Depression is a deformed product of exam-oriented education!
Children's depression is forced out, especially in the education industry. I started to take interest classes before I even went to kindergarten, and Sundays were full seven days a week, which was terrible. My daughter's kindergarten teacher's child was forced to be depressed in elementary school, and cameras were installed in the bedroom to monitor all day.
On the first day of school, we had a fifth-grade boy commit suicide by jumping from the building, talking to friends, basically every neighborhood has children jumping off the building, it's so creepy!
Primary school labor reform, every day is closed upstairs is not allowed to go downstairs to play, no mental illness is no wonder! The first score in exam-oriented education, don't think about anything else, what kind of sound personality can be cultivated by such an education method?
In the past, children were running and playing outside all day long, there were no make-up classes, there were really a lot of partners, everyone was together all day thinking about how to play, and running crazy outside could be vented.
Now children are not treated as human beings at all, there are too many homework, too many interest classes, too many exams, and various reasons for papers, forced, and compared. From morning to evening, when I go home, I have to do homework to review and study, and parents still have time to get off work, but the child doesn't, who is not depressed?
There is a wave of people secretly creating involution and anxiety, especially in off-campus training institutions, they are in WeChat groups, Moments, and other software marketing to post various cases of outstanding students' grades, constantly stimulating parents, and slowly it is easy to be brainwashed and anxious...... They all hope that children will be excellent in everything, Chinese, Olympiad mathematics, English, art, dance, music, sports, eloquence, calligraphy, thinking, programming, ...... Even if the child becomes a spinning top, he can't finish learning!
Our flowers are slowly withering, I don't know who wants to see this?
I think that in another 30 years, when today's wave of teenage children are laid off at the age of 40, the mentality is not even as good as today's post-80s, although many 40+ people can't pull down their faces, and they lack channels, and they feel that it is difficult to get employed, but they are forced to a certain part, and they can also do it, and they think it is very interesting and beautiful to recall that they were children and adolescence, what about today's children? Rolled up since childhood, how can there be any happy memories at all?!
There is an end to my life, and there is no end to knowing, and there is no end to it, and there is no end to it! The ideas expounded by Zhuangzi more than 2,000 years ago are still stupidly rolling up life and death one after another, what a pain! Alas! Alas!