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Recently, the word "partner" is very popular, young people need a partner for meals, a partner for chat, a partner for graduate school, and all kinds of "partners" are collected on Xiaohongshu and Weibo.
Partnering means friend and partner, but it is more vertically subdivided, and it has to be a partner for specific thematic activities, rather than saying that this friend can accompany you to do anything.
For example, camping partners, may not learn together; For example, if you go to school, you may not be able to talk about pets together.
In today's society, people's interests, hobbies, long-term goals, and short-term tasks are divided into more and more detailed groups, large and small, and inside are your various types of partners.
For those of us in this circle, chicken doll hitching is of course the most important.
Some people may think that learning is their own business, it is a child's business, what is the relationship with others, what do you need? Just learn from yourself.
But this road seems to be full of flowers, but in fact, it is very lonely, often shaken, hesitant, lost, really need partners, encourage each other, support each other, act as crutches, and keep walking.
Chicken and baby partners are not found casually, but they are all gradually brought together in a long period of common experience.
1. The region and grade should be connected. The situation of chicken dolls in each city is different, and each grade has its own tasks, and the difference is too far to form a chicken doll partner.
For example, the sixth grade, how to play with the first grade, can't talk at all. Verde is humble here, proud and swollen there, chickens and ducks talk and look at each other.
No matter how you throw a temper, you don't hide your eyes from each other, and you can't form a partner if you are too far away from the grade.
2. The level and goal should be approximate. The level is strong or weak, but it cannot be too different. If the difference is too large, the mentality of each other will be unbalanced, and it is difficult to form effective complementarity and help, and mutual promotion is the ideal state.
And the goals of the chicken and baby partners are very clear, for example, if you want to take the international route, and you want to take the college entrance examination in the system, then the goal is definitely different, so you can't study together, take exams together, and advance to school together.
On your side, you are still worried that you can't get 90 in mathematics in class, people are worried that you can't get into the training team, and these two can't go together.
3. Own your own value. The reason why the chicken partners are stable is that everyone can contribute unique strength.
Some people are proficient in business and study specific learning, teaching aids, progress, and institutional differences; Some people are good at intelligence, well-informed, and can always collect key information; Some people are good at analysis, multi-party intelligence collection, people can analyze conclusions close to the truth; Some people have a good personality, a stable attitude, a humorous speech, and mainly provide emotional value in the team.
We can often see saying "please bring it", but realistically, why should others take you? What value can you provide to others? Nothing can be provided and people will take you, it is likely to cut you as a leek.
4. The three views should be optimistic. Compared with the difference in level, in fact, the most important thing to find chicken friends is to look at good character.
In fact, they are all this age, if they still can't see people accurately, they can only say that they have failed, and they deserve to be dug a hole all the time.
Some people just want to cliché, some just want to compare, some just want to show off, and some just want to get.
These are just that, some people can't do a good backstab, choreograph, slander you outside, sour sarcasm you, over the years, who in the circle has not stepped on a few such pits, did not report on the stall, must be considered lucky.
So it's not very familiar, don't say everything, more know the root and know the same three views, it is good to tie up. On occasion, get together and have fun, and the chicken must be rewarded.
5. Sincerely hope for each other's well. This is actually an extension of character, and to be able to do this, that is, the real gold partner refined in the real fire.
It is said that they are also on the same track, and the target may be the same school, but each other is not only not guarded, but also tries to chicken each other, lest the other party fall.
I have seen such a chicken and baby pair, and the two of them quickly shared it with each other when they got information, urged them to report this class and that class, and fed each other real questions every day. After feeding, you have to ask if you have done it, and if you haven't done it, you will insult each other.
I see that the daily painting style of these two people is:
Come on, hurt each other!
Then the two also went to worship Buddha together and engaged in various feudal superstitious activities; Waiting for the phone call together, I can't wait for the two of them to hold a headache and cry every day, and I scold them every day.
After a while, the two said joyfully:
We were scolded together again.
Some people are indeed born with good quality, good personality, love to share, and be sincere to people, so it is easier to harvest a sincere partner, everyone looks forward to each other's good children, and they also sincerely wish that they can have such a partner, which is a blessing on the road to chicken babies.
As mentioned earlier, the chicken doll tie is actually very vertically subdivided, a stage task is over, a new goal is immediately opened, and sometimes, the chicken doll tie has to part ways.
For example, if someone goes to ZP in the fifth grade, the eighth young man is vegetarian, and the people have opened middle school, and you have to discuss with two stupid partners who insult each other about junior high school, then the vision and topic must be completely different.
The once partner, slowly with the passage of time, there are fewer and fewer things to talk about.
But as long as you have really mixed up, had some unforgettable experiences together, and hidden secrets, then even if you can't make a chicken and baby partner, you can naturally transform into a friend who is closer than outsiders.
Especially fate, can progress or regress together, and then the next stage of the goal continues to be the same, then this partnership can continue.
Although the mountains and waters are wide from now on, they will try their best to help each other inquire about the news, hoping to help a little.
Along the way, thank you guys.
Some are wise, and the news is accurately analyzed in place; Some humor, make us laugh every day; Some are kind and go to great lengths to find me information; Some are persistent, and although I pretend to be deaf and dumb, I still feed me various sets of questions on time every day.
It is more important that everyone can get through difficult times together, comfort each other, encourage each other, and take turns to give each other a ray of light in the dark. There is news that can be shared quickly, there are good things that can be bragged about, and if you are not used to what you can safely complain about, you will not be suffocated, suffocated, and sad to death.
With a partner, the chicken circle is not a dark forest.
Seeing this, do you also want to hurry up to find a chicken doll partner?
Observe carefully, go straight to the depths of human nature, do not praise and do not stammer, do not strike and discriminate against those who are weaker than themselves, as long as the temper is compatible and do not pay attention to each other, then deal slowly.
In the future, no matter how you mix, you will silently hope that the other party will be good and hope that the other party will be good.
This is the ultimate meaning of chicken and baby matching.
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