My wife has a strange behavior that often makes me angry, so I talked to her a few times, and the two of us quarreled because of it, but she just didn't listen and still went her own way. I think it's a bit too much for my wife to behave like this once or twice......
No, today she is "repeating the same trick" again, here's the thing, because I am off today, so I plan to make meat buns at home at noon to eat. Originally, I calculated that I would make about 10 of them, 2 for me, my wife and son, and I was going to give the remaining 4 to my parents to eat, so that everyone could eat enough and not waste.
Unexpectedly, when the buns were just ready to be cold, I went to the study to sit in front of the computer and looked at the stocks for a few minutes, but when I returned to the kitchen, I found that there were 3 fewer buns. This time I was really angry, the plan I had arranged was disrupted again, and my mom couldn't go there.
This strange phenomenon of my wife really gave me a headache, I don't know what her purpose is, she often gives Uncle Ji delicious things at home to eat, and sometimes I even think that she and Uncle Ji must have an ulterior secret, and we have quarreled a few times for this.
Today I really couldn't hold it back, and asked my wife angrily: "Why didn't you discuss it with me before sending things, knowing that we had quarreled about such things, you still want to make me angry, you often send food to Uncle Ji, do you treat him as your father or boyfriend?" It's really inexplicable. ”
My wife didn't hesitate to fight back and said, "Do you have to report to your neighbor if you send something to eat, and you're not the one who picks the door." And Uncle Ji is over 70 years old, is it possible? I see him pitiful, send him some food to help him, this is a matter of effort, what do you have to be angry about? Besides, the three of us can't eat more than 10 buns, are you stingy or careful?"
I was even more angry when I heard this: "You just think about others, never think about yourself, I originally wanted to give these extra buns to my parents, you give the buns away on your own initiative, can I not be angry?"
I said: "I have told you many times, you are hospitable, I have no objection to you sending things, but please don't give things to others casually at home, I am particularly opposed to this, although you are a good heart, what if someone eats what you send and something happens, can you afford it?"
Seeing me say this, my wife also became energetic, she blushed and said, "I know you are filial, don't you just make some more steamed buns from your parents tomorrow and send them to you." Besides, I didn't know you were going to give the extra buns to your parents. You always say that you are afraid that others will have an accident if you eat it, but after so many years, have you ever had an accident? You are simply unfounded, and it is too unreasonable. ”
Seeing my wife's angry appearance, I suddenly relented, after all, she just gave away a few buns, and she didn't do anything wrong, but everyone lacked communication. I know my wife's temper, although she is beautiful, in fact, she is also a warm-hearted person, I was fascinated by her at the beginning.
My wife's character, how to say it, usually people give us gifts, she must return the gift in a short time, and if you give one, I will pay back two. If there are good things at home, she will definitely share them with her friends, and if anyone comes to her for an errand, she will definitely go out of her heart and lungs to help, and she is a very warm-hearted person, and no one in the neighborhood says bad things about her.
To be honest, I actually know something in my heart, and there is a reason why my wife often sends food to Uncle Ji, my neighbor. Because Uncle Ji's wife left early, the only son died because of righteousness and courage when he was a soldier in the army. All these years have passed, and Uncle Ji is living alone on a retirement salary of about 2,500 yuan. Uncle Ji is not in very good health now, I heard that he is still taking medicine every day, and his life is relatively poor.
When we were sitting at the dining table eating steamed buns, my wife saw that I had calmed down, so she suddenly said to me: "You may not know, Uncle Ji has been sick in bed for almost a month, and yesterday the doctor gave a verdict, saying that it is advanced lung cancer, and it may not survive for three months." ”
I was taken aback, no wonder I hadn't seen Uncle Ji for several days, it turned out that he was seriously ill. I shook my head and sighed and asked my wife, who is taking care of Uncle Ji now?
My wife said that sometimes his niece took time to take care of him, but it was all temporary, and he usually had to rely on Uncle Ji to take care of himself. I was thinking, I can help a little more at this time, and I don't want to have regrets in the future. Hey, Uncle Ji is really pitiful.
When I saw my wife with a regretful face, I suddenly felt like a child who had done something wrong. Thinking of the quarrel with his wife just now, I was very ashamed. That's when I began to recall Uncle Ji's good coming. Five years ago, my son was hit by a motorcycle on the street and broke his leg, and Uncle Ji immediately carried him to the hospital after seeing it; last year, my wife had a pus pocket on her thigh, and the hospital couldn't heal it well, so Uncle Ji called and asked his relatives in the countryside to pick herbs and put it on it; after the Spring Festival this year, I also asked Uncle Ji to help me fix the leakage of the sewer pipe in my kitchen......
I suddenly felt a little sorry for Uncle Ji, maybe I had a misunderstanding of him before, so my view was a bit one-sided, and now I regret it in retrospect.
Seeing my painful appearance, my wife smiled and grabbed my hand and said, "Why don't we buy some fruit in the evening and go see Uncle Ji?"
I nodded vigorously and said, "Buy more and make Uncle Ji happy!" If he thinks today's buns are delicious, I'll make them for him tomorrow. ”