Parents should always flip through their children's workbooks

Parents are always concerned about their children's school status:

Is he serious in class?

Will he actively raise his hand to speak?

Will he whisper to his classmates?

Did he listen to all the lectures when he listened, and did he master the knowledge well?

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Because they can't see it, parents are mixed with a worry and curiosity, and teachers naturally become important "witnesses" at the school scene.

The first thing parents say when they see a teacher is often: Teacher, how is our child doing recently?

In fact, to know your child's performance in school, you don't necessarily have to ask the teacher, as long as the parents usually pay attention, carefully flip through the child's homework books and books, his performance is all written in it.

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The child's performance is written in the workbook

A teacher's article flooded the circle of friends, and he wrote in the article:

Teachers are too reluctant to see such parents: verbally busy asking teachers about their children's performance in school, seems to be particularly attentive to their children's learning, but turning back to flip through their children's homework, blank, unfinished, messy, call to ask parents what is going on, parents say with a blank face: The child told me that he had done his homework.

A conscientious parent must be able to walk into the child's life: he knows what the child's daily homework tasks are, he also knows what the child has been learning in the recent period, he knows what the child's homework in this unit is written, and he knows which of the child's mathematics in this unit is a weakness, he knows which of the child's recent homework is difficult, and he knows which subject the child is more interested in.

In short, he didn't float in mid-air, faintly asking, "Is the homework done?" Instead, he instructed the child down-to-earth to "improve your verbal arithmetic today compared to yesterday."

Of course, the teachers also understand that most parents are busy, old and young, and have their own careers to work hard.

But educating children is the natural responsibility of every parent, and education is by no means simply asking the teacher how the child is doing, but personally opening the child's books and homework books to take a look.

Does your child write well? Is the child's homework correct? Is your child's homework procrastinating? Most teachers will write comments when there are some problems with the child's homework, and these comments will tell what the problem is at a glance.

When you open your child's book and find that the book is blank or scribbled and spoofed, then you can conclude that the child will not listen carefully in class.

When you open your child's homework book and see the bright red forks and scribbled handwriting on the workbook, you will know that your child's learning attitude during this period is more perfunctory.

The 90-point incident he remembers may have been two years ago.

Many parents seem to attach great importance to their children's learning, but they have not even opened their children's books and homework books;

Many parents eagerly ask their children about their children's performance in school, but they don't even know what homework their children will do every day;

Many parents say that they attach great importance to their children's situation, but they do not even save the curriculum of their children's school.

No matter how good it is to speak verbally, it is not as good as sitting next to the child and quietly flipping through his homework, and accompanying him to do his homework well.

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Can homework provide insight into the child's personality?

Some people say that through homework, you can see through the child's personality, do you believe it?

First, there are always holes in the workbook

Have you ever had the experience that children always like to erase and rewrite when writing homework, often scrape the book, and even wipe out holes!

Personality Decoding:

Children usually write homework slowly, pursue perfection, and are always afraid of making mistakes. Of course, "perfection" doesn't have to be the preserve of Virgo babies! It may also be that parents have strict requirements for your learning, resulting in excessive pressure and anxiety!

Second, the handwriting is sloppy

The simple words can't wait to be brushed off, and there is a fight with some celebrity signatures, and the good words have become graffiti.

Personality Decoding:

Children will be a little impatient and anxious to do what they want to do, such as watching cartoons, eating delicious snacks, or playing with other children. I don't pay much attention to homework, but I have to do it.

3. Draw in the workbook

The bear child wrote and wrote, flowers, cartoon characters, and family puppies eating appeared in the homework book...

Personality Decoding:

I have to say that children are very talented in painting and like painting very much, but the talent of painting is in the wrong place, and drawing in class will affect the listening to the class.

Fourth, the homework book is dirty

In addition to the strokes on the workbook, there may be obvious marks of unclean erasers, jam marks, biscuit oil stains, and even marks of snot dripping...

Personality Decoding:

The child's personality is big and indifferent to many things, including homework. You may write while eating while writing homework, and you often laugh at criticism from your parents or teachers.

5. The workbook is clean and tidy

The handwriting is neat, the strokes are very serious, the homework book is clean and tidy, and there is seriousness between the lines. The homework book has traces of rewriting, but not often.

Personality Decoding:

Loves learning, is serious and responsible for homework, and is often praised by teachers or parents. Only persistent in writing homework without too many negative emotions, can consciously complete homework, is a more self-disciplined child.

Seeing this, I believe that there will be parents who silently open their children's homework books and want to "explore" their children's personality codes.

The above interpretation is not absolute, parents must know that they cannot label their children too much, there will be a variety of situations in the process of growth, and changes can happen at any time.

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A small eraser

It can also be seen that the child is not serious in class

In addition to the homework book, the eraser can also detect whether the child is attentive in class and whether he is serious about homework after class.

As an essential stationery in a pencil case, erasers have practicality, flexibility and aesthetics, and are "essential products" for students to desert in class.

Picture 1: Do not desert, listen carefully, and write well

This eraser, regular shape, smooth surface, without any traces of being broken, digged, smeared, at a glance, in addition to the usual homework, must be lying obediently in the pencil case during class, quietly watching the little master listen carefully to the class.

Picture 2: Occasionally bored, deserted

Compared with others, Figure 2 is also a "beautiful" eraser, the little master usually plays with the eraser occasionally in class, and after rubbing the edges rounded, he continues to listen to the class with satisfaction.

Picture 3: Frequent distraction, easy to get distracted

This student likes to desert with erasers, holding erasers in his hand and can't help but start to "ravage", and as a result, he accidentally cuts off his waist, and a good piece of eraser is broken into several parts.

Picture 4: The whole lesson did not listen well

The little master did nothing else during the whole class, just playing with the eraser: first use the pen to point the eraser into a "pockmarked face", rub it a few times, accidentally break it with excessive force, and the worst eraser in the class is it...

So, is it reasonable to judge students deserting in class in this way?

Some teachers believe that using an eraser to judge desertion is a more figurative statement, because children desert during class, mainly playing with stationery on the table.

Some teachers think that this statement is too absolute, "This actually has some truth, but it is still ridiculous, parents have many ways to quickly understand their children's situation at school, but the most direct is to communicate with the teacher, call, face-to-face chat can be." ”

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How to treat workbooks

Perhaps more important than the results themselves

There is once a saying circulating on the Internet that how children treat homework may determine their future life.

This sentence may be a bit heavy, but in any case, the child's attitude towards homework books and classroom lectures will definitely determine his academic performance, and then determine his future life trajectory.

Learning is not only learning knowledge, but also learning to do things, and learning how to do things is also a very important content for students to learn.

"Be serious in writing homework" is related to the child's life, in order to forge him to be serious as a doctor in the future, serious as a mathematician, serious as a dancer, and serious in doing housework. To be serious and do things seriously is to start small.

Many children lack good habits, poor self-awareness, and rely on parental supervision to learn to do homework. It is not a difficult task to let children have self-discipline, ensure quality and quantity, and complete homework cleanly and tidyly, the key is to start cultivating from an early age.

Tell your child to do your homework well, starting with taking your workbook seriously.