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The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

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The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Brother Fang Zi

In May 2012, the family emotional drama "Happy Life", starring the well-known performance artist Fang Zige, was broadcast in eight prime-time sets of CCTV. Fang Zige has acted superbly, and has so far starred in more than 100 film and television dramas such as "Beijing Love Story", "Happiness Code", "How Daughter-in-law is Refined", and has twice won the Best Supporting Actor Award of the "Golden Rooster Award" and "Hundred Flowers Award" of Chinese films, and is well-known at home and abroad.

Fang Zige's confidant, Yan Zhen, is a famous painter and playwright. What is less well known is that such a striking artistic couple, married for 30 years, spent most of their time in separation. It is said that separation is a sword that cuts the feelings of husband and wife, and it is the killer of marriage, so yan zhen and Fang Zige are treating the life of separation? What kind of wonderful and miraculous things were born during their long years of separation?

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Yan Zhen and Fang Zige met in the early 1980s. One afternoon, Yan Zhen went to a friend's house to dance a ballroom dance, and a large group of dance partners Yan Zhen knew each other, but there was a young man with a clear eyebrow who was very eye-catching. A friend introduced her: "His name is Fang Zige, he works in a timber factory in the northern suburbs, and he dances very well. Brother Fang Zi smiled at Yan Zhen gently, and Yan Zhen "um" said a word, which was considered to be a greeting.

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Brother Fang Zi and his wife Yan Zhen

The music sounded and everyone stepped onto the dance floor. An hour later, Yan Zhen unexpectedly found that Brother Fang Zi was missing, and she was very confused: "This person is too rude, and he leaves the scene without greeting." "At 6 p.m., everyone was tired of jumping and feeling hungry, when the smell of food wafted from the kitchen. Yan Zhen was curious to push the door to see, only to see Fang Zige wearing an apron, stir-frying vegetables and steaming steamed steamed buns in front of the stove. Yan Zhen playfully quipped, "You dancing master still care about our logistics!" Brother Fang Zi replied: "Dancing consumes fast, everyone can't just drink water to fill their hunger, someone has to cook." ”

After that, as soon as Yan Zhen and her friends had a dance party, Fang Zige finished the first half of the dance and consciously went into the kitchen to be busy. Xianshu's Yan Zhen was worried that he would not be able to be busy alone, so she rolled up her sleeves and quietly went in to help. Fang Zige's steamed white-noodle steamed bun was fragrant and soft, and Yan Zhen could eat two at a time. At this time, Yan Zhen was in the age of a young girl, and Fang Zige's handsomeness, steadfastness and gentleness made her heart move; and Fang Zige also had a secret affection for Yan Zhen, who knew the book and was quiet and elegant. One after another, the two of them sparked love in the kitchen.

After the relationship with Fang Zige was stable, Yan Zhen told her parents about it. His father, Yan Di, was a famous landscape painter at home and abroad, and Yan Mu was also an artist. Although the enlightened Yan family's parents did not object, they were worried. Yan Muzhen warned her daughter with a heavy heart: "You are an undergraduate student graduated from the Shandong Academy of Arts, and you are an editor in the magazine "Chinese Painting", which is considered a cultural person; Fang Zige only has a high school education and is an ordinary worker, and my mother is worried that you will not be harmonious together in the future." Yan Zhen replied to her mother: "Mom, living a life has nothing to do with the level of education." Although Fang Zige has no diploma, he is smart and studious, and I admire him very much. ”

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

At the behest of Yan Zhen, the skillful Fang Zige used the scraps from the corner of the timber factory to make two chairs and a maza for Yan Mu. He patted the back of the chair, "Mom, the chair is strong, you can sit with confidence." Although I have no great ability, I will be filial to you like a son in the future. Fang Zige's simple words and deeds told Yan Mother that this young man was a down-to-earth person who lived a life, and his daughter was with him, even if she would not be rich and noble, she could enjoy the happiness of ordinary people. After passing the yan family's parents, the marriage was put on the agenda. In October 1982, Yan Zhen and Fang Zige formed a family in Beijing.

In June 1984, the son Fang Xiaoge was born, and the couple's life suddenly became tense and hectic. Every day after work, Fang Zige hurried home with a tool bag. He and his wife tacitly did the division of labor: he cooked in the kitchen, Yan Zhen took care of his son in the living room; he wiped the floor, and Yan Zhen washed clothes. On Sundays, Yan Zhen likes to sleep late, and Fang Zige gets up alone to zhang Luo's family's breakfast. He put fried eggs, flower rolls, and white rice porridge on the table one by one, and then shouted into the bedroom: "Wife, baby son, let's eat!" "A family of three bathed in the morning light and feasted.

After dinner, Fang Zige pedaled a bicycle and carried his wife and son around the mall. At that time, the monthly wages of the two children added up to less than 50 yuan, Yan Zhen fashionable, love beauty, but due to economic constraints, she turned over and over to try on beautiful fashions and bracelets, and finally reluctantly put them back to the same place. When a family of three is tired, they spend 1 cent to buy three popsicles and sit in the rest area of the mall to eat while enjoying free air conditioning. This simple ordinary life is permeated with happiness and comfort...

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Yan Zhen

Brother Fang Zi took extra care of the family, in addition to work, his spare time was handed over to his wife and son. Colleagues thought he was being bullied at home and privately called him "strict wife control." The old employee of the workshop asked him half-jokingly and half-seriously: "Your wife has a higher education than you, and her income is more than yours, are you usually doing all the housework at home, and the leftovers are all inclusive?" Brother Fang Zi was not in a hurry, and humorously patted his belly: "Yan Zhen is gentle and virtuous, it hurts me very much, and any delicious food at home is given to me." If you look at my bulging belly, you should know how happy I am! ”

Fang Zige came from an artistic family, his father Fang Guande was the director and actor of the Beijing People's Art Theatre, and his mother Wu Yi and sister Fang Zichun were both professional actors in the China Children's Art Theatre. Genetics and family influence made Fang Zige obsessed with acting, and when he graduated from high school, for various reasons, he failed to enter a professional art college. With the encouragement of his family, Fang Zige's artistic dreams were stimulated, and he was no longer satisfied with pulling a big saw in a timber factory all his life. In 1987, Fang Zige played important roles in three films, including "Father and Son", "Gentle Eyes" and "Dead and Alive". Although he is a halfway monk, Fang Zige has a high degree of understanding, has a precise grasp of the character psychology, and shapes the characters to life, which has attracted attention inside and outside the circle.

The arts are all connected, Yan Zhen found the performance potential of her husband, and worked hard to create conditions to support her husband's filming: when her mother-in-law encountered big and small things, she did not let Fang Zige intervene, and ran forward and ran alone; she and her son had a headache and brain fever, and she also hid it from Fang Zige; the unit sent her to study abroad several times, in order not to affect her husband's filming, she gave up in pain... Yan Zhen's dedication and sacrifice supported Fang Zige's dream of being an actor. In the following years, Fang Zige starred in more than ten film and television dramas such as "Mixed in Beijing", "No One Applauded", "The Day Of Leaving Lei Feng", and twice won the "Golden Rooster Award" for Chinese films and the Best Supporting Actor Award for Chinese films "Hundred Flowers Award". The Beijing Film Studio saw the pearls and recruited Fang Zige to his subordinates. In this way, Fang Zige grew from a timber factory worker to a professional actor.

In September 1996, Fang Xiaoge was promoted to junior high school and boarded at Kexing Middle School in Haidian District. Brother Fang Zi has been filming outside for many years, usually there is only Yan Zhen left alone in the family, going to the school to hold a parent-teacher conference, carrying a liquefied gas tank into the house, taking care of the elderly on both sides and other heavy work, all fall on Yan Zhen alone. The physical burden could not overwhelm Yan Zhen, and what made her most unbearable was the spiritual and psychological loneliness. At that time, there was no mobile phone and network, Yan Zhen did not hear from Fang Zige for several months, and she could not see her husband several times a year. Yan Zhen is a flesh-and-blood intellectual woman, and her thirsty emotions cannot be nourished by her relatives, and she begins to complain to Fang Zige. Almost every week, she writes a letter to Fang Zige, which contains her own hardships, loneliness and nostalgia for the reunion life of the past. Brother Fang Zi's heart was heavy...

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

In April 1997, Fang Zige returned to Beijing from Shanxi after filming the TV series "Pearl Emerald White Jade Soup", and suddenly realized that the atmosphere at home was different from the past. Yan Zhen made him a cup of tea and threw her husband a cold back. Fang Zige "Zhi Fun" underground kitchen cooking, at the dinner table, he deliberately find a variety of topics to coax Yan Zhen to be happy, but Yan Zhen always has a straight face. In those days, Yan Zhen did not say a few words to her husband, venting her dissatisfaction with cold war and silence.

A week later, when Fang Zige was about to return to the crew, Yan Zhenmian hid a needle and said, "They all say that women are made of water." Some women are less than 40 years old, full of frost, the corners of the eyes are full of crow's feet, while some women are more than half a hundred years old but still have charm. Do you know why? The root cause is the lack of husband love. I belong to the former kind of woman. ”

Fang Zige felt that the root whip was beating himself: "Wife, the profession of an actor is destined to be less and more with his family. I also want to go home often to see you and my son, but the conditions are not allowed! Intellectually, Yan Zhen agrees with her husband's point of view, but emotionally it is difficult to accept. The couple separated in silence and estrangement.

As soon as her husband left, Yan Zhen couldn't help but sob. After venting, Yan Zhen calmed down a lot, and she knew that another person immersed in negative emotions would probably get depression. To escape loneliness, she picked up a paintbrush and painted at home.

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Yan Zhen paintings

Yan Zhen is a well-known talent in the Beijing painting world, as early as 1989, her painting "Miao Ling" won the Excellence Award in the "Newcomer New Works Competition" jointly organized by Hong Kong, Taiwan and the mainland, and in 1991, she held two painting exhibitions in Beijing and launched the "Yan Zhen Painting Collection"... One by one, on quiet nights and weekends, Yan Zhenjing sat in the study, immersed herself in painting ladies, flowers, birds, insects and fish, and depicting the world. Gradually, Yan Zhen no longer put her mind on Fang Zige, and painting became her spiritual sustenance...

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Since then, Yan Zhen has no longer written letters to Fang Zige and rarely calls the crew. Fang Zige's heart was flustered again: in the past, his wife frequently contacted him, complained bitterly, and said trivial matters, he was annoyed; now Yan Zhen snubbed him, and his heart hung up again. Why is that? Does the wife really have no self in her heart?

Two months later, Fang Zige returned home from the crew and tentatively said to Yan Zhen: "Did you remember the address of the crew, why didn't I receive a letter?" "I don't bother you!" After speaking, Yan Zhenla's husband walked into the study, pointed to the painting that was more than a foot thick on the painting, and said with a bitter smile: "You are not at home, I am with the painting." Do you know? I don't create paintings, I create loneliness. "Brother Fang Zi has a taste in his heart.

Anger out of the poet, immersed in painting masterpieces. In the long separation, Yan Zhen's painting techniques have matured day by day, and more than ten masterpieces such as "Mother and Son" and "Spring Wind Lily" have been collected by famous museums in China, Japan, Singapore and other countries, and Yan Zhen has become a first-class painter of the China Artists Association. In June 1998, Yan Zhen's famous work "Banna Style" won the "Special Gold Award for New Works" in the Asia-Pacific Ink Painting Competition held in Australia. According to the relevant regulations, Yan Zhen can immigrate to the United States with her family, and she excitedly told Fang Zige: "I was introduced as a special talent, not only do I not have to spend 1 cent to get a green card, we can also get a large resettlement fee, next week to go through the formalities!" ”

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Fang Zige and Pan Hong

Fang Zige had no idea of immigrating at all, in order not to pour cold water on his wife, he adopted a slow-down strategy: "Immigration is not a trivial matter, it is related to the happiness of a family's life." You go over there first, and if you think it's okay, I'll go over there. Yan Zhen's cousin settled in Los Angeles, USA, and a week later, she rushed there to make a front station. Soon half a month passed, Yan Zhen rented the house, and even her son's school was in contact, but Fang Zige did not move for a long time. Yan Zhen made a transoceanic phone call almost a day: "When exactly are you coming?" Give me a good word! Fang Zige was forced to be anxious, and had to tell the truth: "I am an actor, where to go to the United States to shoot?" Besides, I don't know English, so I'm not like a fool over there? How comfortable we are to live in Beijing, you hurry back. Yan Zhen gave her husband an "ultimatum": "I must see you in Los Angeles in a week!" "The couple did not give in to each other, you ordered me to go to the United States, I forced you to return to Beijing, and began a painful "marriage tug-of-war"...

In order to force Yan Zhen to obey, Fang Zige formed an alliance with his wife and mother's family. Yan Mu cried on the phone: "Mom is running 70 people, her health is not good, can she live for a few days?" If you settle in the United States, how hard it will be for me to see you! The younger sister also advised Yan Zhen: "Sister, your and your brother-in-law's social relations and network resources are in Beijing, to live in a distant and strange Los Angeles, everything must start from scratch." There are two sides to everything, have you ever thought about the difficulty and bitterness in it? Her mother's tears and her sister's persuasion shook Yan Zhen's determination, and she became hesitant.

Fang Zige took the opportunity to rush to his wife's side and communicate with Yan Zhen with his heart: "You know, I am a simple person, as long as there is a drama, I can realize my personal value, which is the greatest happiness in this life." If I come here, the language barrier, all day at home, I am not happy, can you and your son be happy? What her husband said was the truth, and Yan Zhen fell into contemplation...

One day, Yan Zhen took the subway to visit the art exhibition at the Los Angeles Art Museum, and when she arrived at the station, she saw a Chinese man in his 50s at the subway entrance, with a face full of vicissitudes and ragged clothes, leaning against the wall and playing "Liang Zhu" with a violin. Yan Zhen looked closer curiously, and the resume at the other person's feet showed that he graduated from the Shanghai Conservatory of Music and was once a well-known violinist in China. Yan Zhen was astonished. In the evening, she came to her cousin's house and said with emotion a scene in the subway, and her cousin did not think so: "What is strange about this?" Many promising actors and singers in China think that the United States is full of gold, and as a result, they can't even find a job here, many people are poor, depressed, and some even suffer from depression. ”

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Fang Xiaoge

Yan Zhen's heart was completely shaken: she and Fang Zige have entered middle age, it can be said that life has fallen into the middle game, if one step is wrong, it will lose all over the board. After some deliberation, Yan Zhen compromised with her husband: "Brother Zi, I will still go back to Beijing with you, china is more suitable for your development." Brother Fang Zi scratched Yan Zhen's nose and played with a poor mouth: "The scales do not leave the scales, and the public does not leave the mother-in-law." Wife, you have once again made concessions for me, and I will listen to you at any time for the rest of my life! ”

A few days later, the couple flew back to Beijing. Yan Zhen continued to live separately from her husband as always. In February 1999, Fang Zige returned home for a reunion after filming the TV series "Your Life Is So Sentimental". As soon as he entered the door, he threw away his bag and sat on the sofa complaining: "This scene is tired, the script can't be written properly, we and the director have changed while shooting, and the shooting time has been extended for half a month." Alas, good screenwriters are too hard to find right now. Yan Zhen was absent-minded and echoed. Brother Fang Zi patted his wife's shoulder: "Wife, no one knows you better than me, you are erudite and talented, your writing is beautiful, and an ordinary little thing can be depicted by you in every detail, fascinating." You can broaden your artistic path and create a script. ”

What Fang Zige said was by no means an insult. Yan Zhen worked at Beijing China Film Company before she retired, and it was particularly convenient for Yan Zhen to watch movies when she was a child, and for more than a decade, she watched thousands of excellent Chinese and foreign films. It has cultivated Yan Zhen's extraordinary literary appreciation and ability to grasp film and television language. As early as a few years ago, Yan Zhen published the novel "Lover's Record" in the large literary magazine "Woodpecker", which was later bought out by Fujian Huatong Film and Television Co., Ltd. and adapted into a long-form TV series "Lost Years", which attracted wide acclaim. Fang Zige's guidance stimulated Yan Zhen's impulse and desire to create a script. She punched her husband in the back: "Listen to you, I want to be the best playwright among painters, the best painter among playwrights." ”

In the following days, Fang Zige was filming in the crew, his son was boarding at the school, and Yan Zhen began to write the script behind closed doors. Passionate, she often writes from 7 p.m. to one or two a.m. Within two months, she had written the screenplay "Lucky Combination", which was bought out by a Chinese children's film studio. After signing the contract, Yan Zhen announced to her husband on the phone that she was happy, and Fang Zige was full of joy: "I have long said that my wife is a talented woman, first-class in painting, and first-class in writing scripts." ”

However, as soon as Brother Fang Zi returned home, his heart hurt. At one end of the desk was a thick stack of manuscripts, and at the other end were two slices of dry bread that had been bitten, a few biscuits, and half a bag of leftover instant noodles. Brother Fang Zi asked Yan Zhen, "Do you usually eat these?" Yan Zhen smiled calmly: "As soon as writing enters the state, I forget everything." Hungry and hasty to cope with it. Looking at Yan Zhen's right hand again, because of the long-term holding of the pen, the middle finger grinded out thick calluses. Brother Fang Zi was very unhappy in his heart.

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Fang Zi Brother and Son Stills

The next day, Fang Zige spent more than 10,000 yuan to buy back a laptop for his wife, and invited a teacher to teach Yan Zhen to operate, and in just one week, Yan Zhen could skillfully create a script on the computer. Thinking that his wife's writing life is irregular, and her body will be dragged down in the long run, Fang Zige has an idea again...

One night at 11:00 p.m., Yan Zhen was working on the outline of the script when suddenly the doorbell rang. She pulled open the security door and a strange waiter walked in with a fragrant meal. Yan Zhen was shocked, and the other party spoke: "I am from a fast food restaurant across the road, teacher Fang has told us, if your study is still lit at 11 o'clock at night, let us send you a supper." Yan Zhen took a look at it, and the lunch box contained her favorite food. Her husband is filming in Zhejiang, and the intensity of his work is also very large, but he still cares about himself meticulously, and Yan Zhen can't help but burst into tears.

In just a few years, Yan Zhen has dedicated hundreds of millions of viewers to many masterpieces with different styles, such as "Happy Castle", "Gonggu Alley", "Gift of Love", etc., and has become a well-known first-line playwright. Fang Zige's career has also gone up the ladder, starring in more than 30 popular film and television dramas such as "The Last Imperial Princess", "The Sky Has Eyes", "Never Compromise", etc., and has won film and television awards many times. The couple support each other and fly together, which can be called the envy of people in the film and television circle. Fang Zige often quipped to Yan Zhen: "You have to thank me, it is our long separation life that has made you a female painter and playwright." ”

In June 2005, Yan Zhen came home from work at the magazine and had just changed into slippers when the phone of her husband's crew called: "When Teacher Fang was filming, she fell down the stairs and has been taken to the hospital. Hurry up and come here! In just a few words, a hailstone fell in Yan Zhen's heart: What is wrong with her husband? Seriously injured?

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The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Fang Zige stills

The next afternoon, Yan Zhen rushed to Zhejiang People's Hospital anxiously. Entering the ward, the chubby husband was leaning against the bedside reading a cartoon while dripping. Yan Zhen sat down next to her husband, and tears of heartache spilled on her husband's bandaged leg. Fang Zi Gele comforted his wife: "We are all old husbands and wives, why are you still as fragile as a little girl?" Oh, didn't hurt the bones, just a little skin trauma. Yan Zhen was still not assured: "You are so decent, how did you fall off the stairs?" "I don't know why, but I always feel joint pain and weakness in my legs during this time."

The attending doctor told Yan Zhen: "Teacher Fang suffered from gout, and uric acid crystals appeared in the joints of the lower limbs. Yan Zhen asked in horror, "Does this matter?" Will it be paralyzed? The doctor's calm tone eased Yan Zhen's nervousness: "This is a disease of rich life, don't panic too much, but you can't take it lightly." Teacher Fang is fat, has high blood pressure, and loves to eat high-calorie foods such as seafood and animal offal, resulting in an increase in uric acid concentration in the body and difficulty in excretion. In the future, pay attention to dietary adjustment and exercise in a timely manner, and the disease can be gradually alleviated. ”

Fang Zige is a famous "fool". Yan Zhen knew that as soon as her husband entered the crew, he only had the role in his heart, and he was thrown out of the cloud of nine clouds. If the husband wants to make a complete recovery, he can only breathe. That night, Yan Zhen confided her thoughts: "Brother Zi, next year my son will graduate from the Chinese Opera Acting Department and can come out to earn money." I also earned money to paint and write scripts. We still have a savings at home, enough to ensure the rest of our lives. Listen to my advice, you don't shoot a scene, go home and recuperate your body with peace of mind. Brother Fang Zi's small eyes opened like brass bells: "Then how to do it?" I'm in my early fifties, and it's the prime of a man's life, can I stay idle at home? If you don't let me shoot, it's worse than killing me. ”

When her husband said this, Yan Zhen had no choice but to give in: "I'm not around, you have to take care of yourself." Every time you come home, you must give me your healthy self, otherwise I will not agree. Brother Fang Zi is thick and humorous, and his personality is permeated with comedic elements, and he hooks up with Yan Zhen like a child to ensure: "My wife hurts me the most, and my wife's words are the most beautiful, and I will definitely do it." Otherwise, you punish me for carrying you up and down the stairs as we did when we were in love. Yan Zhen twisted her husband's ear: "They are all over 50 years old, and they are still poor." A week later, Fang Zige was discharged from the hospital and returned to the crew, and Yan Zhen returned to Beijing with confidence...

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Brother Fang Zi and Yan Zhen

In the show business circle, it is common for husband and wife to live apart, and many couples are constantly complaining and quarreling due to loneliness, trivial housework and children, resulting in indifferent feelings and even the disintegration of marriages. However, in the long years of separation, Yan Zhen found the dual sustenance of painting and script creation, and her life was busy and full, and her spirit and psychology were happy. For her, separation is no longer a bitter one. Time just like that, she and Fang Zige's gathering was less and more, and it stopped and went.

In mid-June 2007, Fang Zige took over the TV series "Who Decides My Youth". In those days, he immersed himself in writing character analysis in the study, always feeling that his lower limbs were puffy, his thirst was unbearable, and he had to drink more than ten glasses of water a day. Fang Zige thought that the weather was hot, and the body was in urgent need of replenishment of water, but did not care. On July 2, a mosquito was bitten in a bag on his left hand, which was extremely itchy. Brother Fang Zi grabbed it with his hand, and the red envelope was scratched. Unexpectedly, two days later, the wound not only did not heal, but festered to the size of a red date. Yan Zhen quickly accompanied her husband to the Union Hospital for treatment, and after the experts did a systematic examination for them, they solemnly told them: "Teacher Fang's blood sugar in the body is seriously high, which has exceeded 5 times that of normal people, which is the middle of diabetes." ”

This time, Fang Zige and Yan Zhen could no longer be humorous and relaxed. Fang Zige was hospitalized to reduce sugar, and Yan Zhen was in the ward with the bed. Diabetics have to eat less and eat more, and in the middle of the night, Fang Zige is often awakened by hunger and clamoring to eat. Yan Zhen got up from the single bed and shoved sugar-free soda cookies and pumpkin cakes into her husband's mouth. In those days, Yan Zhen's mouth has been nagging: "You are more than 50 years old, and you don't care about your body." As soon as you got sick, my son and I's hearts were tugged, and relatives on both sides followed suit. How many people have you made unrest! Xiao Pigeon said, you can't touch chocolate again. Yan Zhen was full of complaints, but Brother Fang Zi could hear it, and his wife's tone was full of pity and pity!

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Fang Zige's "Son-in-law Is Difficult" stills

On July 17, the blood glucose value in Fang Zige's body returned to normal range, and Yan Zhen accompanied her husband home to recuperate. In the afternoon, Yan Zhen recalled her son home, and the mother and son kept asking Fang Zige to slow down his work. Yan Zhen warned her husband in a serious tone: "Brother Zi, we are not young anymore. Life is a game, the first half is more about wealth, career and status, and the second half is about health, quality of life and family success. Fang Xiaoge took over his mother's words: "Dad, mom said profoundly, if you are sick, the happiness index of our family will be greatly reduced." "Brother Fang Zi has mixed tastes, his own gout has not yet healed, and now he is entangled in diabetes, and his wife and son have been under great psychological pressure for him over the years, and his life is not easy at all." In order to be healthy and reassure his family, Brother Fang Zige promised Yan Zhen's mother and son: "I listen to you, and I will not fight so hard in the future." ”

After that, Fang Zige adjusted his life plan, only receiving two or three plays a year, so that he had half a year to recuperate at home for half a year. Gout and diabetes have strict requirements for diet, Yan Zhen no longer puts sugar and starch in cooking, and Fang Zige's daily salt intake is also controlled to a minimum. Gout patients are forbidden to eat high-protein, high-fat foods, Yan Zhen specially designed recipes for the family, usually on the table with vegetables and soy products. In the long run, Fang Zige felt that the taste was weak and there was no appetite. Yan Zhen specially studied vegetarian chefs at Beijing Gongdelin Restaurant and learned to cook vegetarian meals.

A month later, Yan Zhen was out of school. On May 8, 2008, Fang Zige sat down at the table, only to see fragrant braised sea cucumbers and Dongpo meat on the table, he swallowed a mouthful of spit, and said sadly: "I only have to see these delicacies, it is cruel." Yan Zhen clipped a piece of "meat" and put it into her husband's bowl: "Letting go and eating will not affect your health." Fang Zige looked confused, and Yan Zhen unveiled the mystery: "These delicacies are all made by me with tofu, eggplant and winter melon." Fang Zige's eyes narrowed into a slit: "You are too capable, I will have a blessing in the future!" ”

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Winters in Beijing are dry and cold, and the concentration of dust in the air is very high. In order to create a comfortable and comfortable environment for her husband, Yan Zhen raised flowers and grass at home and decorated her home as a green botanical garden: more than a long goldfish swimming in the fountain, the stone walls were crawling with emerald vines, slender arrow bamboo straight to the roof, and even the bathroom was planted with green roses more than two feet high. Every morning, as soon as he opened his eyes, Brother Fang Zi was full of vitality and happy physically and mentally. He worked with Yan Zhen with great interest to water, prune, and fertilize the green plants, and was very busy...

At this time, Yan Zhen also adjusted her work plan, and after the two scripts of "The Depths of a Hundred Flowers" and "Dreaming with the King" were unscripted, she only put one-third of her energy on work, and the rest of the time was handed over to Fang Zige. Sometimes Fang Zige is filming in other places, and the couple has to live in two places, Yan Zhen no longer regards painting and writing as spiritual sustenance, and her main thoughts are focused on how to recover her husband and how to improve her husband's quality of life. She also often went to the crew to visit the class, and was busy with her husband to play tennis, swim, and guide him to paint. Under Yan Zhen's careful care, by December 2011, Fang Zige's gout and diabetes were basically cured, and his weight dropped from 190 pounds to 160 pounds, his face was rosy, and he climbed five floors without changing color and breathless. In the past few years, although Yan Zhen's career has been affected, the joy and happiness brought to her by her husband's physical recovery are enough to dilute the regret in her heart!

The separation life is also complete, Fang Zige and the artist's wife have suffered together in the years of the actor husband became famous and busy, the separated wife found the spiritual sustenance for a long time to achieve the artist's wife, the star couple slowed down to accompany the husband to recover, and the happy family model was envied by everyone

Fang Zige family portrait

In March 2012, Yan Zhen and Fang Zige ushered in another great joy in their lives: their only son, Fang Xiaoge, was married to the beautiful actress Jiang Linshan. The marriage of the parents is a mirror, the little two are kind and loving, filial piety and understanding, and they have to come to visit their parents every week. As soon as they entered the door, the two little ones were busy, Fang Xiaoge accompanied his father to play chess and massaged his legs and feet; Jiang Linshan gave Yan Zhen a hand in the kitchen and pulled a family routine with her mother-in-law. Every inch of the home is filled with warmth and harmony.

In mid-May 2012, the TV series "Happy Life" starring Fang Zige ended perfectly in eight sets of CCTV, and the happy life performed by Fang Zige made people sigh and envy. In an interview, he and Yan Zhen proudly told the author: "Life in the play is nothing, in reality, our family life is more plain and warm." Talking about the separation life of most of her life, Yan Zhen sighed with emotion: "Until now, I have often separated from Lao Fang. In fact, separation is not as terrible as imagined. Everything has two sides, as long as the husband and wife love, the mentality is peaceful, and the separation can also give birth to wonderful and miraculous! ”

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