#Love is a verb #Little Women This book was borrowed from the library and never read in time, resulting in having to renew it in the library because I felt super beneficial after reading it! I love this book so much! Because she not only taught me how to be a qualified mom, but also reminded me of all the funny things about my childhood! All children in the world are the same! Loved playing home and playing games! I wonder if the children of every country were raised peacefully, kindly, and positively! Then the world will be more peaceful, united and fraternal!
The author of the book is the American children's novelist Louisa, Olcott, who was already enthusiastic about amateur theater performances at the age of ten! And at the age of fifteen he wrote his first melodrama, and at the age of twenty-one he published poetry novels! This book was written by her based on memories from her childhood! Once published, it was a huge success! Received positive reviews from readers and critics! Known as one of America's finest family novels! Little Women is a classic! The so-called classic refers to her enduring perseverance, which has withstood the passage of time, the change of space, and the test of the times! Once hailed as the most popular inspirational growth pillow book for women!
When I read this book, I had the feeling of seeing each other and hating each other! How nice it would have been to read her in the early years! I have to lament that I read too little during school! After reading this book as a student, you will have a deeper understanding of the sweetness and troubles of first love, the choice of feelings and reason, the gap between ideals and reality, and the contradiction between poverty and wealth! This book can be said to be what all young girls in all eras must face and experience in the process of growing up! You can find the answer in this book! As an adult, especially as a parent, you will know more about how to get along with your children after reading it! Especially admire Mrs. March! As a mother of four children, follow the good temptations, moisturize and silently educate four strong, independent, self-respecting and self-loving excellent children!
I love this book when I read it! The whole book, Mrs. March, is so affinity from beginning to end, and has always been gentle and rational for the four children! She warms the four princesses like the sun! It also inspires readers of every age! Mrs. March's husband went into battle with the army, and she used her thin body to take on family responsibilities! He is a daughter who takes care of himself alone, and although the family is in a poor situation, he still leads his daughters to support people who are more difficult than himself! Give your own food and clothing to the children of the poor! There is a radiance of self-reliance in her! Living diligently with her own hands, education is a daughter who lives out herself and follows her inner thoughts! It can be said that Mrs. March's education is not outdated today! Even wiser than modern people! Even the modern people's concept of education is not as good as Mrs. March's educational concept at that time! Mrs. March's educational concept is worth learning in any era!
It's an easy and happy book to read, and I've laughed out loud more than once! Especially see the children on vacation! Mrs. March let them plan their own time! Go through each day as you wish! Mrs. March didn't even care about anything, even cooking with her four daughters! But he secretly ate a small snack that he had hidden beforehand! Because when they put their own meal in front of Mrs. March, Mrs. March did not accuse the child of doing a bad job! It's about letting them be now! This should indeed be learned from Mrs. March, because she didn't want to show herself how crazy they were at home and tell the children to go out on their own! Do not rely on authoritative violence to pledge children, never scold children, do not use spirit to suppress children, do not forcibly instill their own ideas to children, never say teach to control children! Let the four daughters live a healthy and assertive and happy life!
When the younger daughter Amy and Joe lost their temper, the younger daughter actually burned the manuscript of the novel that Joe had worked so hard to write! Joe angrily hits Amy and vows never to forgive his sister again! Even if the sister later apologized to Joe, Joe still refused to forgive her sister, when Mrs. March knew about this, she did not say that the two children were called together to preach, nor did she take sides for the sake of peace, let alone that Amy was still a child, and your sister should forgive her for traditional preaching, but leave the problem to the sisters to solve by themselves! She first understood Joe's behavior! She knew Joe's book was her pride! It was a disaster for her! Because that novel was written by Joe! It can be said that it is the work of painstaking efforts! At night, before going to bed, Mrs. March gently and gently advises Joe, dear, not to see the sun because of anger, this is indeed a great loss, you definitely have the right to be angry, but do not fall asleep with anger, forgive each other, help each other! Start over tomorrow!
That's where Mrs. March's cleverness comes in! Because Mrs. March understands that breaking bones is connected to a tendon! Then when the little daughter fell into the ice cave in the back, she was desperately rescued by Joe, and the two sisters were reconciled as before! After this happened, Joe was upset about his bad temper and wanted to change it, but each attack was more powerful than ever! At this time Mrs. March told her daughter, stay vigilant and sincerely pray, never give up the effort, never think that it is impossible to correct your mistakes, when Joe cried in his arms and asked his mother to help her, she told Joe that everyone will encounter temptations, some stronger than you have experienced, and we often need to spend our entire lives to overcome these temptations, and then say that we are just as bad-tempered! She told Joe that he had been trying to overcome it for forty years, but the result could only be controlled! She still loses her temper every day, but she learns not to show it, hoping to learn not to feel it, although it will take the next forty years to do it! When the two of them talked about Aunt March scolding Mrs. March, Mrs. March always pursed her lips and walked out of the room, and Mrs. March told her daughter that she had learned to control herself and not to speak rashly, even if the words came to her mouth! If you can't control it, leave! Review your own weakness and evil! There is talk about her husband, Mr. March, who Mrs. March thinks she wants to see what kind of daughters she wants to see! I believe that this conversation has crushed countless mothers now! A model and role model for contemporary mothers!
When his eldest daughter wants to join the party, Mrs. March is encouraging her daughter, Meg is a little lost in herself when she first enters the social party, he does something unhappy against his will, in order to try to blend into that social circle, back home, Mrs. March and her daughters wear pajamas to gently guide them to pay attention to their hearts, more than beautiful appearance, having good qualities is more important than anything! Time will decay all superficial beauty, but time will not be able to indelible the operation of your beautiful mind, your humor, kindness, and moral courage, which are the most precious in your heart! She wants to give her daughter a fairer world and let them know they'll make it better! They're more like friends talking! With this gentle and angry chat guide, the daughters will definitely take their mother's words to heart! It is not difficult for such a mother to raise an excellent daughter! She even encouraged her eldest daughter to marry for love! The second daughter, Joe, is against marriage! Mrs. March didn't try to change her daughter's mind either! Let Joe decide for himself! She wouldn't put a stick to her daughter! It's about the dignity of the daughter! When the three daughters grew up, they all respected their hearts, married for love, and found their own life partners!
For Joe, Mrs. March understands that her second daughter wants to be a writer, with a hot and straightforward personality, a bit like a boy! Even another submission was selected! Win the manuscript fee to mother! Even when her mother was going to see her sick father, Joe was obliged to cut her hair short and sell her hair! It can be said that Joe is very willing to contribute to his family! And it's always willing to have no complaints! Mrs. March encourages her second daughter to become a writer!
I have heard such a sentence, lucky people, all their lives are healed by the original family, unfortunate people, all their lives are healing the harm caused by the original family! What a blessing to be Mrs. March's daughter! It can be said that Mrs. March's educational method, or philosophy, is still desirable even today! Remarkable! It is worth learning from each of us as parents! She didn't give the children financial support to let the children live the life they wanted, but told the children to follow their hearts! This is an enlightened mother! Treat all equally, and definitely tolerate children! Don't skimp on praising children! Study the passage in Revolution that if a child lives in criticism, she learns to condemn, and if a child lives in fear, he learns to worry. If a child lives in acceptance, he learns to love! If living in recognition, he learned self-love!