Lead
"In this world, most of them are wolves, and if you don't move forward and don't work hard, you will be eliminated by others." In the 32nd episode of "Mother", Xiaoyang, the son of the heroine Zhou Nannan, was under too much pressure at the Young Ascension Small Art Festival, and after eating the "happy medicine" brought by his classmate Youyou, he was poisoned and admitted to the hospital, and when he woke up, he saw his father Yang Shuo, and complained to his father that his mother let him do a lot of homework, he was very unhappy...
Then his father Yang Shuo told Xiaoyang with his own experience of going abroad for graduate school: "In this world, most of them are wolves, do you know why Dad can go to graduate school abroad?" That's because Dad has to get up at 5:00 every morning to learn English, and after 12 o'clock in the evening, he can go to bed, if not, Dad will be compared to others, will be eliminated... Dad hopes that Xiaoyang can also become a strong little wolf."
This plot was attacked by many netizens, most netizens felt: Yang Shuo brought his "wolf sex" work concept as a domineering president to the child, and it was too cruel to carry out "wolf sex education" for a 6-year-old child...
Of course, there are also a small number of netizens who support Yang Shuo's educational philosophy, believing that children cannot be protected too well! Because this society is a competitive relationship between the weak and the strong, if you do not become strong, you will be compared to others, and even fall behind others far and far, never have the opportunity to turn over...
Yang Shuo conducted "wolf sex" education for Xiaoyang to create anxiety? No, facts are just facts
In fact, I personally agree with Yang Shuo's educational philosophy, children can not live in the ivory tower all the time, like the flowers in the greenhouse, can not withstand any pressure, soft and spongy!
Teacher Lu Chuan's "edutainment" educational concept of letting children learn in play and entertainment in learning is the most ideal state of education, too naïve, at least not suitable for the current test-taking education environment!
As Zhou Nannan said, the kindergarten bridging class, all the children are learning in the extracurricular tutoring class, then to the first grade of primary school, if the whole class, only Xiaoyang has not taken the kindergarten bridging class, I believe that the teacher will not drag the whole class hind legs because of Xiaoyang alone... If the teacher takes care of the whole class, then Xiaoyang will definitely not be able to keep up!
Moreover, over-optimism is equal to truth, too loose, too conniving with children, in the direction of optimism: I hope that children have a happy childhood, do not push children too close, for the sake of children's good; But in the general direction, since you have no way to change the environment of test-taking education, and you have not let your children learn, you can only lag behind if you do not make progress...
Taking my own personal experience as an example, as a post-90s, when I was a child, there were often teachers who organized make-up classes during the summer vacation, but because the family would be poor, I felt that the teacher would talk again after the school started, so the students went to make up the class, I did not go; But after the beginning of the school, I found that although the teacher also spoke, but because in the summer vacation make-up class, the teacher has already spoken once, most of the students have understood, so the teacher speaks very fast, the original 2-3 lessons to finish the 1 text, the teacher 1 lesson on the end, so the students who did not go to the make-up class sound very difficult, and even can not keep up ...
Although as a parent, he is distressed about his children, does not want his children to bear the pressure too early, knows the dangers of society too early, and wants to let his children live in the fairy tale world all their lives and be happy to be a sheep, but when the children grow up and go out of society, they will gradually find that they are not as strong as the people around them, and he may understand: in this social environment where the weak eat the strong, the number of wolves is far more than the sheep!
Write at the end
In general, the competitive pressure in the current society is too great, according to Lu Chuan's education method, step by step, follow the good temptation, do not give the child any learning pressure, the child does not have the slightest sense of competition, when reading kindergarten, feel that it does not matter whether to learn or not, do not learn; When you go to primary school, you may find that your classmates have taken a step ahead, and if you are not a prodigy or a bully, you may not be able to keep up...
Moreover, like Xiaoyang, a kindergarten class, less than 6 years old, self-discipline is still very weak, it is the best age to cultivate good habits, if you go with the flow of parents, do not force him, and so in the future the child has developed a loose habit, personality has been fixed, academic performance in the time of not keeping up, parents regret it is too late!
Therefore, if parents do not have high expectations for their children, only hope that your children can live in the future, of course, you can be a little Buddhist; But if you hope that your children can achieve something in the future and have a better material life, then you must "wolf sex education" and force your children to do it, after all, the back wave of the Yangtze River pushes the front wave, and you can only retreat if you do not move forward!