In 2019, a critically ill elderly man approached the media and asked them to help find his young son, who had been missing for 20 years.
The youngest son, Wang Yongqiang, a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University, told his family 20 years ago that to work in Japan, he needed to go abroad for 2 years, and after 2 years he would come back to honor the second elder.
As soon as the mother heard that the annual salary was 180,000, she was also happy to let her son go.
As a result, I did not think that 2 years later, Wang Yongqiang did not go home as promised, his mother could not contact him, his father went to the public security department to report the case, the police checked the population, and finally confirmed that Wang Yongqiang's personal account had been cancelled in 1999.
That is to say, there is no Wang Yongqiang in all of China now, and he seems to have evaporated in the world.
Finally, with the help of foreign police, he found a person who was very similar to Wang Yongqiang and contacted him.
His mother, Guo Qiaodi, confirmed that this was his youngest son, Wang Yongqiang.
However, as soon as the phone was connected, Wang Yongqiang heard his mother's voice and immediately hung up the phone, and asked his friend to tell his family that he did not want to go home, even if his mother was sick or dead, it had nothing to do with him.
Mother Guo Qiaodi shouted at the camera: "Strong you come back, mother wants you..."
Wang Yongqiang, who was far away, was unmoved and still unwilling to go home, even to make a phone call home to talk to his mother.
For him, how could the hell he had painstakingly escaped from take the initiative to walk back and be beaten again?
In 1969, Wang Jisheng, a farmer in Jiangsu, looked at his wife Guo Qiaodi on the bed, hugging his newborn child tightly, and his joy could not be suppressed, saying: "It is a boy, it is a boy, this is saved."
This boy is the "savior" of the Wang family.
Before, Wang Jisheng and his wife had worked hard all their lives, did not have the luxury of getting rich and expensive, and only wanted to have a boy and continue the incense.
As a result, Guo Qiaodi gave birth to a girl, and they could not care about their sadness and nervously planned to give birth to a second child.
In order to get lucky, Wang Jisheng gave the girl a name, interspersed with a masculine word, so he named wang Jianfang.
Not long after, Guo Qiaodi's stomach moved again, and Ji Li begged for it, and this fetus was indeed a boy.
But as soon as the boy was born, he was diagnosed with polio, which was a "bad omen" in the rural areas where medical care was backward at that time.
The fortune teller in the village thought of a way for them: regeneration, this fetus is definitely a male baby, let this male baby block the disaster for the Wang family, otherwise the disaster will follow the Wang family.
Since the "Lord" had already given the instructions, the mortals did as they were, and Wang Jisheng and his wife hurriedly prepared for the birth of the next child.
As a result, the third child was really a boy, and Wang Jisheng and his wife were overjoyed and snorted at the heavens.
However, the fortune teller did not calculate the fate of the Wang family, he just did a probability problem correctly, a blind answer.
Because this third child did not prevent the Wang family from the disaster, the disaster has been with the Wang family until Guo Qiaodi was critically ill.
Wang Jisheng named the boy "Wang Yongqiang", which also pinned their expectations on him, hoping that the Wang family would always be rich and strong.
(When Wang Yongqiang was a child)
Wang Yongqiang loves to learn since childhood, coupled with talent and intelligence, his grades are often among the best, and he is deeply liked by teachers.
Such a life is like a mirror of his brother who suffers from polio, but through it, his brother can only shine on his ugly and mentally retarded side.
Every time Wang Yongqiang happily took the award home, his brother would always be stimulated and excitedly tear Up Wang Yongqiang's award.
When Wang Yongqiang said this achievement in front of his parents, his brother always slapped Wang Yongqiang angrily.
Once, he even swollen Wang Yongqiang's face, and most importantly, this drama of "brother teaching younger brother" was all witnessed by Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi.
Wang Yongqiang looked for his parents to theorize, and the parents only said: "That's your brother, you have to take good care of him and let him."
Just because my brother was disabled, I lost the right to be loved, which made Wang Yongqiang resent his parents.
He vowed to be admitted to a good university and go out of Jiangsu, far from home.
But his parents repeatedly blocked him and forced him to give up his studies, ostensibly saying that his family was poor and could not afford his tuition, but in fact they needed Wang Yongqiang's help to take care of his sick brother.
Moreover, the fact that the younger son was too powerful stabbed the eldest son, and the couple saw it in their eyes.
No matter how Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi persuaded, Wang Yongqiang did not give up the opportunity to study, and he assured them: "Tuition, I will solve it myself, don't worry about you."
In this way, Wang Yongqiang relied on his own hard work to study, and had no money to buy pencils, so he took advantage of the fact that after the students were out of school, he secretly went to the classroom garbage can to turn over a few small pencils.
Unable to afford to buy a book, Wang Yongqiang asked his classmates for the book he had written, and turned the back of each page to take notes.
Finally, in 1987, Wang Yongqiang was admitted to Soochow University, and his father Wang Jisheng saved a little money by selling rat poison, but he never considered spending this money on Wang Yongqiang.
In his opinion, a sound one with a disability, who needs money more, is clear.
Fortunately, at that time, as long as I could get into college, the tuition fee was free, there were meal tickets every day, and there was a subsidy of 4 yuan per month.
Therefore, Wang Yongqiang was lucky to read these 4 years.
Wang Yongqiang grew up, but Wang Jisheng and his wife were getting older, and they urgently needed Wang Yongqiang to replace their positions and support the burden of the family.
In their eyes, now, Wang Yongqiang is an "adult", and they should be a "child" and let the adults raise them.
In the four years of college, although Wang Yongqiang left his poor home, he was not able to break free from his parents' control as he imagined.
His parents knew that Wang Yongqiang had a monthly allowance, and they asked him to send all 4 yuan home on a regular basis.
Polio's brother can't find a job in his hometown, and Guo Qiaodi bombards Wang Yongqiang by phone, asking him to help his brother find a job in Suzhou, and he must live less and more money.
The second great uncle's cousin heard that Wang Yongqiang was admitted to a prestigious university, so he asked Wang Jisheng to help talk to Wang Yongqiang, let him find a relationship, and help his son find a good primary school in Suzhou.
Wang Yongqiang could not do it, refused his family, Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi took a special car to the school to find him, and loudly accused Wang Yongqiang of filial piety at the classroom door, so that Wang Yongqiang lost face in front of his classmates.
They think that going to college is the king's way, and they think that Wang Yongqiang should help his family and repay his parents when he is developed.
But they did not think that Wang Yongqiang was not familiar with suzhou, just an ordinary college student, how to talk about relationships and resources.
Wang Jisheng and his wife did not give Wang Yongqiang love, but taught Wang Yongqiang to learn to pay.
After that, Wang Yongqiang was admitted to soochow University as a graduate student, and then obtained a doctorate degree from the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and finally sent to Peking University for a postdoctoral degree.
Wang Yongqiang ran from Changzhou City to Suzhou City, and then from Suzhou City to Beijing, step by step away from the blood-sucking Wang family.
However, Wang Yongqiang's repeated concessions did not attract "pardon" from his parents, who hung the entire Life of the Wang family on Wang Yongqiang's neck, and little by little strangled him breathlessly.
During graduate school, Wang Yongqiang could receive a subsidy of 72 yuan per month, he did not tell his family, but still sent a little money home on time.
Later, the parents accidentally learned of this matter, blamed Wang Yongqiang for not sending all 72 pieces home, and scolded Wang Yongqiang for "hardening his wings" and "no conscience".
When he was a postdoctoral student at Peking University, during the winter and summer vacations, Wang Yongqiang would not go home, and assured his parents that the money would be sent home, and his parents were not satisfied.
At Peking University, Wang Yongqiang met the professor's daughter, and the two soon married and temporarily settled in Beijing.
After Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi knew, they wanted to send their eldest son over and let them take care of him together.
Wang Yongqiang did not agree, Wang Jisheng ran to Beijing to make trouble, and later Wang Yongqiang lied that it would take 2 years to travel to Japan on business, and Guo Qiaodi insisted that Wang Yongqiang take them with him.
Wang Yongqiang and his wife refused, afraid that their parents would stalk and fight, Wang Yongqiang promised that the annual salary of this work was 180,000 yuan, and he would send money home every month, and then buy a house for his family after returning to China.
After Wang Yongqiang went abroad, his parents still "reluctantly" him, and called him three times and twice to ask for money.
Due to the time difference between foreign and domestic, parents often call Wang Yongqiang in the middle of the night, which seriously affects the couple's sleep.
One after another, wang Yongqiang and his wife finally divorced, and his parents dismantled Wang Yongqiang's hard-won life, and Wang Yongqiang was completely disheartened.
He ran from Japan to the United States without his parents, cancelled his personal information in Beijing, and restarted his life in the United States.
He tried his best to forget his home in Changzhou, but everything in Changzhou was like the roots of a coiled tree, tightly strangling him.
After breaking off contact with Wang Yongqiang, the Wang family was in a hurry and inquired about Wang Yongqiang's whereabouts.
Wang Jisheng hitchhiked to Soochow University, looked for the president to check the information of the graduated students, ran to Beijing for help, and the students who may be found did not know where Wang Yongqiang went.
Ran to the former relative's house to find it, and the former relatives said that their daughter had long since divorced Wang Yongqiang and hoped not to bother them anymore.
But the desperate Wang family decided that the former relatives must know the whereabouts of their sons and harassed them every day, and finally the former relatives were miserable and had to move overnight.
After watching over the horse for decades, he did not expect to escape one day, which made the groom unable to think of anything.
Without Wang Yongqiang's care, the Wang family became a pot of porridge, the sister Wang Jianfang married someone, the eldest son was still under the care of Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi, and Wang Jisheng returned to his old business, selling rat poison to feed the three families.
In this way, Wang Yongqiang and his family were missing for 20 years.
In the past 20 years, Wang Yongqiang has been in the United States in Atlanta, while his parents have always nestled in thatched houses, waiting for their sons to return and take them to live in a big house.
In 2019, the 76-year-old Guo Qiaodi fell ill, Wang Jisheng was also old and could not work, and they remembered their young son again.
They found the Jiangsu media and mobilized netizens to help the poor parents find their beloved son.
Guo Qiaodi, who had a needle in it, lay on the bed and called out to his son with difficulty in the camera: "Strong you come back, mother misses you."
Wang Jisheng took Guo Qiaodi's hand and couldn't help but shed tears, telling reporters that his wife missed his son very much.
Under the crazy human flesh of netizens, Wang Yongqiang's life was pulled out little by little, and the reporter locked an account named "Wang Yongqiang" by querying foreign websites, and the user's avatar was Wang Yongqiang himself.
After all the hardships, Guo Qiaodi finally contacted Wang Yongqiang, but Wang Yongqiang immediately hung up the phone after hearing the voice of his family.
Netizens have privately bombarded him, scolding him for accusing him and supporting him to leave his blood-sucking parents.
He knew that his tracks were exposed, changed his profile picture on the social platform, and asked his friends to tell his family: "Don't look for me again, I don't want to go home, even if I die, it has nothing to do with me."
When the Wang family heard Wang Yongqiang's response, they felt extremely disappointed and accused Wang Yongqiang in front of the camera.
Even the little uncle who knows the truth is extremely dissatisfied with Wang Yongqiang's behavior, and he feels that no matter what your parents do to you, you are born to your parents' adoptive parents, and you should provide for them.
However, for all these "calls of human nature", Wang Yongqiang did not waver in the slightest, he only said to the angry netizens, "It is difficult for the officials to break the family affairs", and shut down the social platform.
As in 20 years, Wang Yongqiang once again broke off contact with his parents, without any hesitation, just because he wanted to live well for himself once, not for his brother who was polio and his parents who kept asking for it.
Perhaps, Guo Qiaodi could not understand until his death, how the original kind son had now become a desperate "devil".
It can only be said that Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi never regarded Wang Yongqiang as their own heart meat, and poverty is never an excuse for parents not to love their children.
Parents always say that their children are their creditors, but throughout their lives, children do not want much, and only require parents to treat them equally.
You gave my brother a piece of cake, or at least a piece of sugar, instead of running over and teaching me the principle of "Kong Rong let the pear".
Society will always teach me to be a person, and I only hope that you will leave me with the only warmth left in the world, teach me to be happy, and teach me to love.
I think that when Wang Yongqiang decided to leave his parents 20 years ago, he still had a memory of his parents, and it was also true that he took them to live in a big house.
It's just that parents will never learn how to be a good parent, they will never know that true love is not that you force me to repay you over and over again with a gesture of benefactor, but that I love you, so I want to repay you.