It is said that "speaking is an art", and now many people try their best to study and even enroll in classes in order to improve their emotional intelligence and make themselves able to speak.
But it's not easy to really say it well.
But not easy does not mean that no one can do it, for example, there are many people who can talk in the hosting industry, such as the well-known host Ni Ping, who recently had a "high emotional intelligence dialogue" with his old friend Chen Peisi, which made everyone gain knowledge.
A few days ago, Ni Ping, who had not appeared for a long time, suddenly came to visit her friend Chen Peisi for 40 years. This time, she didn't go empty-handed, as soon as they met, she gave Chen Peisi a "big gift" that she had carefully prepared.
Ni Ping first took out a bundle of green onions, then took out the old cabbage, and said with a smile that it was all home-grown.
Chen Peisi and his son listened carefully to Ni Ping's introduction of the vegetables they grew at home, because they didn't know what the old cabbage was, Chen Peisi also asked curiously, and Ni Ping also explained unhurriedly.
As a confidant and friend, Ni Ping also knew that Chen Peisi liked to eat meat buns, so she specially prepared a wild vegetable for him - hawthorn and asked them to take it home to make steamed buns with meat filling.
I have to say that Ni Ping is really too careful, although the things she sends are not valuable, they are all home-grown and out of the wild, but she is very attentive.
Unexpectedly, after sending the green onions, cabbage and hawthorn, Ni Ping said with a smile: "Of course, this is valuable, and there are not valuable." ”
Then she asked her assistant to bring a few paintings that she had drawn by herself, and prepared to give them to Chen Peisi's family.
He also said: Why did I give it to you, because it is an old friend who does not dislike it, if it is someone else, others will dislike it, you say yes?
And when Chen Peisi saw these calligraphy and paintings, he also said unceremoniously, this is really the most worthless thing, and you really dare to write.
Listening to the ridicule of the two of them, the editor can also feel that it is precisely because they are each other's confidants and friends for many years that they can understand each other's intentions so well.
However, there is one thing to say, Ni Ping's painting is still good, just like the following freehand crane picture, although the pen is bold, but the effect is good, and it has been recognized by Chen Peisi, praising Ni Ping's painting is very powerful.
The friendship between Ni Ping and Chen Peisi actually started 40 years ago.
One is a humorous performance artist, the other is a witty host, and because of work, they have frequent contact and gradually establish a deep friendship between the two.
Although the two of them are now in their 60s, they have always kept in touch, this time Ni Ping "visited" Chen Peisi, and sent so many "local products" and his own paintings, and also saw that the relationship between the two is really good.
And this self-deprecating speech when Mr. Ni Ping sent the painting, which is especially admirable, saying that it is no wonder that Ni Ping is the first female host of CCTV, this painting is worthless, she said it so low-key and casual, just so that Chen Peisi, who received the gift, can accept his gift with peace of mind, this emotional intelligence is simply amazing.
As a well-known host of CCTV, Ni Ping has hosted programs that have accompanied the growth of two or three generations.
And her classic high EQ speech in the show in the past made people sigh at Ni Ping's EQ while admiring the charm of language from the bottom of their hearts.
One of the most classic events is the rescue incident of Ni Ping's Spring Festival Gala in 1991.
At that time, there was an activity in the Spring Festival Gala, which was to let the host read out a few congratulatory messages. Ni Ping, who was entrusted with the important task, was sweating instantly when she opened the envelope under the live broadcast.
Because it wasn't a congratulatory message, but a few blank pieces of paper. Because of the urgency of the situation at that time, there was no way to replace it, so I had to solve this accident head-on.
In just a few seconds, Ni Ping calmed down quickly, and then methodically smiled and read according to the blank sheets of paper.
Of course, she wasn't reading the content on the paper, but making up a few paragraphs on her own.
If we look closely, we will find that Ni Ping's hands are shaking, but she still has a dedicated smile on her face, and her mouth is still methodically reading the content of the telegram to the audience.
This strong psychological quality made all the staff present sweat for her.
Fortunately, Ni Ping perfectly solved the accident and did not have an accident in front of the national audience.
Later, when Ni Ping mentioned this incident again in other programs, she also said that she was trembling nervously at that time, goosebumps came out, and her brain was even more blank.
But also because of this incident, Ni Ping can be regarded as a blessing in disguise, and her position in CCTV is more stable, and she is even known as the first sister of CCTV.
Later, Ni Ping hosted many CCTV programs, which left a very deep impression in the hearts of the audience. When it comes to Ni Ping, the first thing the audience thinks of is her gentle and atmospheric hosting style, and she was equivalent to the existence of CCTV's "pillar" at that time.
In fact, not only is she super talented in hosting shows, Ni Ping has also won many heavyweight awards on the road of being an actor.
The 22nd Chinese Film Golden Rooster Awards · Best Actress, 6th Golden Eagle Award · Best Supporting Actress, 11th Changchun Film Festival · The Best Actress Award and so on, let us see Ni Ping shining on another road.
Ni Ping is really a real talented woman, and after reaching absolute heights in her own field, she is still able to treat people with humility.
It's just a pity that Ni Ping, who has been so successful in her career, has suffered many setbacks emotionally.
After breaking up with Guo Da, in 1991, she met the talented director Chen Kaige, who fell in love with him like a moth to a fire, and even lived directly with Chen Kaige regardless of the eyes of others at that time.
At that time, Ni Ping was very famous, and it can be said that he was a well-known host in the country, but at that time, Chen Kaige was just a small director who was not very famous.
may be a huge disparity in status and identity, and the love between the two of them is not favored by outsiders, but Ni Ping's attitude towards this love is very firm.
At that time, the love between the two people was high-profile and public, and they had been in love for five years, and later with the gradual rise of Chen Kaige's fame, the two of them were also like golden boys and girls in the eyes of outsiders.
But when everyone thought that the two of them would naturally enter into marriage, they never thought that the final result would be to part ways.
In 1996, in the sixth year of Chen Kaige and Ni Ping's relationship, the two announced their breakup because of emotional discord.
At that time, the outside world speculated about the reason for the breakup between the two of them, some people said that it was because of Chen Hong's involvement, and some people said that the two of them were too busy with work to meet.
Regardless of the real reason, I believe that this relationship has brought Ni Ping a lot of trauma. And what is surprising is that in the same year, Ni Ping married the well-known journalist Wang Wenlan, but unfortunately, their marriage ended after 9 years.
In 2005, Ni Ping married director Yang Yaya after the divorce, and fortunately, she finally met the right person for her this time.
Ni Ping, who is now 65 years old, has been married twice and has been tested emotionally, but now she is still living a very happy life. has a husband who loves her, a well-behaved and obedient child, and a career that has always dedicated herself wholeheartedly.
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Source: @倪萍小红书账号
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