Back then, Chen Peisi said to his son Chen Dayu, who was about to go to elementary school: "You are not allowed to score 100 points after going to school, and I will beat you when I come back with 100 points." Many people laughed at him, but many years later, Chen Peisi was very glad that he had made the right choice.
Chen Peisi is a famous comedian in China, and he has practiced his own unique educational philosophy in his life. He believes that a person's success is not about how high the score is, but about the inner character and qualities.
Chen Peisi and his wife Wang Yanling gave birth to their only son Chen Dayu when he was 35 years old.
Since it was the time of family planning, they were only allowed to have one child. Chen Dayu became Chen Peisi's only flesh and blood.
When Chen Dayu was a child, Chen Peisi had a special requirement for him, that is, he was not allowed to get a full score, and if he got a full score, he would be punished.
Why did Chen Peisi do this?
This was a very puzzling practice at the time, and parents generally encouraged their children to study hard and get good grades.
But Chen Peisi did this based on his educational philosophy, Chen Peisi knows that children's nature is to play, and parents should not deprive their children of their nature and force them to only learn.
If the child is in a high-pressure learning environment for a long time, a lot of resentment will accumulate in the heart. It will affect your child's development and self-confidence later on!
Chen Peisi believes that test scores do not reflect everything a person has, and the most important thing for a person is his inner character. Therefore, he does not require Chen Dayu to get a high score, but only requires him to score 60 points in the passing line.
For Chen Dayu, Chen Peisi adopted a different education method. Every weekend, Chen Peisi would take Chen Dayu out to play and give him full company. I often take him outdoors to go fishing, climbing, etc., to enrich his life experience.
Chen Peisi encouraged Chen Dayu to cultivate more hobbies and hobbies, and he didn't need to be kidnapped by his studies to live his whole life. Chen Dayu has been swimming and skiing since elementary school, and these activities have been strongly supported by Chen Peisi.
In terms of academics, Chen Peisi did not put too much pressure on Chen Dayu. He only asked Chen Dayu to get to the passing line, and he didn't need to deliberately work hard for the test score. This gave Chen Dayu plenty of room to grow.
In addition, Chen Peisi also gave Chen Dayu a lot of guidance on common sense of life. He often chatted with Chen Dayu and taught him his life experience. This helped Chen Dayu establish the right values.
Under Chen Peisi's careful education, Chen Dayu grew into a cheerful, optimistic and well-informed young man.
He did not achieve outstanding results in his studies, but through his father's teaching, he learned more valuable things - how to behave and deal with others, how to be kind to others, and how to be a person with grace. These are things that can't be learned from books.
The relationship between the two generations of Chen Dayu and Chen Peisi is very harmonious. Chen Dayu felt his father's love for him since he was a child, so he did not resent his father's excessive requirements for him, but was grateful for his father's teaching.
When he grew up, Chen Dayu and his wife had 4 children. As a grandfather, Chen Peisi is also involved in the education of his grandchildren. He uses his educational philosophy to help his son raise cheerful and lively children.
Chen Peisi doesn't care whether he has achieved much in his career, in his opinion, the most successful life is to have a happy family.
When he saw that his son's family was surrounded by children and he was able to participate in it, Chen Peisi felt extremely happy and satisfied. This kind of happiness is incomparable to money and status.
Chen Peisi has practiced his own educational philosophy all his life. He is pleased that his ideas have not only influenced his son, but will also be passed on to his grandchildren. Chen Peisi believes that success does not lie in external achievements, but in a person's inner satisfaction.
This is perhaps the proudest achievement of Chen Peisi's life.
