Whether a person really loves you depends on whether he cares about your feelings and whether you feel comfortable and comfortable with him.
If you feel particularly depressed and depressed when you are with a person, and you do not experience the slightest happiness and ease, it shows that you are not suitable for love.
The beauty of love is that you can draw strength and courage from each other to fight against worldly pressures and negative evaluations.
Living together with two people can sometimes offset the long loneliness and loneliness and give your heart some kind of stability.
Of course, if a person doesn't love you, you don't have to reluctantly fall in love with him or marry him.
Feelings are no way to force peace, since love, then cherish each other, tolerate each other, respect each other.
When people reach middle age, it is almost difficult to devote themselves to a relationship with their whole body, unless they meet a really heartwarming object.
Middle-aged men are usually more rational and restrained in the face of feelings, and will not act rashly, unless they are fully sure that they will express something.
To judge whether a middle-aged man is moved, it is mainly to see whether he has more abnormal behavior or more obvious characteristics.
Generally speaking, the salient features of middle-aged men after they are moved are actually one word: patience.
1) Endure your bad temper
Everyone gets emotionally out of control or grumpy when a middle-aged man gets upset with you and he usually puts up with your bad temper and bad mood.
To judge whether a middle-aged man is moved, it is important that he can tolerate some of your shortcomings and deficiencies.
The more you love your middle-aged man, the more gentle and considerate he will be to you, give you spring-like feelings, and let you release the negative emotions that you have suppressed and accumulated in your heart.
We only lose our temper with people who really love us deeply, and are usually polite to strangers.
Of course, we can't lose our temper with family and friends because they pamper themselves.
Don't take the care and sincerity of others as air, and don't take the efforts of others as a matter of course and righteousness.
There is no gratuitous endurance and patience in this world, only when he is really moved, will he endure and tolerate your bad temper, so that you can be your true self in front of him.
2, can tolerate you everywhere
If a middle-aged man is moved, he often knows how to tolerate and tolerate.
Middle-aged men who truly love and care about you can tolerate both your bad emotions and your imperfections.
When two people are together, they must know how to tolerate and tolerate each other, and be considerate and understanding of each other.
If a middle-aged man is inching forward on you, not only does not know how to tolerate your shortcomings and shortcomings, but degrades you everywhere, so that you can't lift your head in the crowd, indicating that he does not really love you, and he is not touched by you.
In the relationship, if a middle-aged man can tolerate you everywhere and never worry about you, it shows that he is a generous and generous person, and he is really reluctant to be separated from you.
If he doesn't have a heart for you, or doesn't love you anymore, then he may be extra picky and harsh on you, and can't help but be suspicious and critical of you.
Even if you have done your best to be kind to him and taken good care of him, he will still make excessive demands on you, and look at you everywhere unpleasant, making you intolerable.
Therefore, when you perceive that a middle-aged man can take the initiative to give in, will take the initiative to admit his mistake after each quarrel, and never confront you, it most likely means that he is touched by you.
3, can endure the pressure in the relationship
Whether it's relationships, life or work, we can face a variety of pressures and challenges.
Middle-aged men who truly love you deeply usually endure the stress and frustration in your relationship.
He will turn stress into motivation and think in the good of everything.
If a middle-aged man can't shoulder the responsibilities and obligations in his feelings, can't stand the pressure, and wants to escape when he encounters a little setback, it shows that he doesn't really love you.
To judge whether a middle-aged man has a heart for you, it depends on whether he can endure all kinds of pressure in his feelings.
The more middle-aged men who know how to actively cope with pressure and resolve crises in time, the more they can collide with you to spark love.
Because he really cares about you, he will actively face all kinds of difficulties and crises in his emotional life.
When you need him, he won't run away from you, but will accompany you to fight to the end.
Truly beautiful love is that you can face the unknown tomorrow together, be willing to move forward towards the same aspect, and constantly transform into a better self.
In short, if a middle-aged man has feelings for you, or has a heart for you, he will have some common characteristics, the most obvious of which is one word: forbearance.
He can endure the loneliness in his feelings, endure the blandness and triviality of his emotional life, and be able to endure the pressure in life with you.
If he really loves you, he will silently accompany you to deal with unknown challenges and accompany you to the end.
If he gives up halfway, is irresponsible for feelings, and chooses to escape when he encounters pressure, it shows that he is a man with no responsibility and responsibility, and he cannot give you the love and warmth you want.
Middle-aged men who are really touched by you usually take the initiative to give in, can tolerate your shortcomings and deficiencies, and tolerate your bad temper and bad emotions.
He never argues with you easily, even if he quarrels occasionally, he will tolerate everywhere and take the initiative to give you steps down, rather than being aggressive and aggressive with you.
If you meet a person who is willing to fully tolerate and respect you, he can endure great pressure, accompany you to create a happy life, and he always has good expectations for your future, indicating that he is really touched by you.