Yesterday, on the Chinese New Year's Eve, I met a former colleague on the street and saw that she was holding a small baby in her hand, which should have been a full moon. Next to him was his eldest son, who was almost three years old.
I was amazed that she was too fast, and she hugged the two of them for three years. It's been more than three years since she left her job to be a housewife at home, and I asked her why she didn't go to work.
She said that there were children at home to bring, and I said let her hand it over to her mother-in-law, and she said that she was not at ease.
From her tone, it can be seen that she is full of confidence and is very satisfied with her current life.
She told me about her current life, she got up at six o'clock in the morning, got up to make breakfast for the children and her husband, and then washed the dishes and brushed chopsticks to feed the full-moon son, washed the buttocks, and then held the child at seven o'clock, and then took the eldest son to go out to buy vegetables, and came back at about nine o'clock, and began to cook lunch, and finished eating at 11 o'clock, and then took the sons out for a walk.
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It's pretty much like this every day. It feels like her current life revolves around the child, and she has no self at all.
But the family is rich, the husband is a public institution, everyone has seven or eight houses, and the in-laws have a pension, so they don't have to worry about spending money at all.
My family situation also does not allow me to lie flat at home.
My family is in debt, and my husband is now unemployed and lying at home, and he will continue to look for a job after the New Year.
I have a good memory since I was a child, and when other children were still snotty, I would recite "I am not afraid of broken bones, and I want to leave my innocence in the world". When other children are still counting how many 2+2 equals, I will add and subtract two digits. So when I was a kid, I was often praised for being smart.
When I grew up, I was considered to have achieved some academic success, and I was successfully admitted to a university, and I got married after graduation, so I didn't go out to work, and after staying at home for more than half a year, I also had children, so I had to go out to work.
This former colleague of mine only graduated from junior high school, so he is really a good person, and there is no pressure at all.
This kind of life is really good, to be honest, I envy it.
If I had this kind of living environment and such a husband, I might also choose to be a housewife at home, and many hardships and grievances at work could be avoided.
But when I think of the fact that my children and husbands are waiting to eat now, I can only break my teeth and swallow blood.
Boil, the days of chicken feathers, choose to accept, don't complain, life is your own, no matter how good others are, they are also others.
Keep your emotions stable, accept your current situation, and move forward with weight, middle-aged people!#天南地北大拜年# Get red envelopes together>
