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My name is Li Yuxin, I am 28 years old, and I am a designer in an advertising agency. Slim, sweet-looking, cheerful and lively, diligent and responsible at work. Although he has a successful career, there is always a loneliness in his heart, and he looks forward to meeting the right person and starting a happy married life.
"Yuxin, it's time for you to think about marriage. One day, my mom looked at me and said, "You're almost 30 years old, it's time to settle down." "
"Mom, don't worry about it. I smiled and replied, "I'm trying to find the right person, as long as he truly loves me, we can grow old together." "
"Hello, my name is Zhang Fenghuang and I am a real estate developer. He stepped forward and held out his hand.
"Hello, I'm Yuxin, it's nice to meet you. I shyly shook his hand back.
Half a year later, Zhang Fenghuang proposed to me. I was ecstatic and immediately started preparing everything for the wedding. My mom and sister were very supportive and gave us pertinent suggestions.
"Yuxin, your wedding must be grand and decent, and you must invite relatives and friends to witness your happy moment. Mom said.
"Yes, it's best to choose a high-end hotel in the city, and ask a well-known wedding company to run it. The sister continued, "The wedding dress should also be carefully chosen. "
I nodded earnestly and began to work on the wedding venue, wedding dress, etc.
Finally, the long-awaited wedding arrived. Early that morning, I was surrounded by bridesmaids in the dressing room, concentrating on dressing up the bride's makeup. Looking at myself in the mirror, I burst into tears of excitement.
"Yuxin, are you crying? Bridesmaids, you tease me with every word.
"yes, I've waited too long for this day. I smiled and wiped away my tears, took a deep breath in the mirror, and prepared myself to enter the marriage hall.
The wedding scene was full of friends and the atmosphere was warm and festive. I slowly walked to the end of the red carpet, where Zhang Fenghuang was already waiting for my arrival. Seeing his handsome figure, my heart pounded again.
I solemnly said my oath and looked at Zhang Fenghuang with a determined look in my eyes. We're going to spend the second half of our lives together.
After the wedding, we headed to Bali for our honeymoon. The sunny beaches and coconut groves make for a stunning tropical picture.
"What are you thinking, honey?" Zhang Fenghuang put his arm around my waist and said softly in my ear.
"I was thinking, this beach is so beautiful. However, you are the greatest treasure of my life. I turned my head sideways and stared at him affectionately.
We snuggled up to each other like this, kissing and hugging unbridledly, savoring the sweet time of the newlyweds.
After the honeymoon is over, we start to step into an ordinary life. But I don't feel bored, on the contrary, every day with Zhang Fenghuang makes me feel happy.
"Honey, it's my turn to cook today. What would you like to eat?" Zhang Fenghuang asked me while wearing an apron.
"Whatever, as long as you do it, I like it. I laughed.
Looking at his busy figure in the kitchen, my heart welled up. Married life is far better and more enjoyable than I imagined.
However, gradually, I also discovered some shortcomings of Zhang Fenghuang. He is very dedicated to his work and often comes home late. Sometimes I feel a little lonely, but just the thought that he is for our future lives makes me relieved.
Overall, I am happy with the marriage. I thought that we would love each other like this and grow old together.
"Phoenix, why have you been so busy lately? It's been a long time since we've gotten along like we used to. "Once, I couldn't help but tell him about the loneliness in my heart.
"I'm sorry dear, but recently the company is working on a big project, and I have to do a good job. Can you be more considerate of me? Zhang Fenghuang's tone was a little stiff.
"But you should also pay attention to our feelings!" I was in a hurry, and my voice raised a little.
In this way, we often quarreled over this matter. I have reminded Zhang Fenghuang countless times to cherish our relationship. But he was always immersed in his work, blind to our marriage.
Until one day, a small incident completely annoyed me and made me make the decision to divorce.
That day, I waited at home as usual for Zhang Fenghuang to come back from work. But in the middle of the night, he still didn't come home. I called, messaged, and there was no response.
Just when I was about to give up, Zhang Fenghuang finally came back with a box of cherries.
"What the hell do you say you're doing?!" When I saw him full of alcohol, I was furious.
"Sorry dear, it's the department manager's birthday and we had a few drinks together. Zhang Fenghuang said incoherently.
"You're leaving me alone at home until midnight for this? I asked angrily.
"Enough is enough! I'm fed up with your coldness and neglect of me. Let's get a divorce!" With tears in my eyes, I made up my mind to say this.
In this way, Zhang Fenghuang and I walked towards the road of breaking up. The divorce process was quickly completed, and I moved out of our old house and started living on my own.
In the beginning, I felt very lonely and helpless. Once upon a time, there was Zhang Phoenix by our side, and we talked and laughed, and there were ups and downs. Now, I'm the only one left in the house, and the silence is suffocating.
"Ah, it's so lonely!" Sometimes I can't help but cry and fall asleep crying.
Gradually, I started to get back into work and put most of my energy into my career. Work did give me a certain amount of solace and made me forget the loneliness for a while.
However, in the dead of night, I still miss the happy old days. I often think about how Zhang Fenghuang pursued me passionately back then, and how he made a promise of a couple in the next life.
"If I had been more sympathetic to his work at the time, maybe we wouldn't be where we are today. "I often blame myself in such pain.
Just when I had been lonely for a long time, I met a man named Li Mumu, who gave me the courage to fall in love again.
We met at the gym. That day, I was doing strength training, but Li Mumu accidentally dropped the dumbbell on the ground and made a loud noise.
"I'm sorry to frighten you. He hurriedly came over and apologized to me shyly.
"It's okay, it's just a small accident. I laughed.
In this way, we struck up and talked about each other's work and life. Li Mumu is a well-known writer, independent, sunny and humorous. Talking to him, I gradually realized that we have a lot of common interests.
After a few months of getting along, we sparked a spark of love. One day, Li Mumu mustered up the courage to propose to me on a date.
"Yuxin, I know that you have been hurt, but please believe that I will definitely give you happiness. Will you marry me?" He looked at me affectionately.
Getting along with Li Mumu made me involuntarily begin to reflect on the marriage between myself and Zhang Fenghuang.
"Yuxin, did you figure it out later, why did you break up in the first place?" Once, my mom took the rare initiative to ask about it.
"Mom, I'm also introspecting. I sighed, "Maybe it's because we're both too headstrong and don't understand each other." "
"Marriage is like that, it needs to be maintained by both parties. You were all too young and inexperienced and inintelligent. Mom said earnestly.
I nodded silently, and my mother's words gave me a new epiphany. I've come to realize that maintaining a relationship requires patience and understanding on both sides, rather than self-assertion.
Since then, I have made up my mind to manage my relationship with Li Mumu well and not let history repeat itself.
I will try my best to understand the importance of Li Mumu's work and give him enough space. At the same time, I will also take the initiative to communicate with him, tell my thoughts and needs, and not let conflicts accumulate.
Gradually, I found that Li Mumu was so considerate. Whenever I felt lonely, he would show up to me in time and give me a warm hug.
"Honey, we will be happy. As long as we treat each other with love, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome. Li Mumu often encourages me like this.
I believe that as long as we work together, we will definitely reach the end of life. A new life has opened up to me, and I look forward to it bringing me new surprises.
Through this experience, I finally realized the true meaning of marriage. The maintenance of a relationship requires mutual understanding and tolerance from both parties, rather than blind self-assertion. Only by treating each other with love and resolving conflicts with patience can the flowers of affection stay fragrant forever.
I'm glad I finally met Li Mumu, my bosom friend. His appearance not only regained my confidence in love, but also made me understand what true love and acquaintance are.
Not long ago, our wedding came as scheduled. Looking at Li Mumu's affectionate eyes and listening to his oath-like words, my eyes couldn't help but moisten. This time, I will definitely manage this marriage with him well, work together, and work together to move towards the future.
"Well, the beach is beautiful and will definitely make you want to come back for more. Li Mumu said with a smile.
Yes, it's not only a beautiful place, but it also has a precious memory for me. Once, Zhang Fenghuang and I also spent our honeymoon there.
It's just that this time, I believe that our love will not end as bleak as last time. Because we know each other and have the same heart. We will use tolerance and patience to manage this relationship together until the rest of our lives.
With this in mind, I happily began to prepare for this honeymoon. Life is like this, there are always some regrets that need to be relieved, and there is always new hope waiting for us.
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