In 2016, Wang Siwen appeared on the "Tonight 80s Talk Show" launched by Oriental Satellite TV.
4 years later, Cheng Lu sent a Weibo official announcement of divorce from Wang Siwen, and then, Wang Siwen forwarded to confirm the divorce: it is a real brother, come on.
Cheng Lu and Si Wen, who met in a talk show club in Shenzhen, came together, and after the two got married, Wang Siwen was taken by her husband to the "road of no return" of talk shows.
From the very beginning of the "Tonight 80s Talk Show" to see Wang Siwen for the first time, and then to the "Spit Conference", this strange woman who likes to open and hang herself has opened her own way of opening and showing flowers.
"Turning husband and wife into brothers"
People who like Wang Siwen know that she became famous for a wonderful talk show that "turned husband and wife into brothers", and she was even known as the "first sister" of the talk show.
But in fact, living the conjugal life of becoming a brother did not continue to develop into a good result, Cheng Lu's sentence: "I won the debate, and the family is gone." "I didn't expect it to become a reality.
From Wang Siwen's talk show, we know that she and Cheng Lu, the "brother couple", have been sleeping on bunk beds, and in the subsequent film, it is also found that the two people maintain a separate bed.
Two people, from the separation of the bed to the separation of the family, from the "brother couple" to the brother, it is not difficult to see that there is a very important problem in this marriage, how sad it is to become a brother after a long time of marriage.
True brothers will still part ways, not to mention that there is still a little bit of brotherhood that cannot be explained.
It is okay to want to make a husband and wife brothers, but why should brothers let marriage be bound? Brothers and couples will never be the same.
They said that they were brothers to each other, so they slept in separate beds, and traveled to take a third person, which seemed to have no problem in the paragraph, but there was too much unreasonable in reality.
The intimacy between husband and wife is indispensable in the marriage relationship, and the separation of beds and sexless life will only push the marriage relationship to the cusp of the storm.
01. Love is not a brotherhood
In love, many couples get along like brothers:
"My wife and I are together, we get along like brothers, we don't meddle in each other's personal space, and we don't rely too much on each other."
Many people think that in the relationship between husband and wife, they will get along better by replacing the brotherly way of getting along, and each of them can better enjoy the life they want.
But the brothers have been commensurate for a long time, everyone seems to be really serious, love has slowly changed, love has been in love for a long time, more family affection, coupled with brotherhood, where should the position of love be.
The love between Cheng Lu and Wang Siwen also began with brothers, and in the original pure love relationship, brotherhood prevailed.
Brothers and lovers in life are definitely different, so the trip of two people has a third person to go along, and the sweet time that originally belonged to the two people has become a friendship trip between brothers.
Therefore, there is no room for any other feelings in love.
The superfluous relationship will only wear away everything in love, and if you are called a brother, then you will only become more and more like a real brother, and how the relationship between husband and wife is maintained will only become a real brother.
Just as Wang Siwen said, he is a true brother. That is to say, there is no longer the existence of conjugal feelings, and all that remains is brotherhood.
02. Is it really good for couples to sleep in separate beds?
Love is to want to be closer to each other, more intimate.
The quality of the relationship between husband and wife lies in the intimacy of the two people, both say that they sleep together, of course, they have to share the same room to promote the feelings of the two mouths, they all say that pillow words are the sweetest words, and how can the husband and wife sleep in separate beds to hear the most real feelings between each other.
I know a couple who have been married for several years and sleep in separate beds, and there is very little sex, and it is like two people are just under the same roof, and there are very few words, let alone intimacy.
Two people always have a lot of contradictions, where they are dissatisfied with each other, and the relationship that is not intimate, slowly creates a gap in the contradiction, and there are few feelings left.
Everyone comes out to party, and the two people are like old friends who have only known each other for many years, and they know each other's preferences, that is, they have less care and intimacy.
In the first half of this year, the two agreements divorced, and the woman re-found a boyfriend, saying that there was no love with her ex-husband, and the rest was only a little affection.
The more intimate the relationship between husband and wife, the better, sleeping in separate beds, without any contact before going to bed, before falling asleep is a person, waking up and opening his eyes is also a person, and over time love is consumed in this.
The old custom of a new marriage to be a joyful red quilt cover, is to mean that two people covered with a red quilt cover to live a life and beautiful, a bed of two people to cover the quilt together is the bond of the relationship between husband and wife.
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Cheng Lu and Wang Siwen came to this step today, saying that there was an accident, but it was not an accident, and love was taken an important position by brotherhood in the feelings of brotherhood.
Brothers and lovers are very different, brothers are people who advance and retreat with themselves, lovers are people who hold their hands and love them, not to mention that love is so unreasonable, there is no room for a little impurity, otherwise it is easy to deteriorate.
Treating brothers as husband and wife is the beginning of love, perhaps it should have been a good story at the beginning, but in the life of husband and wife, two people are still commensurate with brothers, and in the end they can only get along with true brothers.
The true meaning of marriage is to start from love, love slowly becomes affection, two people support each other through life, from intimate to more intimate, from waking up in the middle of the night to hug the people around them, to the hands clenched under the nest after old age.