My best friend told me that I didn't understand her boyfriend.
I want to eat cherries 138 a pound, he is too expensive to buy, I got angry, and then he transferred 520 to me, she was very puzzled by the problem that can be solved by spending 138, and she doesn't need to transfer 520, why don't you want to spend 138, you have to transfer 520 and have to coax me to be happy?
I asked my girlfriend, usually he doesn't pick on you, my girlfriend thought about it and said: "You have to say that he picked, from the red envelope given to me during the New Year to the total sum of thousands of dollars now", why is this?
Because you go against his values, consumption philosophy, he really can't spend, he can only transfer money to you, because he doesn't think it violates his values when you transfer money to you, because you are worth it in his heart.
My friend used to play games, and talked about a girlfriend from Jiangxi in it, and they were together for eight or nine months, and almost the two of them opened the microphone and played games together every day, and often opened videos, buying gifts and transferring more than 30,000 yuan for her inside and out.
She spent an estimated six or seven thousand on my friend, and then divided, she said to return the money transferred by my friend to me, and my friend didn't ask for it, and we have been together for more than half a year, and no one can say who loses, and the price is different for everyone at the same time.
Sincerity is relative, just like the festival, the so-called Valentine's Day is not only for girls, only for couples and women should also be given to men, valuables can not be bought, dozens of dollars as long as you buy them sincerely, you can also.
Every time my friend buys me something during the holidays, I will buy it for him, I don't feel a loss, his salary of 4000 per month, I think it's okay to buy one or two hundred.
I think men should think like this, men are often reluctant to spend their own money, give money to their girlfriends, this money is their girlfriend's, how to spend it is what the girlfriend thinks.
Many girls whose original families are poor and their wages are not high, and they don't blink when they spend their boyfriend's money after falling in love, and when they reach out to ask for something, they don't ask the boy if he has money in his pocket and where the money comes from.
And I haven't bought such a thing for 30,000 yuan, why do you want to buy it for 138 if you wait for a few more days, what a strange consumption concept.
Tomorrow you have to try durian for 300 pounds, and you have to try Chanel for 30,000 yuan. 500,000 E300 can also be loaned enough. Don't say anything just to taste the cherries, uncontrolled desires are bottomless.
Men are not the same as women. It's not a matter of liking it or not, it's that the fruit is really not worth the price.
Think about it from another perspective, it's like for me, I pay 55 yuan a day for a pack of cigarettes, but if you ask me to buy a lighter for five yuan, I still think it's expensive, because I can buy a lighter for one dollar.
In the same way, a cherry, its properties are just fruits, and there is nothing special about it. Of course, it may also be that I don't have enough rank, and with enough money, maybe it will change my opinion.
Before I got married, I couldn't open my mouth to let my boyfriend buy it for me, if someone took the initiative to buy it for me, I would be happy to accept it, but then I would buy a similar gift and give it back. I don't take advantage of others, which makes me feel dignified.
He was expressing that he wouldn't buy 138 pounds of cherries himself, but he wanted you to be happy, so he transferred you a red envelope of 520, and he didn't care how you used the money.
Just like Wang Sicong said, I like Eason Chan very much, but if his concert tickets are 10,000, I won't go. It's not that you don't have money, it's not worth it.
It's not that my boyfriend can't afford to eat cherries, but the current economic level makes him feel burdened. Send you 520 because you love you.
In other words, giving you 520 is because it makes you happy, and in his opinion, it is worth it to make your girlfriend happy, and as for what you do, he will not mind, this is just a value point.
Men feel that it is not cost-effective to eat that thing, and they are too expensive to buy it, but if their wife and girlfriend want to eat it, I can give you money to buy it, anyway, as a man, I will not buy something that is ridiculously expensive!
The concept of consumption is different, I can buy clothes for more than 1,000 yuan, but I am reluctant to buy more than 1,000 yuan for a bottle of mineral water.
He gives money because he wants to live a good life with you, and giving you money is left-handed to right-handed, and some consumption that does not meet the income conditions is dispensable for the family.
I understand very well, 60 yuan is not a lot of money, but let me buy a cultural and creative bookmark with 60 in the scenic spot, I definitely don't want to buy it. But if my kids wanted it, I would have bought it.
The money is given to you, the money is still in the hands of the two of you, and you are still pinching it in a family, this is to live
138 cherries, to be honest, are really expensive, it sounds good because the consumption concept is different, and it doesn't matter if it is bad to say that it doesn't matter if you spend other people's money.
My friend said: My daughter-in-law wants to buy things that I think are expensive, I directly give cash to her to buy them herself, and then she doesn't buy them after receiving the money, and when I ask her, she says it's a bit expensive and reluctant.
So in fact, both men and women know in their hearts that this consumption is an IQ tax, and whoever buys it is stupid, anyway, boys generally don't be the big ones who are wronged.
My mother's birthday, I asked if I wanted to buy something, my daughter-in-law said to give money directly, and the money for buying things was spent, and the money was still in our house. To be honest, I think it's normal to accept gifts before I get married, but I feel weird to receive red envelopes!
The concept of consumption is different, if you want to eat watermelon, 138 can hold two big watermelons, he is definitely willing, but the cherries are eaten without a few pounds, boys still pay more attention to cost performance, girls want to be more bourgeoisie, you slowly run in.
If you are given 520 or choose to buy cherries, the ones who choose to buy cherries for you are not going to live with you. If you are given 520, it means that I want to live with you.
And it depends on what class you are, 138 pounds of cherries are obviously not consumed by ordinary people, and this has nothing to do with occasional consumption. It's a matter of values!
So it's very simple, men's values don't agree with you, 520 can coax a girlfriend. 138 Cherries are not good, because that is not a man's view of consumption. thinks that it is not only a loser but also an IQ tax, and if there are more such things, it is basically the end of a breakup.
The money is spent on you in his hands, he feels that it hurts, and the money transferred to you is your money, and how you spend it is your business.
Of course, you'd better bless him with money to transfer to you all the time, otherwise you will develop the character of wanting anything, and you will be sad after the breakup.
520 is for girlfriends. Buying 138 pounds by yourself feels like a fool, and it doesn't conform to your own values. My girlfriend bought it, that's my girlfriend stupid, sometimes I can only turn a blind eye, and I have a nightmare, just keep myself.
It is difficult to find a like-minded friend in a lifetime, let alone find a wife with the same three views, which is simply lower than the probability of winning the lottery.
A male colleague in the company, born in the 90s, is ordinary, usually smokes Hongta Mountain and has a bowl of beef noodles for lunch.
Suddenly, one day, this young man replaced Hongta Mountain with Huazi, and he either added duck legs or pig's head meat to lunch, and invited us to drink every other day.
We first suspected that he had won the lottery, but he did not admit it; Later, he wondered if he had taken a private job, and he said no.
In the end, I found out that he had broken up with his girlfriend.
A man who is used to saving money! Spending money is a kind of torture for him, especially money that he thinks is not cost-effective; he will feel proud to make money for you to spend, so he would rather give you more money for you to buy than buy it himself! You take 520 and buy 138 cherries, you are happy and he is happy!
Remember to take his money to buy him something that he is reluctant to buy himself, and he will love you even more!