Text/Flying Fish
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Have you ever thought about how you will live when you are old, your wife is gone, your children are not by your side, and you live alone?
In fact, in this world, there has always been a very real problem, that is, parents will grow old and leave, brothers and sisters will have their own families, your children will also start their own families, and the only partner who accompanies you will one day go earlier than you.
No one can accompany you to the end, only yourself.
Parents are not your backers, children are not, brothers and sisters are not, your backer is only yourself, no one else, when you reach the end of your life, when you live alone, you need to do these three things.
First: Actively integrate into some groups and have their own circles.
In their old age, people still need their own circle, which has a group of friends with similar interests who can do interesting things together, so that even if they live alone, they will not feel lonely.
In fact, it is not the world that has abandoned you, it is you who have abandoned your world. When you integrate yourself into life, your life is vivid, and you feel happy from the heart.
In the old age, people should not leave the house, go out more, and integrate into some circles that you think are OK, then the life in the old age is also full.
In reality, many elderly people, in fact, there are people who like to dance square dance, there are people who like to sing, and there are people who want to enroll in the university of the elderly to study, that is, to actively integrate themselves into the group and play the things they are interested in, life is very rich.
When people are full, they naturally have no time to think about loneliness.
In the old age, if you live alone, the child can't take care of you, then you don't think much, you live your own life, how happy and how to live, find some of your own hobbies, will make the rest of your life wonderful.
Second: Don't buy your old house, this is the best nest for you to rely on.
In their old age, people need to have their own nest, that is, their old house.
When you live alone, even if the children say they are worried about you, they will take you to their homes and take turns to let you live for a period of time to take care of you.
But in fact, when people are old, they know that living in their children's homes is the most uncomfortable, or their old nest is the most comfortable.
Moreover, sometimes, because I go to my child's house to live, I get a lot of trouble, and even prone to contradictions.
On the contrary, I live alone in my old house, even if it is not so spacious, it is also the most familiar place for myself, and it is much more comfortable to live alone.
The child can come back to visit us, and you can also visit the child's house once in a while, which is good.
But you must have a nest of your own, so that it is the most convenient place for a person to live.
When we are old, even if we don't live with our children, we have a safe place to live, and no matter how bad our life is, we will not drift.
Third: when people are old, they must learn to take care of themselves.
Living alone, the most worrying thing for your children is that you don't know how to take care of yourself. Maybe I didn't know how to work before, and I couldn't cook, so whether I could take care of myself was the most worrying thing for children.
However, if you feel that you want to live alone and do not want to trouble your children, if you can, you must be willing to spend money, hire an hourly nanny, and cook for you every day.
Many old people say that they live alone, but when their wives are gone, they can't cook and eat a hungry meal, which is not good for their own body.
The more people reach their old age, the more they have to take care of their own bodies, and taking care of themselves is the most important.
Put the home phone in the most conspicuous place, call others when you encounter something, know how to eat, but also be willing to spend money, at this age, the money is not spent and there is no use, just enjoy yourself, take care of yourself, life is more and more hopeful.
In short, in the old age, no matter what the reason for living alone, people must have their own plans, have their own life goals, be themselves, live themselves, and live every day happily.
In old age, if you feel lonely, then actively integrate into the group, or chat with neighbors, or call your children, to meet your children, there will always be joy.
The rest of life is very expensive, one day less than one day, people should live in the present, cherish the present, live well, and the rest will go with the flow.
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