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In 2017, Xu Yajun became popular again with "In the Name of the People".
His handsome appearance and superb acting skills on the screen made him a wave of mother fans.
As everyone knows, as early as 20 years ago, he was selected as the top of the list of "the most wanted male stars".
entered the entertainment industry at the age of 11, won the emperor at the age of 22, and became popular again at the age of 53.
His career is going well, but his relationship is four marriages and three divorces.
In order to be with a third party, his wife almost died, but he said that he didn't care.
This calm attitude has become the biggest controversy in his life......
01
can become a small person with Cai Guoqing, Wu Gang and others, and you can understand that Xu Yajun's family background must not be bad.
He was born into a military family in Hebei.
Later, due to a job change, he and his parents settled in Kyoto.
Under the influence of Hutong culture, he developed a strong interest in the entertainment industry.
Later, at his repeated request, his parents sent him to a key literary school in Beijing.
Because of his good performance, he joined the children's performance team of CCTV.
It was there that he suffered his first setback.
At the age of 8, the crew of "Beacon Boy" selected actors at his school.
After learning the news, he hurriedly signed up.
Who would have thought that his performances and lines were passable, but in the end he was stuck in height.
The defeat discouraged him, but fortunately, the opportunity came quickly.
When he was 11 years old, the crew of "Youth Like Fire" also went to his school to select young actors.
After a fierce selection, this time, he was successfully elected.
In addition to his official debut, he also made a good friend in the crew - Cai Guoqing.
This "actual combat" surprised him, and at the same time deepened his heart of wanting to be an actor.
In order to realize his dream, after graduating from primary school, he was admitted to the children's actor class of Chinese opera.
Later, after graduating, he successfully entered the theater.
During his years in the theater, in addition to his acting skills, his emotional life was also very rich.
Because of his heroic appearance, he often receives love letters.
There are even actresses who go to watch his performance and cheer him on.
In 1985, he collaborated with Song Dandan on a "Looking for the World Back".
In this drama, he played a "bad boy".
Although the characters are ruffian, this kind of free and easy youthfulness still makes the audience watch it with relish.
Relying on this role, he became the emperor of the Golden Eagle Award, and also became a popular student.
Compared with the current "fan system", the people who loved him at that time were also extremely crazy.
In addition to receiving love letters in sacks every day.
What's even more exaggerated is that there are girls who bring their own 60,000 "dowry" and find him thousands of miles away, saying that they want to marry him.
This delicate face not only made him the "dream lover" in the hearts of the public, but also made him on the cover of "Popular Movie".
You know, he was the first actor to appear on this cover.
Although his career has reached the point where it is in full swing, he did not strike while the iron was hot, but focused on drama.
Six years after this drama, he starred in the TV series "Wind and Rain Beauty" again.
In the past few decades, he has participated in very few film and television dramas, but each one has left a deep impression.
This practice of cherishing feathers has also made him a well-known and powerful faction.
It's a pity that his emotional control is far less rational than in his career.
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On the screen, his affectionate eyes always make people believe that he will "be a couple for the rest of his life".
But in private, he has four marriages, and his daughter-in-law is more beautiful than the other.
It's just that no matter how beautiful a person is, he can't let him stay.
It wasn't until he met the fourth that he relented.
Regarding this kind of "Wang Feng's behavior", he said that he was not a flower, but a responsibility.
Is that really the case?
His first wife's name was Huang Jianping, and the two met when they were in the Children's Theater.
Getting along day after day has turned the familiar two from friends to lovers.
At that time, the two loved vigorously and everyone knew it.
Who would have thought that less than a year after getting married, the woman would have a change.
When the two got married, Xu Yajun's career had not improved.
Later, as soon as he got married, he met "Looking for the World Back".
Relying on this film, he became an instant hit.
At that time, the two sweetly looked forward to their future life.
They will live in a bigger house and have a pair of children.
He works hard while she takes care of the family.
Although the ideal is very plump, the reality is too skinny.
After only one year of marriage, Huang Jianping, who was in his prime, died at his most glorious moment.
The death of his wife was a big blow to him.
He couldn't believe that the person he loved most would leave him without warning.
They have clearly planned for the future, and they are also working in this direction.
Facing his deceased wife, he was so sad that he didn't want to eat.
He thought he would never love again, but unfortunately, he overestimated his deep affection.
During the saddest time, Zhang Xi broke into his world.
This person, like him, has an extraordinary family background.
Her parents are both people in the literary circle, and after graduating from the conservatory, she played the protagonist of "Cardamom Years" in her first play.
Later, with this drama, she won the Golden Rooster heroine.
It can be said that in her career, she is a step above him.
But even though she is used to seeing all kinds of people, she still remembers her old acquaintances.
And her old acquaintance is Xu Yajun.
At the beginning, she was also in children's arts, and in the face of the handsome him, she had feelings for him like many girls.
However, Xu Yajun's mind at that time was all on Huang Jianping, and she could only bury her heart in the bottom of her heart.
It wasn't until she learned the news of Huang Jianping's death that she dared to take the initiative.
In Zhang Xi's repeated shouting and warmth, Xu Yajun's heart was warmed again.
In order to give the other party an explanation, he welcomed her into the house.
Compared with Huang Jianping, Zhang Xi has made a lot of compromises for this relationship.
When the two got married, both were at the peak of their careers.
Because of the particularity of their professions, they have to live a life of gathering less and leaving more.
Seeing this relationship gradually cool down like hot water in a basin.
Zhang Xi took the initiative to retreat to the front line and put the focus of his life on his family.
thought that his concession would be exchanged for her husband's thoughtfulness.
Who would have thought that she had lost her unique charm.
Since she put her mind on tea, rice, oil and salt, she and her husband have been talking less and less.
In addition, under the influence of the environment, she also began to be unkempt and lost her glamour in front of the camera.
Seeing his wife become "sloppy", Xu Yajun went home less and less.
After all, in addition to being suspicious, he has a more beautiful person outside.
In 1995, during the filming of "Wind and Lotus Resentment", he fell in love with actress He Qing because of the play.
At that time, He Qing had already become "the first classical beauty in the mainland".
Not only does he look like a flower, but he is also the only one who has performed in the four famous novels.
Such a big aura made Xu Yajun's heart flutter and betrayed his wife.
Similarly, the same is true for He Qing.
When she met Xu Yajun, she actually had a boyfriend who had been talking for five years, and this person was the old drama bone Liu Wei.
In order to be with Xu Yajun, she ruthlessly left him.
Seeing that He Qing had already made an action for him, in order to promise his beloved woman, he also decisively filed for divorce.
The moment Xu Yajun filed for divorce, Zhang Xi's brain buzzed like someone had struck a bell.
She thought that the relationship between the two had just become dull after a long time.
But I didn't think that her husband had already had someone outside, and he wanted to divorce him for her sake.
Because it happened so suddenly, she couldn't bear it and had a heart attack and almost died.
Although she is deeply involved in this relationship, a good tutor prevents her from being an entangler.
After learning that her husband had already changed his mind, she agreed to the divorce.
Later, Xu Yajun married the goddess as he wished, but because they were not bright enough, the reputation of the two was shattered.
thought that such a marriage that would be together despite public opinion would make the two go through a lifetime.
However, it still ended in failure.
In 2003, the third year after the birth of their son, the two divorced.
As for the reason for the separation of the two, there was a lot of discussion in the outside world at that time.
It's just that before the divorce turmoil passed, Xu Yajun met true love again.
This person is Zhang Shu, who is known as "Anita Mui", and the other party is 12 years younger than him.
The two met on the golf course, knew each other from the crew, and fell in love with each other day after day.
In 2008, the two who had been in love for many years entered into marriage.
Not long after marriage, Zhang Shu gave birth to a son for him.
Although the two are close, netizens are not optimistic, after all, he has learned from the past.
But just when netizens were speculating about how long this marriage would last, Xu Yajun "slapped" everyone's face.
Now, not only have the two spent 15 years, but he has not had any scandals.
Seeing the prodigal son of the former love scene look back, many people sighed that Zhang Shu was a "good means".
Because since marrying her, Xu Yajun often talks about his family on the show and expresses his love for his wife.
In order to keep this relationship fresh, he also took the initiative to create surprises and romance for her.
And these are things that his three ex-wives have never felt.
As everyone knows, no matter how good the relationship is, it also needs the right time and people.
Maybe he has had three failed marriages, so he is more cautious in his marriage.
Because he has reached his age, he understands the importance of family even more.
He prefers a bowl of porridge in the morning and a lamp in the middle of the night to linger on the flowers.
This kind of warmth of home makes him feel a sense of belonging when he is running around all day.
epilogue
Emotional matters, no one can predict, and no one can guarantee it.
Although he is now attentive, he can't erase his seamless operation.
In any relationship, never put yourself in a low position, let alone put your hopes in others.
I also hope that everyone will be more cautious about marriage and don't let down the sincerity of others.
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