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Chapter 01
You must have seen a woman like this, or you might be one of these women:
Once, you naively thought that love was a lifelong thing, and it was the affection that the other party said "I love you" for a lifetime.
Therefore, you are single-mindedly immersed in your dream of a happy marriage, but on one ordinary morning, you learned that the other party no longer loved you and insisted on breaking up with you.
You find it hard to accept, and you become hysterical because of it, and you humble yourself to keep him and pray that he will not leave you, because you do not know how life will continue after leaving him.
But he didn't hesitate when he left, and soon appeared in your circle of friends with a new love, which you had a hard time accepting and planned to retaliate against him.
For this reason, you hurt yourself, and you try your best to hurt him, you make yourself hurt, and you want him to hurt.
In the end, you found that you tried everything you could, but accelerated the pace of him leaving you, and the way you wounded the enemy a thousand times and injured yourself eight hundred did not burden him, but made you more miserable.
You don't understand why, knowing that you haven't done anything wrong, but you have to bear so much pain.
In fact, women, you are wrong, the mistake is wrong, men have changed their hearts, the best revenge is never hatred, but these two words: independence.
Chapter 02
Yi Shu's novels can always make women find resonance in them, and "The First Half of My Life" is such an emotional novel that closely follows the psychological problems of contemporary women.
The novel uses the story of a housewife to tell women that when a man changes his heart, the best revenge is only two words - independence.
The protagonist of the novel, Zijun, married her husband after graduating from college, and the couple was very affectionate for many years after marriage, and Zijun's face was full of the simple feeling of the little woman being protected.
It can be seen that Zijun is very happy, her husband is a doctor with a certain social status, the child Ping'er is very sensible, she is like a carefree princess, as soon as she graduated, she found her own Prince Charming, and lived happily with him for a lifetime.
But Zijun's happiness was not as long as he imagined, and her husband filed for divorce on a very ordinary morning and admitted that he was in love with other women, which for the defenseless Zijun, it was tantamount to taking her life.
She has cried and thought about compromising for her children, but after more than ten years of feelings, men have changed their minds for a long time, and hiding under the arms of men, she agreed to divorce and began to live an independent life.
Chapter 03
Women want to be independent, first of all to achieve financial independence.
People's life is inseparable from food, clothing, shelter and transportation, these things are all supported by money, zijun and her husband divorced, as a housewife, she lost her financial resources and began to rely on her own ability to find a job.
Everything is always difficult at the beginning, Zijun has been a full-time wife since graduation, and it is very difficult for her to find a decent job without work experience.
But she has no way back, for the sake of her children, but also for herself, she started from the lowest level of small employees, step by step in her own post to shine, won the respect of others.
Work can make a person gradually change back into self, I believe that every full-time wife also had her own life ideals before marriage.
But after getting married, life gradually revolves around the family, and ideals and beliefs are gradually consumed in such carefree days.
You can be a good wife, you can be a good mother, but don't forget, you first have to learn to be yourself.
If you want to get revenge on the man who has changed his heart, you must first find yourself, you have to become independent, let him see that you will still be fine without him.
Chapter 04
Zijun found herself in the workplace life, busy work diluted her sadness about her husband's cheating and divorce, and she changed from "Mrs. Shi" to "Zijun" herself.
You see, relying on other people's days is not reliable after all, she makes money with her own efforts, such a day makes her feel extremely down-to-earth every day.
In fact, many women don't understand that the reason why a man changes his mind is because you rely too much on him.
From the financial to the spiritual, you can not leave him at all, men are naturally not afraid of losing you, and you have been around him, but also lost yourself and me.
Think about it, once you, may also be a person who sparkled in the crowd, how did you get married but not as good as before?
Don't let married life change you, stay independent both financially and personally, and when you're not dependent on a man, the man will want you to rely on him more.
Chapter 05
Zijun has her own life, she no longer lives for anyone, this time she is the most charming time.
The independent and self-reliant Zijun also harvested her own happiness later, and at this time, she was completely different from before. She is no longer the woman who lives in fear of her husband being robbed of her husband.
Seeing the change of Zijun, her ex-husband Shi Juansheng regretted it, but at this time, Zijun only felt fortunate that Shi Juansheng's departure allowed her to find herself and reshape her life for the second half of her life, if it were not for this self-awakening, she would not know that her life could be so wonderful.
Women in this life, really can not rely too much on others, even if the other party is a good man, but after marriage always rely on each other, the other party will feel tired.
Because people will always be in a bad mood, although they are a big man, they will also want to be able to rely on each other one day.
Being a little woman may occasionally find you cute, but when a man needs a partner, you become a liability.
Shi Juansheng thought that after leaving Zijun, he could pursue his own happiness, but the reality was often not as good as expected, his feelings had not been smooth, and there were some problems in his work.
And seeing the new Zijun standing in front of him, he regretted it, but at this time, Zijun would not pity him because of his tears.
When she chatted with her girlfriend Tang Jing, she said: The best revenge is not hatred, but the coldness from the bottom of her heart, why spend energy to hate an irrelevant person.
Yes, since he is already a passerby who does not want to do it, why bother with a little more energy for him? Not necessarily.
Chapter 06
Don't set yourself up as a little woman who lives on her own, try to be an independent woman who can live well on her own.
Husband and wife are both lovers and partners, you can help him when he needs it, in the ordinary days, occasionally lie to him, enjoy the life of the little woman, so that the days will not be boring.
Don't lose your ideals in life because of the ease of life, Presumably when you went to school, you also had a lot of ambitions.
If you are only married once, how can you forget all your ideals?
Life is not just a few tens of square meters of space in the kitchen, your life is outside the house, which is where your vast dreams set sail.
It is better to be an independent woman and let the men come around you.
It is not terrible for men to change their minds, but they are afraid that you do not have the mentality of starting your life again.
Losing a wrong person is actually a lucky thing, and you should be happy for yourself to start a new life as soon as possible.
Starting today, finding yourself, being an independent self, and making your life better is the best revenge against the scumbag ex.
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