After 11 years, I looked at He Yin's situation and realized that divorce from Huang Zhizhong was the best choice

In 1989, He Yin starred in the delicate and fiery "Jianghu En Vengeance".

His good looks and cheerful personality have attracted many suitors, including Huang Zhizhong.

The two met in 1997 filming, met, fell in love, and entered into marriage a year later.

Soon after marriage, He Yin gave birth to a child, and in order to take care of the child, she pushed off her job and let her husband Huang Zhizhong move forward on the road of acting.

With the encouragement of his wife, Huang Zhizhong was on fire, and with it, there was a marriage crisis.

Huang Zhizhong's unusual relationship with actress Ke Lan reached He Yin's ears, and in order to give her son a better life, she chose to divorce, preferring to be a single mother rather than look at Huang Zhizhong's face.

The divorce caused a lot of impressions on He Yin, she cried and shouted and roared, and finally came out of the shadows.

And now she has a new career, and a new love.

Who said that divorce must be a bad thing, looking back at He Yin, divorce brought pain and brought her a new life.

He Yin graduated from the Normal School and naturally became a teacher after he came out.

Until that day, a scout found her, with a good face and slender posture, so that the scout concluded that she could become a big star.

Under the persuasion of the scout, He Yin was moved.

From that day on, He Yin officially embarked on the road of acting.

In 1989, "Jianghu Enmity" was launched, and He Yin was on fire with petite fire.

Since then, He Yin has played many roles and gained a lot of popularity. Watching her fire, many people began to worry about her marriage, hoping that she could find a good family and form a perfect family.

But after too much persuasion, He Yin still did not waver, she did not like it, just looked at the people who came and went, and continued to walk her own path as an actor.

However, the coming of love is always unexpected.

In 1997, He Yin filmed "Mainlander" and met Huang Zhizhong, and unlike He Yin, who had already become famous, Huang Zhizhong was still just a newcomer to the actor.

The moment Huang Zhizhong saw He Yin, he felt the breath of spring, and his heart was pounding.

He looked at He Yin's smile and only felt that the other party's smile was too bright, making himself a little shy.

"I'm going to marry her, I'm going to marry her."

Huang Zhizhong looked at He Yin, and this sentence suddenly appeared in his mind.

He was moved, he wanted to be with He Yin.

In order to be able to talk about a good relationship with his sweetheart, Huang Zhizhong gathered around He Yin from time to time.

Discuss the script with He Yin, discuss the role together, his eyes are always glued to He Yin's body, seeing that He Yin wants to drink water, he hurriedly handed over the water, watched He Yin sweat, and hurriedly took the tissue over.

He wanted to take care of her meticulously.

Under the care of Huang Zhizhong, He Yin was of course aware, and in the face of Huang Zhizhong's concern, she was not unhappy, but had some heartbeat.

Although Huang Zhizhong did not have a fire, the strength and vitality he had as a newcomer made He Yin like it very much.

And every time Huang Zhizhong appeared where He Yin appeared, she always felt that Huang Zhizhong especially understood himself and cared about himself.

Coupled with the long shooting time, the secret feelings of the two people are becoming more and more obvious. When it was time to kill Qingqing, Huang Zhizhong walked with He Yin.

Little couples in the hot love period, feelings are always born quickly.

He Yin liked Huang Zhizhong more and more, and even wanted to marry him and have children.

When she was urged to get married before, He Yin didn't have any attitude, but now that she saw Huang Zhizhong, she was like a changed person. Have to lament the greatness of love.

In addition to the two people's intentions to get married, they also have to pass the level of their parents, which makes Huang Zhizhong very nervous.

He thought about it, and suddenly had a flash of inspiration, since his girlfriend is from Sichuan, it is better to learn some Sichuan cuisine, so that he can show his skills in the future mother-in-law's family.

When learning to cook, Huang Zhihua was always in tears, but when he thought of his girlfriend He Yin, he felt that everything was worth it.

And Huang Zhizhong's tears did not flow in vain, in his mother-in-law's house, his good dishes captured He Yin's parents.

Huang Zhizhong's meal that the two parents ate, looked at his filial piety, and agreed to the marriage in their hearts.

In 1998, Huang Zhihua and He Yin married.

It's just that for this marriage, the public does not recognize it, and it is not reliable to think that women are strong and men are weak.

But He Yin didn't care, even if Huang Zhizhong lost his temper because he wasn't angry, she would be kind enough to tolerate her husband.

Once the two people had an accident while driving, after He Yin woke up, he couldn't care about his injuries, and he quickly looked at Huang Zhizhong, who was not far away, to see how he was, whether he was seriously injured.

In He Yin's world, Huang Zhizhong always ranks first.

After He Yin became pregnant, the family let Huang Zhizhong accompany her at home, but she was afraid of delaying her husband's career, so she waved his hand and asked him to concentrate on his work outside without worrying about himself.

Looking at He Yin's expression, Huang Zhizhong agreed and plunged into the "Warm Winter" crew again.

Huang Zhizhong would take the time to call He Yin, and even so, He Yin would not say anything uncomfortable.

Even when she almost had a miscarriage and lay in a hospital bed for several days, she didn't say a word.

She is bent on the better development of Huang Zhizhong, even if she has wronged herself.

It is precisely because of this that after He Yin gave birth to a child in 2002, she had the idea of quitting the show business circle, and she hoped that Huang Zhizhong would work hard outside and realize her dream of being an actor.

If she watches Huang Zhihua's dream succeed, she will also be happy in her heart.

And this opportunity soon arrived, in 2006, Huang Zhizhong entered the crew of "Daming Dynasty", in order to fit the role, he forced himself to lose 19 pounds.

When Huang Zhihua returned home, He Yin saw his violent and thin appearance, and his tears flowed out of his heartache.

Hurriedly made him a lot of food and let him nourish his body.

Fortunately, the effort pays off.

Huang Zhizhong quickly caught fire with "Daming Dynasty", and he is no longer the man hiding behind He Yin.

At this time, people have improved the couple and feel that the two are golden children.

But love is a joke.

In 2008, Huang Zhizhong filmed "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes" and met actress Ke Lan.

The longer the time, the better the relationship between the two people, and the ambiguous relationship between the two people also came.

And these voices also drifted into He Yin's ears, but with a strong love for her husband, He Yin did not believe it.

Even if the media took videos and photos of Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan going in and out of the hotel together, He Yin did not want to divorce, she wanted to give her children a complete home.

And Huang Zhizhong and He Yin also tacitly reached a consensus on this incident, not to say anything, but outside, always maintain each other's affection.

Every time Huang Zhizhong talks about He Yin in front of the camera, a happy smile will always appear on his face.

However, the smile paralyzed He Yin, but it did not paralyze the masses, and the public obviously did not buy the show love of the two.

And things gradually developed in an uncontrollable direction, things became more and more noisy, He Yin wanted to give Huang Zhizhong a good look.

But seeing his face, he thought of something with Ke Lan, which made He Yin physically and mentally exhausted.

She couldn't believe that the love she had given had been betrayed.

This physical and mental exhaustion prevented her from bearing the surface of a fake marriage, and the two divorced in 2011.

He Yin was unwilling, but she did not want to complain about herself, but instead took her son and wanted to live her own life.

But after the divorce, He Yin's life could not be calm for a long time, and many reporters called to ask He Yin what really happened and what was the inside story.

Watching the phone ring one by one, He Yin felt extremely tired, but she did not dare to show weakness in front of her son, and she did not want to say that Huang Zhizhong was not good.

No matter what, she had loved once, and she wanted to keep a good thing for herself, a good thing that could be remembered.

The media interview inquiry reached its peak after the love affair between Ke Lan and Huang Zhizhong was exposed.

Some reporters found that Ke Lan came to the apartment where Huang Zhizhong lived after his divorce, and the media found that not only once, looking at the two people who were so swinging, He Yin's phone was once again exploded.

"Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan's thing, what do you think?"

"Are you still in contact with Huang Zhizhong?"

These are all clichéd questions, but He Yin answered them kindly.

"Huang Zhizhong is very busy, but he has not forgotten the child, he will take time to gradually have children, and June 1 Children's Day is still spent with his son."

"I have lived with Huang Zhizhong for 13 years, leaving a lot of good memories, I believe that as the years go by, the more time goes on, the better the memories of each other will be"

After returning to the media interviews over and over again, He Yin revealed that she was scarred again and again, which hurt, and she also shed a lot of tears for this.

But the sun always had to rise as usual, and life had to go on as usual, and she decided to dry her tears and run to the next life.

She began filming again, although there were not many scenes and the role was not the most important, but she gradually found her own value in her career.

In addition to filming, He Yin also has to take care of her son.

She knows that divorce will have a certain impact on her son, so she pays more attention to her son's education.

She will take her son to the playground, to travel, to feel nature, try not to mention Huang Zhizhong's name, and do not say bad things about Huang Zhizhong in front of her son.

As his son grew older, he also gradually knew what had happened, and he would feel sorry for his mother and try to help his mother share her worries.

Unable to help with work, he helped with housework and swept the floor to wash clothes.

Seeing his son so intimate, He Yin's heart was warm.

He Yinben will be like this in his life afterwards, watching his son grow up, have his own life, and then enjoy his old age.

But fate led her to meet Xu Yunfan, who was nine years younger than He Yin.

Although the age difference is large, it does not stop Xu Yunfan's admiration for He Yin.

In order to catch up with He Yin, Xu Yunfan was not only good to her, but also to He Yin's son.

When He Yin is busy at work, Xu Yunfan will find the child and take him for a walk, dinner, or basketball.

In one contact after another, He Yin's son gradually accepted Xu Yunfan, and He Yin saw that he and his son had such a good relationship, and an inexplicable emotion arose in his heart.

All along, it was He Yin who took care of the children and supported everything in the family, and looking at another person was also so good to his son.

This made her feel moved, and she also had different feelings for Xu Yunfan, no longer seeing him as a younger brother, but as a man, a man who can produce love.

Then, the two men quickly walked together.

Xu Yunfan even boldly revealed his love on social platforms, and Ming's dangling generous words were his feelings for He Yin.

And He Yin also responded below, responding to the love of the two.

Under this love, the two married.

After the divorce, He Yin once again had happiness, and under the love of Xu Yunfan, she was once again full of confidence in love.

And what about her ex-husband, Huang Zhizhong?

After the divorce, although Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan had a relationship, they did not admit it.

Curran even said that the two were just buddies. That's all.

Even after repeatedly photographing the ambiguity between the two, Huang Zhizhong still did not respond.

Instead, he put all his mind on acting, and he also acted in many TV series and created many roles.

"My Top Secret Career", "My War", "Eight Hundred", "Breakout".

He continues to shine in the show business circle with his good acting skills.

It's just that compared to the smooth star path, his love life has not made any progress.

Except for Curran, who was the object of a scandal, there was no one else.

It is even more single to this day.

Maybe it's because you don't want to get married, you don't want to marry, of course, it's because of your son.

Although divorced, Huang Zhizhong obviously did not let go of his son, and he took time to see his son.

But the son did not accept his kindness, always making a big fuss and ignoring him, and even crying. He knew it was all about divorce.

But life is like this, there is no chance to come back, he can't get back together, he has to buy gifts and see his son at the same time.

Even when he saw his son scolding him, he was willing, at least in his heart, but his son never said these words.

Seeing the awkward relationship between Huang Zhizhong and her son, He Yin's heart was like a knife, and she told him over and over again that in fact, his father still cared about him.

None of this helped.

After talking too much, the son felt uncomfortable in his heart, and in the meeting with Huang Zhizhong again, he cried and accused the man in front of him.

Seeing his son's tears, Huang Zhizhong was sad, but he had some ease.

Instead of loving to answer and venting wantonly, Huang Zhizhong's mood is better.

Just going back to the previous state again, I'm afraid it's very difficult.

Today, 11 years have passed since Huang Zhizhong and He Yin divorced, and although people have a bad view of divorce, divorce is not a new starting point. A new life.

He Yin is the best example.

After the baptism of pain, He Yin found herself again in the children and in the career, she is no longer a housewife who sacrifices everything for men, but a person who bravely pursues her own life.

Not just life, she had a new love, the one who hurt her and loved her.

Now it seems that the divorce has brought tears to He Yin, and also brought happiness to the back.

It's just a pity that Huang Zhizhong, with a career, lacks love, because of passion to marry, but when the passion fades, only the reality of bone feeling is left, and even the love of his wife is lived up.

Single to this day, perhaps also to blame.