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"I hope that my mother, who is far away in heaven, and my wife, can come and kiss me and hug me......"
In 2009, Guo Jinglin, who was holding the actor trophy, cried silently in an instant at the award ceremony, and should have enjoyed the glory and walked to the top, but the important relatives around him left one after another.
Especially at the funeral of his beloved wife, Guo Jinglin cried until he fainted, and then vowed to cement his heart and never marry again.
So, 15 years later, has he kept his promise? How is he doing now?
A late wedding, a difficult choice
In 2002, after many years in the entertainment industry, Guo Jinglin has always been tepid, even if he frequently shuttles between the set and the repertory troupe, he has never ushered in a breakthrough in his career.
Fortunately, his wife has never left him, and with Guo Jinglin by his side, the two have been in love with each other, and they have been married for 8 years hand in hand, the only regret is that they unfortunately lost their mother during this period.
If it weren't for the company of his wife Tong Xin, I am afraid he would have collapsed, so in order to thank him for coming all the way, at the peak of his 32-year-old age, he decided to hold a wedding.
The wedding scene was grand and grand, but unfortunately, Guo Jinglin was the only one who held his beloved wife's hand, and couldn't help moistening his eyes, saying that in the past eight years, it was Tong Xin's desperate companionship and Guo Jinglin's days of nothing.
The words were full of emotion, and everyone at the scene could see that the relationship between the two was hard-won, and then in 2007, the fifth year of marriage, the two ushered in the crystallization of love.
Faced with the arrival of the newborn, the two were ecstatic and received the blessings of a group of relatives and friends, and at this time, Guo Jinglin's career was at the forefront at the same time and had developed by leaps and bounds.
The family is happy, the career is smooth, no matter how you look at Guo Jinglin, they are all "winners in life", however, at this moment, the bad news appeared, which instantly led to the collapse of the entire family.
During pregnancy, Tong Xin suddenly felt a burst of residual pain, and after several examinations in the hospital, she was diagnosed with cancer.
In any case, once he gave up any of them, Guo Jinglin would live in a haze of pain for the rest of his life, but after the entanglement, he decided to firmly protect his wife's life and had no choice but to kill the child.
Tong Xin did not agree with this, believing that medical treatment was limited at that time, and the chance of treating cancer was very slim, and even if the child was killed, it might not be able to save her life.
It is better to leave the child behind, at least to be able to accompany Guo Jinglin, although the two fell into a critical juncture of choice, but Guo Jinglin, who loves his wife deeply, resolutely chose to "protect the great".
At first, under the treatment of doctors and the careful care of her husband, Tong Xin's condition was indeed alleviated, but she did not admit it, and in the end, she could not escape the disease and passed away.
And Guo Jinglin made a promise that shocked countless people.
Painful Wife,Standing Oath
The sudden departure of his beloved wife caused Guo Jinglin to fall into grief in an instant, and he washed his face with tears all day long, regretting that he couldn't spend more time with his wife to spend the remaining time.
In Tong Xin's funeral, Guo Jinglin looked at the cold photo, couldn't help but burst into tears, lying on the side and crying bitterly until he almost fainted at the scene, and finally came to his senses and made a vow not to marry a wife again in this life.
In fact, all this was expected, after all, the two met at a young age and were very emotionally strong.
Guo Jinglin, who was born in Beijing Hutong, grew up in the dormitory of Beijing Renyi, and gradually developed a strong interest in art under the influence of this, but he did not expect to meet his future beloved wife Tong Xin while chasing his dreams.
At that time, the two met by chance, becoming a pair of childhood sweethearts, whenever they had spare time, they would always play together, although they were still young and didn't know what it meant to like, but Guo Jinglin would still give each other delicious food.
It's a pity that the memories of the two of them only stayed in their childhood, and due to the need to go to school, they were busy with their studies and lives, and inadvertently embarked on the road of parting ways.
After ten years of hard study, with the support of his parents, Guo Jinglin resolutely chose to sign up for the art examination, and successfully got the admission notice for the opera, officially forming an indissoluble bond with art.
Unexpectedly, when Guo Jinglin was in his junior year, he suddenly learned that his mother was suffering from a cerebral hemorrhage, and although he stepped on the train home overnight, he still couldn't see the last face.
In this regard, Guo Jinglin felt very remorseful, and before he could let his mother enjoy the happiness, the two were isolated from the world, and it was not until 1994, after he graduated from the play, that he gradually came to his senses.
And Guo Jinglin, who is not deeply involved in the world, has never had a good improvement after entering the entertainment industry, but he and Tong Xin met again, and the two are determined to work hard together and support each other forward.
After several years of hard work, Guo Jinglin's career has gradually achieved something, and at the same time, the relationship with Tong Xin has also come to fruition and entered the palace of marriage.
It's a pity that in 2009, Guo Jinglin, who had already become an actor and won the trophy, lost his beloved wife Tong Xin forever, so at the award ceremony, he was so aggrieved that he cried into tears.
However, since then, Guo Jinglin, who has been on the road of life for many years, has embarked on another avenue of life.
Late bloomer, the status quo today
The love between Guo Jinglin and Tong Xin has touched countless people, especially Guo Jinglin, who swore not to marry for love, was once called a "pure love warrior".
Perhaps it is this sincere feeling that touched the heavens at the same time and prompted Guo Jinglin to have a better future.
Since making his vow, Guo Jinglin has been devoted to his career, and has successively participated in many classics such as "New Bright Sword", "Dog Thirteen", and "Ideal Shining in China".
The broadcast of almost every drama can cause a strong response from the audience, and Guo Jinglin has achieved a "hanging-like" life, with his fame all over the country, holding various high-end resources in the circle, and getting the trophy softly.
During this period, the role created by Guo Jinglin made his career reach the peak directly, however, Tong Xin, his beloved wife who once accompanied him to endure hardships, could no longer see this scene.
However, now 15 years have passed since his wife's death, and at the funeral of his beloved wife, he cried until he fainted and vowed never to marry again, but he did keep his promise.
Even if there are many beauties in the entertainment industry, the 54-year-old Guo Jinglin is still unmoved, and is determined to the long-deceased Tong Xin, perhaps in his opinion, no one can replace Tong Xin, but now living alone is not a kind of happiness.
Looking back on Guo Jinglin's life, he went through hardships in the first half and lost his mother and wife one after another, but fortunately, in the second half of his life, his career that occupied a place in the entertainment industry made him not alone on the road to keeping his promises.