Education really doesn't know what words to use to describe it, children are tired, teachers are tired, parents are tired, all kinds of tired, all kinds of volumes! The current environment is that people are regarded as tools or means of production, and they are not treated as real people.
The body and soul are confined indoors, and when the children are in school, they are not allowed to run and play in the playground after class, and now there is a word called toilet socialization. I have never played with soil, I have never hugged a tree, I was born between heaven and earth but I was separated from nature, I only learned on paper that "the spring breeze in February is like scissors" and "how the seeds germinate", but I have never experienced the power of nature.
Nowadays, it is basically impossible to see children above the fifth grade playing in the community on weekdays or weekends, let alone middle and high school students.
Nowadays, schools educate children according to the script, each must be exactly the same, a slight deviation is a problem, and what is even more terrible is that parents follow the school to discipline their children, which is even worse!
Nowadays, many teachers like to be obedient to the baby, if the baby has the spirit of resistance, she or he feels abnormal, disobedient! Terrible! Instead of adapting to the human development of children, education adopts a cramming, high-pressure teaching method.
Now the child is like a big tree that should grow freely, but the whole society does not allow him to grow up in his own way, lock them up and give them chicken blood, let them grow up according to what others expect other societies to need, locked in a cage and not have a little idea of their own, not allowed to do this or that.
It is also the mentality of parents who hope that their sons will become dragons and hope that their daughters will become phoenixes, and they unscrupulously put pressure on their children. Young people and middle-aged people themselves are quite crazy, driven crazy by society, go home to force children, and then make children crazy, children go to school, school leaders and teachers are crazy, growing up in this environment, it is not surprising to produce all kinds of deformed freaks.
No sunlight, no exercise, just doing homework, no wonder the nervous system is not in trouble! Students sometimes have no ability to resist other than to end themselves......
People's greatest self-knowledge is to accept the mediocrity of their parents, accept their own mediocrity and the memedicity of their children, ordinary people also have the happiness of ordinary people, and truly excellent children are not rolled out.
For their children, parents should be tolerant, supportive, and communicative, and what children need is companionship and unconditional love, constant connection with others, and acceptance of new things all the time.
This generation of children needs us to go into their hearts, they come to this world through us to experience their lives, they experience, explore, and create the colors of their lives, instead of losing their smiles, hopes and strength in learning and invisible competition every day.