Like each other, go in both directions.
"I'm twenty-five years old and haven't been in a relationship yet. Every time I see others talking, I feel that it is not very difficult to fall in love, but once I get to myself, I can't meet the right person.
To be honest, I was a little worried, afraid that I would never meet someone I liked in my life. ”
That's what she said to me the other day when I was chatting with a friend.
At that time, I asked her what she meant by "suitable and suitable".
She told me that it was to like each other and go in both directions.
I asked her again, why do you think you can't meet such a person?
She said: "Because I don't think I'm good enough, I don't have a pretty face, I don't have a good body, I don't even work barely, my personality is strong, my whole body is up and down, there is nothing to be desired." ”
I believe that she should be the only one who thinks this way.
Many of the girls I've met, some of whom have achieved financial independence in college, some who have become business executives in just two years after graduation, and many of whom are particularly outstanding in every aspect.
They are like stars with their own light, they can be beautiful and brilliant without the light of others.
However, once faced with love, they instantly lost their breath.
I always feel that I am not good enough to be worthy of others.
Even some girls are particularly inferior to think that they are not worthy of love and being loved.
Every time I feel sorry for them.
I can't figure out what life has made them go through, so that they don't dare to love, don't dare to fight, even if they love, they don't dare to have, always so humble and suffer from gain and loss.
Today, I want to say to these girls:
In fact, you are not bad at all, even if you are ordinary, you deserve to be pampered.
There will always be a man who comes over the mountains and mountains, holds your hand in the vast sea of people, loves you firmly and sincerely, and will not abandon you for the rest of his life.
Really, love is not something out of reach, it really exists in our world.
It's just that everyone's flowering period is different, and you may have it later than others.
A friend I know, she only started her first love at the age of 27.
Before falling in love, she always shouted that she might have to die alone, did not believe that true love would come to her, and so on.
Because she always felt that no boy would like a fat, short, funny girl like her.
Funny women have no love, she often said.
It wasn't until she met her current boyfriend that she slowly discovered:
The premise of being loved is not that it must be beautiful.
She looks fleshy, but her boyfriend says she's super cute.
On weekdays, the boy's favorite thing to do is to cook for her.
She really thinks she's too fat, and when she wants to lose weight, her boyfriend will take her to the gym with her.
She is only one meter five and five, but the boy is nearly one meter eight.
But every time they walked down the street, the boyfriend would hold her hand tightly and let her get close to him, which attracted countless envious eyes from others.
Boyfriends often say to her, "You see, it turns out that couples with greater height differences have a higher rate of return when they walk in the crowd." ”
Every time she heard it, she laughed incessantly.
On the second anniversary of the relationship, she told me that she could finally accept and face herself calmly now.
No longer like before, every time I see myself in the mirror, I can't help but want to cry and feel that I am worthless.
Under the careful care of her boyfriend, she slowly became an innocent and simple child from an adult who was patient with everything.
The blatant preference given by the lover is our greatest confidence in facing life.
As Tang Yixin said in the show:
"With a boyfriend, you have everything."
The condition of being loved is only true love and nothing else.
Even if you don't have a prominent family background, you don't have a beautiful face.
Even if you're stuck in a quagmire and you're in a mess.
The person who loves you will still love you sincerely and passionately.
He loves you, not because of who you are, but because of who he is in front of you.
So, girls, stop feeling self-pity and self-denial.
You are really nice, kind and brave, gentle and strong.
You deserve to be treated sincerely by the world, and you deserve the most beautiful love in the world.
In this life, you will not end up alone, old and alone.
You will have a home to go back to, someone cute, and something to eat.
The happiness that belongs to you may be late, but it will never be absent.
Now all you have to do is live a good life and take care of yourself before that person arrives.
When you are just gentle and he is just mature, you are together, you will not be easily separated.
Be confident, silly girl, you're really, really, very good.
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Author: Jiang Classmate & Xin He, 97 years of sagittarius female, love to eat hot pot, I have wine, waiting for you to come to me nagging. Public number: Jiang classmate with a story (ID: meiya54264), please contact the background for reprinting.