of his admiration for herself and leave him behind.
Bao Longxing was very puzzled by this, because in his opinion, her life was too good to need his help. So Liu Ruyan said the funny line: I am lonely and empty, I am cold...
Such a nonsensical bridge section is refreshing, so the audience laughs forward and backward. This is deliberately designed by Stephen Chow in pursuit of artistic effects. But it tells a truth, that is, people are lonely and always want someone to accompany them.
As for this person, whether she likes it or not is actually not important, the important thing is that she can accompany herself through this difficult loneliness. It's like willow smoke. Her lines, in that case, although funny, also spoke her mind, that is, as a famous prostitute, she is not as glamorous as it seems.
Many times, she probably also envied those high-ranking noble women, who, because of their good luck, reincarnated into a good family, so there was no need to worry about their livelihood and worry about the future.
Most importantly, every time it appears, it will receive praise from many people. Even if these compliments, either to her husband or to her children, are not really directed at her, it is a happy thing.
At least there will be no disgust in the eyes of onlookers, and like her, praise her in person for her talent, and probably look down on her behind her back. However, she could not tell anyone about these pains.
Having said that, it is not allowed that the partition wall has ears, and those guests who hear it may not want to see her again. And she lost her guests, even if she looked beautiful, she could not fill her stomach. Without saying anything, I was very sad in my heart.
So I hope to have someone I don't hate, to hear her talk about the pain in her heart, even if it's just listening. This kind of thinking is normal, so it is not surprising. Strangely, when it's hilarious, I still think of someone.
As we all know, when a person is very lively, his attention is highly attracted by the people and things around him, in this case, the gaze naturally only remembers to pay attention to the present.
Pay attention to whether the person in front of you is handsome or beautiful? Is it lively to pay attention to the atmosphere in front of you? Pay attention to whether the person in front of you is worth chatting about...
In this case, how can we miss people? However, some people, the more lively, also miss that person. He hoped that she would be able to eliminate the existence of space, come to him, and share the excitement in front of him.
He wanted her to stand by his side, let everyone know about their relationship, and then accept everyone's blessing. He hoped she would share the hilarity with him. The thoughts at this time are true love.
The Lord of the Phoenix County in "Langya List", through his own efforts, finally won the recognition of the imperial court as a woman. At that time, the person she most wanted to see was Lin Shu, the lover who had danced swords with her to face difficulties. However, the other party left her forever, and whenever she thought of it, Neon Phoenix was very sad.
I thought that this life would be like this, but I found that he was still alive. At that moment, her heart was very happy, thinking that even if she gave up everything, she would firmly hold his hands.
Fate had fooled him, and he had left her forever again.
Since then, thinking of him has become the main theme of her life. Such a deep love has moved countless people. Fortunately, we are safe in this world right now. So, if you have met true love, then please love deeply.
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