The 36-year-old brother-in-law borrowed 300,000 yuan from me to buy a house, and after seeing his salary slip, I decided not to borrow a penny, because the brother-in-law's salary was too low, only more than 4,000 yuan, to be honest, this money has to repay the mortgage, and I have to support the family, which is not enough at all, besides, I am not a banker, and I am not obliged to lend him money.
Last month, my brother-in-law came to me and said that he was going to buy a house, and he was still short of 300,000 yuan, hoping that I could lend it to him, but I refused at that time, I said that I also had pressure on myself, and now the business is not good, I have to repay the mortgage every month, and there is a family to live in, and there is really no money to lend you.
At that time, my brother-in-law was angry, saying that I was too stingy, he said that my brother-in-law bought a house, my father-in-law and mother-in-law took 300,000 yuan out, how to get to him, I refused to borrow, and said that I didn't believe him, I was speechless at that time, I have been married to my wife for so many years, I have always been very good to my brother-in-law, every time he is short of money, I take the initiative to give it to him, why I am not willing to borrow this time, he is angry.
To tell the truth, it's not that I don't want to borrow, I don't dare to borrow, because I know his character, if he had the money, he would have bought it a long time ago, and he wouldn't have waited until now, to put it bluntly, he just wanted to borrow money from me, and then he didn't pay it back, if I lent it to him, it would be equivalent to a meat bun beating a dog, and there would be no return.
At the beginning, he needed 100,000 yuan to do business, and I gave it to him without saying a word, but I haven't paid it back until now, and said that I was stingy, that I was not interesting enough, I was really speechless, I complained to my wife, and my wife also said that I was too stingy, that I was not like a brother-in-law, and that I was really bitter and couldn't say it.
I know it's not good to reject my brother-in-law, but I can't have no bottom line, I also have my life, I can't put my life into it for him, so I decided not to borrow a penny, I believe he can understand me, are you right?
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