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Author | Xintian Editor | Swallow
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Mr. Qian Zhongshu's protagonist Fang Hongwei in "Siege of the City" has never lacked female popularity. From the beginning of the book to the ship returning home, his peach blossom luck began.
Women who have entanglements with him flock to him, Miss Bao, Miss Su, Miss Tang, Miss Sun, and Hongwei's personality has a fatal attraction to women.
These ladies have very different personalities, and Miss Su Wen, who appears in the first half of the book, is also a character with a distinct personality and is worth playing.
Miss Su began to appear from the time she boarded the ship, when she was a very inconspicuous being, thin, plainly dressed, very low-key, and kept a certain distance from the people around her.
Miss Su, who was cold and cold, was properly suppressed by Miss Bao, who was enthusiastic in words and deeds. Of course, she was also conservative and not accustomed to Miss Bao's open style.
At that time, Miss Su had a little interest in Fang Hongwei, but she did not dare to be too blunt for the sake of face, but only secretly observed Hongwei.
Once she saw that Miss Bao had abandoned Hongwei, Miss Su's opportunity came. First, he let Hongwei accompany her around Hong Kong for a few days, and then helped Hongwei wash his hands and mend his socks on the boat, and did some such intimate moves.
Back in Shanghai, Miss Su has become a well-deserved heroine. She is surrounded by Zhao Xinlin, a high-quality male who has liked her since childhood, and Fang Hongwei, who thinks she also likes herself, and admirers like Cao Yuen Lang and Dong Xiechuan who compliment her.
Miss Su enjoyed this feeling of stars holding the moon very much, and often organized a game to bring these men together. Miss Su thinks she is the manipulator of these men, and uses her own careful thoughts to play these men together.
But at the same time, she still maintains her usual high coldness, hoping that she will be admired by these men, but on the surface she does not easily accept the overtures of these men.
However, such a high-cold literary and artistic goddess did not marry the tall and handsome Zhao Xinlin in the end, nor did she marry Fang Hongwei, who returned from studying abroad, but married Cao Yuen-lang, who had a fat head and big ears, which really surprised people.
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With so many high-quality men, why would the goddess of high cold finally choose a greasy man who is very different from herself to marry? It looks incredible, but when you think about it, there are still traces.
First of all, Cao Yuen Long and Miss Su have similar interests and love to write poetry.
Like a person, first of all, must be attracted to his advantages, is that two people in some way can resonate, will gradually get closer. Although Cao Yuen Long said in the book that most of them are negative images, people look good, and there is nothing special about them, but his appearance is in the image of a poet.
Although he only wrote some crooked poems, the foreign words embedded in them, as well as some quotations from the scriptures, were enough to make Miss Su, a novice in poetry, admire them endlessly.
Miss Su also likes poetry, and will also compose a few poems when she is idle, but her level is half a pound and eight two with Cao Yuen Long, so the two people are quite compatible in this regard. This is probably the only place in the book where the two people are more compatible.
Secondly, Cao Yuen Long appeared at the right time.
Miss Su has always liked Hongwei, and at the beginning of the high coldness was only because she was afraid of not getting it, which hurt her self-esteem, and then she wanted to get away with it, and she also thought that there was no love enemy, and Hongwei would be her person sooner or later.
But Miss Su did not expect to kill a Cheng bite gold halfway, it turned out that Fang Hong gradually liked his cousin Miss Tang, and never liked himself.
This is a very hurtful thing for Miss Su, in her mind, she is the leader of these men, only she chooses their share, did not expect that this stinky man actually did not choose himself.
In order to save face, Miss Su quickly married after taking revenge on Hongwei, so as to prove that she was not undesirable, and she also wanted to get married quickly.
Cao Yuen Long is a very safe choice, because Cao Yuen Long is originally an admirer of Miss Su, and her position is far below Miss Su. As long as Miss Su is willing, Cao Yuen Long will undoubtedly marry her.
In the end, Cao Yuen Long's mediocrity sets off Miss Su's brilliance and satisfies her vanity.
Miss Su's high coldness seems that no one can look at her, but in fact, her super self-esteem, more hope that she can always become a goddess in the minds of men, so she found a man who is not as good as herself, and it is not surprising to meet her idea. And Cao Yuen Long is the man who can look up to her
Although Miss Su was a female Haojie, with a belly full of foreign ink, she was a rare intellectual young woman in that era. But to tell the truth, in that era when women are talentless and virtuous, in a society where mainstream thinking is still closed, Miss Su is not easy to marry, and it is difficult to find boys who can match.
And Miss Su actually belonged to the elderly leftover women in that era, and her high coldness was actually the protective shell she put on for herself, and her heart was actually inferior.
As a loyal admirer of Miss So, Cao Yuen Long can satisfy Miss Su's vanity that longs to be looked up to, and she can always maintain the image of a goddess in Cao Yuen Long's heart.
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Whether Miss Su is truly in love with Cao Yuen Long is unknown, but it may be that Miss Su made a more favorable choice for her under the weighing of pros and cons.
But for feelings, I think the most important thing is sincerity. Miss Su touched the nail at Hongwei, and Hongwei's indecisiveness was of course partly the reason, but Miss Su felt that she had been deceived by Hongzhi and suffered great grievances, which was actually not pertinent.
Think about it, in fact, Miss Su is not sincere first. During that time, Miss Su used all kinds of drama to create scenes of Zhao Fang and zhao fang fighting for her and jealousy, and enjoying the feeling of being the emotional leader on the top, which was not playing with Zhao Fang's feelings?
Feelings are mutual, you are not sincere, do not expect others to be sincere to you. Therefore, even Miss Su's childhood admirer Zhao Xinlin, recalling miss Su's deeds afterwards, was also scorned, and Miss Su's reputation and image plummeted.
However, I think that Miss Su's failure to marry Fang Hongwei is not necessarily a bad thing. What is not obtained is always in turmoil, and the favored are fearless. Fang Hongwei was a white moonlight cinnabar mole in Miss Su's heart at this time, and after marriage, he might become a sticky mosquito blood.
To tell the truth, Hongwei is not worthy of Miss Su, a cynical idiot, honestly and some flowers, shrewd and sometimes very confused, not what Prince Charming.
Cao Yuen Long may not have a good image, but he may love Miss Su more than Hongzhi and be more able to meet Miss Su's emotional needs.
Everyone is not perfect, choose this person, we must tolerate his shortcomings, put away the previous casualness, and live a good life in a down-to-earth manner, which is the performance of marriage to make people mature.