(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)
No matter which parents they are, they always want their children to live happily in their hearts, but this kind of behavior is indeed a bit selfish for us, and we feel that they can take on something, and if they can't let us participate, they won't participate!
However, my wife was the same, due to some changes in my mother-in-law's family, the family was burdened with a lot of debts, but when my wife wanted to go home to visit her parents, the moment we stood at the door of the house, we were all stunned, not only was there a seal on the door, but the phone could not be reached!
01
My life since I was a child is relatively wealthy, because my father made a name for himself when he was young, so he doesn't need to think too much about the economy, and my mother has become a "rich wife" at home.
However, I am the same, under the aura of my father, I have been in an aristocratic school since kindergarten, and almost all of my classmates around me are famous families.
As far as I can remember, the toys in my hands are always the latest, and the clothes I wear are all famous brands, such a start may be in the eyes of others is already a height that they can't reach in their lives, and there is a saying "people are born in the copper horse, and you are born as a cow and horse".
At that time, this sentence was very popular on the Internet, and everyone was expressing their dissatisfaction with life, why is it the same life, how can it feel completely different?
But in my opinion, this situation is not good at all, although I am financially carefree, but I am very few in terms of friends, because I don't like to make friends with them, in their eyes all but interests, no matter what I do, I like to call others.
It is for this reason that my parents and I have proposed to change schools many times, but my father, who has always been resolute, does not agree and feels that I must receive a good education.
But shouldn't education be taught by words and deeds? Most people still look at their own family education.
In a flash, I have graduated from the college entrance examination and my academic performance is average, but my father chose to let me study abroad and go to a school in India.
However, I can't beat my father, and the most he has said to me since I was a child is: "As long as you listen to me and finish my studies well, you will love the rest."
His mind is to take learning very seriously, you don't need to, but you can't help but learn, some things have to expand your knowledge reserves, otherwise when you talk to others, you will appear very ignorant, including work.
When I first stepped into this school, it was difficult for me to see a Chinese, and I felt that there were foreigners everywhere, no, I should be the foreigner.
Most of my socializing is with my roommates, and I don't feel the need to meet so many classmates from other majors.
But these roommates of mine don't really like to go out to drink or play or anything like that, they all stay in the dormitory, and I don't understand why the best youth should stay in the dormitory.
I couldn't stand the boredom, so I went out to drink alone from time to time, and it was that day that I sat alone at the bartending bar to drink, and after a while, an Indian girl came over, very beautiful, and after observing for a while, I found that she was also a person.
At this time, I still wondered: it must be no danger for me to drink outside as a man, how dare she go out to drink alone as a girl, and aren't you afraid that some boys will trouble her?
Then, with this inquiry, I sat down next to the girl, and I opened my mouth and said, "Hello, can I sit next to you and have a drink?"
She didn't like to talk to me, as if she was used to seeing me, but turned her head and continued to indulge in the music.
The more she did this, the more curious I became, so I said, "I don't want to talk to you, but I myself come to drink alone, but look at your little girl's family, how dare you go out to drink alone."
She laughed when she heard me say this, and at this time I didn't know that this music bar belonged to hers, so she replied helplessly: "Why are you drinking alone, your friend, why don't you join your friend."
I just said that I can't play with them at all, but I'm bored by myself, so I can only come here for a drink alone.
It was as if we were souls colliding with each other, and that's why she came out to drink on her own.
She said: "My roommates don't think this kind of place is a good place, it's too messy, so they don't come, but I think this kind of place is the happiest place, and it's very decompressing."
I introduced to her: "You can call me Liu Hui, what about you"?
"My name is Yanni, it's nice to meet you".
We chatted for more than an hour, and it was time to go back to school, so we went back to school together, and when we got downstairs to the dormitory, we exchanged contact information with each other, hoping to make another appointment next time.
02
When I returned to the dormitory, I smelled of alcohol, and my roommates were used to it, and they knew that I was going to drink at every turn, maybe they didn't like it very much.
Since then, Yanni and I have been drinking two less drinks whenever we have time, pursuing a slightly drunken feeling, and over time, we both have ambiguous feelings, and we are together almost all the time.
It is said that "wine is strong and courageous", and I am the same, and then Jiu Jin confessed to Yanni, and it was at this time that we finally deserved our name and became a couple.
After talking for about half a year, I found out that the music bar was opened by her father, no wonder she was not afraid to go alone, seeing me was like watching a child.
That's it, we talked about graduating from college, and it's time for me to return to China to develop my career, and the relationship between Yanni and Yanni depends on what she thinks, and I don't know if I want to go back to develop with me.
When I asked her, she hesitated, but was willing to go with me, and her parents also knew about me, so they were very relieved and didn't say much.
When I arrived in the country, I felt that I was still at home, and even the air was full of familiarity.
I had already told my parents about the itinerary in advance, and they were also very much looking forward to Yanni's appearance, and when I arrived at the door, I was about to open the door and go in, and Yanni was very nervous and said, "Wait, let me slow down, don't worry."
I said, "What are you nervous about, I didn't see you help me make a move when I saw your parents, and then I knew I was nervous." I dragged Yanni towards the house, even though she did everything to stop me.
This is the parent who has appeared in front of us and said, "You are here, child, come into the house and sit down, you are hungry and tired, Auntie has already cooked for you, wash your hands and eat."
It was almost my home field for those days, and I took Yanni around the neighborhood with me, and I played everything I needed to play.
Then under the arrangement of his father, he entered the company and began to work, and he must have been a little busy at the beginning, so Yanni casually got a job for her, after all, she was not familiar with life, and it was good to make two friends.
After working for about two years, I discussed marriage with Yanni, and it was time to talk about marriage, and my family agreed very much, so I took Yanni back to India to discuss it with her parents.
At that time, I was nervous about three times through the door without entering, or was dragged into the house by Yanni, I was still a little nervous about my father-in-law and mother-in-law, after eating, I took the initiative to propose marriage, but I didn't expect my mother-in-law to say directly: "Yes, Xiaohui, I am quite relieved to hand over Yanni to you, my opinion is your uncle's opinion." ”
These words made me very comfortable to listen to, and I didn't have the nervousness I had when I first arrived.
After staying for a few days, we went back and started to buy our own wedding, we must be perfectly prepared, and give Yanni a beautiful wedding, after all, it is not easy to marry me so far away.
On the day of the wedding, my friends around me were envious that I had married a beautiful woman, and I was still a foreigner, and they were so happy for me.
After the wedding, we played for a month and then re-entered our lives, during which I bought Yanni almost anything she wanted, and I doted on her very much.
There have been three years of such a life, and Yanni has not gone back once in the middle, but we never thought that time would pass so quickly, and 3 years passed in the blink of an eye.
But often calm under the wind and waves are always turbulent, this day was at work, my mother-in-law called me and said: "You don't want to come back home recently, there has been a change in the family, the problem is quite big."
When I heard such a thing, I quickly calmed down my mood, since my mother-in-law didn't let me say that there must be her reason, but "paper can't contain fire after all"!
03
On this day, Yeonni told me that she wanted to go home to see her parents, and she hadn't seen them for too long, even though I spoke next to her to dissuade her, but the more she said this, the more panicked Yanni became, and she had to go home.
The moment we arrived at Yanni's house, what caught my eye was the seal on the door, and I panicked at this moment, and I didn't know how to explain to Yanni.
Yanni asked me, "Do you know something, Liu Hui?"
I quickly shook my head, but Yanni still asked me to call my mother-in-law, and it took me four or five calls to get through, saying that we had arrived at the door.
But the phone did roar: "What did I say to you, don't bring Yanni back, don't come back, what are you doing here, pay off your debts?"
Yanni directly shed tears on the side: "Why, Mom, why didn't you tell me when something like this happened, don't you want me to share it for you?"
The mother-in-law still said ruthlessly: "Don't come to my house, don't let me see you, hurry back to China, we don't need you, don't step into the house half a step in the future"!
Even like this, Yanni still didn't leave, and after some hard pleading, the mother-in-law still relented, and after meeting, the family of three hugged each other.
I can't help but feel very sad, my parents really dare to say anything in order not to affect their children!
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence)