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Text: Qiao Qiao
Edited by Jojo
"I hope that my mother and wife in heaven will come to see me, kiss me, and hug me. ”
This sentence was said by Guo Jinglin at the Best Actor Award Ceremony of the 13th Huabiao Awards in 2009.
That day could have been the happiest day of his life;
He used a "Yuan Longping" to let people see his strength.
However, with the trophy in his hand on the stage, he didn't know who he could share it with.
Many people are bitter and sweet, and they have a double harvest in love and career in middle age.
But Guo Jinglin's life is full of ups and downs;
The young man lost his mother and the middle-aged wife lost his wife, and he watched the important people around him leave one by one.
At his wife's funeral, he vowed never to marry again.
So 14 years have passed, what is happening to Guo Jinglin now?
Pregnant wife has cancer, big or small?
"Your wife has advanced breast cancer. ”
Hearing the doctor's words, Guo Jinglin's face was full of disbelief.
He couldn't have imagined that he had brought his wife for a prenatal checkup, but in the end he found out that his wife had cancer.
In 2007, the fifth year after Guo Jinglin and his wife Tong Xin got married, the two had the crystallization of love.
Faced with this hard-won child, Guo Jinglin was ecstatic.
At that time, he was already middle-aged and had always wanted to have a child.
Not only him, but his wife Tong Xin is also in this mood.
After his wife became pregnant, Guo Jinglin reduced her work and stayed at home with her wife.
Who knows that an inspection breaks the peaceful life of the two, how will the two choose?
"The fetus is still young and can be aborted, so you can discuss it with your wife. ”
Hearing the doctor say this, Guo Jinglin said that he wanted a wife without thinking about it.
In order not to make his wife too sad after knowing the truth, he lied to his wife that the child was not developing well.
But his wife Tong Xin didn't believe Guo Jinglin's words, and Guo Jinglin had no choice but to tell the truth.
After hearing the truth, the wife cried bitterly, she wanted to keep the child, she felt that she could survive until the child was born.
But Guo Jinglin didn't want his wife to risk his life, he cried and comforted his wife that they could have children in the future.
Looking at her husband with a painful face, Tong Xin finally obeyed her husband's words.
After a little recuperation, the doctor operated on Tong Xin, and her condition was brought under control after the operation.
During the time when his wife was hospitalized, Guo Jinglin turned down his job and stayed by his wife's side.
After the wounds healed, the two returned home to recuperate.
During the period of recuperation, a well-known director asked Guo Jinglin to film.
The director hopes that Guo Jinglin can play Mr. "Yuan Longping" in "Yuan Longping".
Hearing the director's words, Guo Jinglin felt a little moved, but his wife's injuries had not yet healed.
After thinking about it again, he refused the director's invitation, but the director did not give up immediately.
In the face of powerful actors, the director doesn't mind inviting a few more times, after all, good actors are worth it.
After Tong Xin learned that Guo Jinglin had such an opportunity, she persuaded him to take over the drama and said that his illness had been cured.
Under the guidance of his wife, Guo Jinglin took over the show, and before joining the crew, he found a nanny for his wife.
He also specially asked his mother-in-law to take care of his wife at home.
After filming the movie, Guo Jinglin couldn't wait to go home to find his wife, but as soon as he got home, he got bad news.
The wife's recurrence and the deterioration of the condition were so rapid that there was no time to treat it.
Seeing his wife in his arms dying, Guo Jinglin couldn't help crying.
His wife was a light in the first half of his dim life, and it was his wife who rescued him from the darkness.
Met at a young age and walked through the darkness hand in hand
Guo Jinglin's childhood and adolescence were quite comfortable, although there were flaws, but overall happy.
Born in Beijing Hutong, he can see many famous artists in Beijing when he opens his home.
Across the door from his house is the dormitory of Beijing Renyi, and the well-known Peking Opera master Mei Baojiu lives next door to his house.
Living in that environment since he was a child made Guo Jinglin love art very much.
In that alley, he not only found his dream, but also met someone who wanted to join hands for the rest of his life.
Tong Xin also lives in that alley, and she and Guo Jinglin can be said to be childhood sweethearts.
The two have been playing together since they were children, although the young two don't know what liking is.
But as long as Guo Jinglin has money, he will buy delicious food for Tong Xin.
At that time, Guo Jinglin's only worry was that his father did not agree with him to study art.
Guo Jinglin's father was a strict father in the traditional sense, and he felt that there was no future in studying art.
His father's reprimand made him sad, but his mother's comfort gave him the strength to persevere.
The support of his mother gave Guo Jinglin the courage to continue, he took the art examination and was finally admitted to the play.
When he went to study abroad, Guo Jinglin always wrote letters to his mother and Tong Xin.
Even though they are thousands of miles apart, their relationship has never faded.
At the age of 23, a bad news shattered his otherwise peaceful life.
His mother died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and even though he hurried back to Beijing, he still did not see his mother for the last time.
This incident is the pain of Guo Jinglin's life, he has not had time to honor his mother, and he has not earned money to buy something for his mother.
Before his mother died, he wanted to buy a 400 yuan coat for his mother, and his mother had been interested in it for a long time.
But 400 yuan was not a small amount at that time, and in order to raise money to buy clothes, Guo Jinglin chose to donate blood.
However, after the clothes were bought, my mother fell ill and died before she could wear them.
This incident has become the pain of Guo Jinglin's life.
After graduation, Guo Jinglin's life went into darkness.
Although he entered the art theater as he wished, he did not know what his future would be at that time.
At that time, he could only get 198.5 yuan a month.
He had to support not only himself, but also his father and sister.
The money was not enough to spend, and in order to live, he had to go to the vegetable market to pick up some vegetable leaves.
After losing his mother at the age of 23, Guo Jinglin, who was in the dark, only Tong Xin could rely on.
At that time, Guo Jinglin, who first came to the theater, not only had a poor life, but his career had not improved.
But fortunately, there is Tong Xin by his side, even if life is hard, as long as his lover is around, he has infinite strength.
After a period of struggle, Guo Jinglin finally ushered in a turning point in his life.
He participated in the TV series "The Woman Who Walked the Gobi", in which his excellent performance was impressive.
With this drama, he became famous in one fell swoop and fired his first shot in the entertainment industry.
After that, he honed his acting skills while filming, and gradually gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
There is him in "New Bright Sword", and he is also in "Apocalypse of Life", and he has created one classic character after another.
In 2002, Guo Jinglin, whose career had improved, married Tong Xin, who had been with him for 8 years.
At the age of 32, he finally held a wedding for his wife, and he once had nothing.
But his wife did not leave him, and now that he is famous, he wants to give his wife a warm wedding.
At the wedding scene, this iron-clad man couldn't help but shed tears on the spot.
After marriage, Guo Jinglin and his wife lived happily ever after, but they didn't expect happiness to be so short-lived.
In 2009, Guo Jinglin won the Huabiao Award for Best Actor with "Yuan Longping".
But it was also in this year that he completely lost his wife who had been in love for many years.
A few months before the Huabiao Awards ceremony, Tong Xin died of cancer.
After the death of his wife, Guo Jinglin was grief-stricken, and he didn't believe that his wife had left him like that.
In an interview, he said: "If I knew that my wife would only live for one year, from the beginning of our acquaintance, I would not say a word to her." ”
After the death of his wife, he was so grief-stricken that he had no one to confide in, and he could only express his pain in words.
He wrote all his thoughts about his wife into the book.
In 2017, the TV series "Born on a Bright Day" was broadcast, and the screenwriter of this drama was Guo Jinglin.
He incorporated his own experiences and his love story with his wife in the play.
He is not only the screenwriter of this drama, but also the star of this drama.
In reality, he did not have a happy ending with his wife.
But in the play, the two have a happy ending.
Guo Jinglin, who gradually got out of the pain of losing his wife, began to focus on his career, and he has made many works.
This year, he served as the artistic director and starred in the TV series "Iron Horse Proud Days".
On October 11, he also shared the news of his participation in the Douyin lecture hall on Douyin.
In the video, he is 53 years old, and he is still in good spirits.
epilogue
Life is like that, you never know what will happen tomorrow.
What you can do is to grasp the moment and don't leave regrets later.
Guo Jinglin only loved his wife Tong Xin in his life, and even if his wife died, he was still full of his wife.
In response to that sentence, the carriages and horses in the past were very slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.