Seeing Chongqing's 21-year-old King Glory National Service Mengqi "Fat Cat" being asked for 510,000 yuan by his online girlfriend in the name of love, and jumping into the river after being broken up, I felt sad, pity and worthless.
After two and a half years of online dating, the boy spent 51w on each other. has been pua by girls for a long time, cheated on each other, and opened shops and rented houses for each other.
He was alone in a humble rental house in a strange city, eating takeout for more than a dozen yuan, and in order to save three yuan, he waited from 12 o'clock to 18 o'clock to eat, and kept making orders for more than ten hours.
handed over his salary, gave all the money to the girl, and he also transferred the last 66,000 yuan to his "girlfriend", and remarked "voluntary gift".
Some netizens calculated it, 20 yuan a single to play, 510,000 = 25,500 singles, even if some bosses are generous, even if 25,000 singles, 25,000 divided by two years of non-stop play every day, 34.2 orders per single number waiting for the interface, let's count 25 minutes, equal to 850 minutes, equal to 14 hours of playing games. Playing with you also needs to deduct bills and so on, which is equivalent to working at least 16 hours a day.
He will buy a takeaway for a refund for a few cents and then buy it again, and the food is all 10 yuan, but the transfers to his girlfriend are hundreds of thousands, and he also invested in a flower shop for it...
The leader in the king circle is the national costume Mengqi and the national costume armor, who can earn 510,000 yuan on his own at the age of 21, with infinite possibilities and a bright future, but because of a sincere mistake, he punished himself with other people's problems!
In the relationship, you must have the ability to make self-judgments, understand whether the other party's three views are correct and reasonable from getting along, and find that the other party's style of behavior is inappropriate, such as when it comes to "asking for money", you must think about whether the relationship can continue. I don't think an adult with a normal outlook will go to the other party to ask for money because of a relationship, because they know that money is earned by themselves, not through such shortcuts.
Especially for boys and girls who are easy to fall into the Internet, the other end of the network is likely to beautify him/her because of distance and the Internet, and you may not even be able to understand the friends around you thoroughly, why should you pay your heart to someone you have never met, and give some money and other gifts?
In the relationship, we must keep this in mind: we must first learn to love ourselves, if you don't love yourself, how can others love you? Two people should get along with each other more equally, respectfully, neither humble nor arrogant, and support each other, otherwise it will only make him/her look down on you.
The picture source is the Internet, invaded and deleted