As the old Chinese saying goes: "The son is not ugly, the dog is not the family." The meaning of this sentence is that both humans and animals have feelings. For people, no matter how bad their biological parents are as children, they cannot be abandoned, that is, we call "hundred good filial piety first" in our old Chinese saying. Parents put a lot of effort and time into raising us, so when we grow up, we should honor them.
I believe that everyone has heard about the previous doctor Wang Yongqiang's refusal to see his sick mother. When the news came out, there was no scolding on the Internet. Everyone said: "The country has cultivated a white-eyed wolf, and his mother will not come back to visit when she is sick", and at the same time, they also complain that the state should not cultivate such an ungrateful talent. But is that really the case? Is there something hidden in this that we outsiders don't know?
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Born in 1969, Wang Yongqiang is the youngest child in the family and should be the darling of everyone in the family, but he does not enjoy this treatment. Wang Yongqiang's family, who live in the countryside of Changzhou, has always relied on their father to sell rat poison for a living, and their lives are very poor. The brother, who could have done his part for the family, suffered from polio, which was undoubtedly worse for the family, and they were often hungry and full.
Although Wang Yongqiang was born in such a poor family, fortunately, he was still very contentious. His academic performance is very good and he has always been at the top of the class. Wang Yongqiang knew very well that only studying could help him get out of his current poor life and never have to live such a poor life again. So he studied very hard. While others were still asleep, he had begun to study in an orderly manner, getting up earlier than chickens and sleeping later than dogs.
"Kung Fu pays off". With Wang Yongqiang's unremitting efforts, he was finally admitted to Soochow University. At that time, Wang Yongqiang had always been working and studying in college, because the family could not give him too much help, and he could only rely on himself. In the end, Wang Yongqiang was also admitted to the graduate school through his own efforts, and later became a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University.
For the old people living in the countryside at that time, who had a college student in the family was a matter of Guangzong Yaozu, let alone a doctor. At that time, not only the people in the family were proud, but the whole village felt particularly faceless. Wang Yongqiang, who has a career, has not forgotten his parents, and when he receives a scholarship, he often takes out a part of the subsidy for the family, which is very filial piety.
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Wang Qiang was happily married to the daughter of a professor at Peking University, and during his uncle's visit to Beijing, the couple also had a warm welcome. In order to develop better, the husband and wife decided to study in Japan. At the beginning, Wang Yongqiang kept in touch with his family from time to time, but as time went on, he slowly lost his voice with his family. This disappearance was more than twenty years, and even the old mother fell ill and did not come back to visit.
At that time, his family only knew that Wang Yongqiang had gone to Japan to study, but whether he was dead or alive was nothing. The 73-year-old mother, paralyzed in bed, has always missed this promising son and wants to see him again before she dies. At that time, Wang Yongqiang's uncle also inquired from many sources in order to fulfill his old sister's wishes, and later he learned that Wang Yongqiang had divorced his wife at the time and had settled in the United States.
This matter was reported by the media somehow, and as soon as the news spread, Wang Yongqiang was insulted and spurned by countless people. People scold him for being ungrateful and abandoning his parents who gave birth to you and raised you when he had the ability. As the saying goes, "Children are not ugly, dogs are not poor", not to mention that you are still a doctor. But it wasn't until Wang Yongqiang's uncle later revealed the hidden feelings behind it that we understood how much Wang Yongqiang had been wronged.
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It turned out that when Wang Yongqiang was in school, his parents did not support him to study, and repeatedly asked him to withdraw from school. When he was in college, college students had a 4 yuan a month subsidy, but his parents did not care about their son's life and death, and asked their son to send money to home on time every month. This was undoubtedly worse for Wang Yongqiang's path to school at that time. Since then, his parents' practice has also left a shadow on him.
After studying for a master's degree, Wang Yongqiang gradually began to have a salary, but he did not dare to mention it to his family. He was poor and afraid, afraid of his parents' endless demands. Later, this matter did not know how to be known by his parents, and because he did not tell his parents that he had a salary, there was a big fight. If it is only because of this, perhaps our protagonist will not not go to the old mother when she is dying.
What is even more excessive is that because he is a doctor, both his parents and relatives in the family think that he is rich and powerful, and they endlessly squeeze Wang Yongqiang's value. Relatives and children go to school to find Wang Yongqiang, and there is no money in the family to find Wang Yongqiang. If Wang Yongqiang did not meet their requirements, he would go to the school to make trouble, without the slightest regard for Wang Yongqiang's feelings.
Even when Wang Yongqiang was in love and married, Wang Yongqiang did not even dare to explain the real situation to his wife. Because his parents and those relatives are really a group of vampires, they are constantly squeezing Wang Yongqiang. Even when their husband and wife got married, their parents demanded a huge sum of money.
Wang Yongqiang, who later had a family, really couldn't stand such a life, so he decided to go to Japan with his wife to study abroad. But it was even more difficult to escape the clutches of the vampire's parents, who asked to take their family with them. Wang Yongqiang, who was helpless, had to deceive his parents that he was going to Japan this time to earn money, and if he earned money, he would buy them a house and a car. That's how his parents let him go.
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It is really unfortunate that Wang Yongqiang lives in such a family. His parents could not appreciate that it was not easy for their son to earn money, but instead demanded everywhere and squeezed Wang Yongqiang's surplus value. They see only money and material life in their eyes. For this biological son, they really lack too much care and love, which is not difficult to cause Wang Yongqiang not to go home to visit even if his mother is seriously ill.
When the media reported the whole story, all of us knew that we had misunderstood him. There is a saying that goes: "Do not persuade others to be good without suffering." Sometimes we really can't see things and evaluate them in a few words, and more often we should understand the completeness of things and then say it.