Of all the adverse effects on people, the most capable of short-lived people is bad emotions and bad moods. Rotten people and broken things will only pull you to curl up in a dark corner, so that you can't discover the beauty of the world.
Living in this world, everyone is busy pursuing their own life, for their dreams, constantly paying and working hard, facing the various circumstances of life, it is impossible to say that they do not care. Completely unconcerned, it is also not right, they obviously paid, really paid, just like the hard work of planting but not harvesting, must be unwilling, their efforts can not be wasted, in fact, life is not not unconcerned, but can not be too calculating with some rotten people in some broken things.
As the saying goes, it is better to fight with the wise than to talk to bad people. Tangled up with the garbage man, it is only yourself who will eventually be hurt. Life to see through, to look down, is not so easy, but to see through can not say thoroughly, is not simple, their own heart knows it is good. Life must have the wisdom of not competing, and compete with rotten people to break things, and in the end there are only two results. One is that you win, but because of that, you also put in a lot of time and effort, and the gain is not worth the loss. The second is that you lose, make yourself full of anger, irritable, and depressed. Either way, you end up losing. Everything in this world has a cost, and it is your time and health that is entangled with rotten people and broken things.
Hundreds of diseases are born from the heart, and hundreds of diseases are treated from the heart. The things of this world are more endless than those that cannot be exhausted, and everything must be calculated about right and wrong, and there are thousands of knots in the heart, and they will plant the root of the disease. Learn to bow to stupidity, the heart is wider, and the troubles will naturally be less than half. Don't dwell on an awkward thing for too long. After a long time of entanglement, you will be annoyed, you will be painful, you will be bored, you will be tired, you will be hurt, you will be heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not unable to live with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to pull back. After learning not to argue, not to argue, not to calculate, you will find that the whole world will become harmonious.
The choice of life is always in your own hands. When you paint the earth as a prison, you will always have to live a prisoner-like life, depressed, powerless, and dark. When you are far away from those dark magnetic fields and walk in the direction of the light, one day you will be able to get out of your inner prison and live a free and comfortable life. Dealing with what kind of thing, you will involuntarily play the corresponding role until you really become that way. Stare into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will stare at you. Not to break things with rotten people, not to compromise with each other, but to learn to love yourself.
If the direction is right, you are not afraid of the road. As the saying goes, positive people are like the sun, where they shine brightly, and negative people are like the moon, and the first fifteen are different. We should be like sunflowers, following the sun, bathing in the sun and blooming flowers, rather than hurting the spring and autumn against the uncertain moon. Stay away from those who consume you, get closer to those who nourish you, and live your own sun.
Many times do not have to understand too much, work life love, do not let yourself be too tired, occasionally confused some pretend to be stupid, can really be exchanged for contented happiness. For the people and things around you, sometimes, don't be too preoccupied, especially some trivial things in life, you can not worry about it, you can let it go, you can let go of others, but also let go of yourself.
Especially, when you are getting older day by day, your age is getting older day by day, and you want to live freely, please remember that you must not casually worry about others, and in the end, you will blush and have a thick neck, which is really humiliating and hurtful. There are two old Chinese sayings, one is: Xiu Cai meets soldiers, and it is not clear what is reasonable. Another sentence is: well frogs can not speak of the sea, and summer insects cannot speak of ice. Everyone's level of insight is different, and everyone's level is there. If you insist on reasoning with them, you may not be able to fight for one in the end. Therefore, in such a situation, it is better to learn to let go, everything goes with it, anyway, as long as you have not lost anything, why bother with these rotten people?
A person can control themselves, is the most remarkable, do not know, impulse is the devil, do not feel that their control is very strong, try to ask you, how many people have not lost their temper. Those who can control themselves will quietly come to happiness. Only those who know how to control themselves can dominate themselves, and those who can dominate themselves will quietly come to happiness. Living in this world, who has not yet had a little temper.
But don't look at the small temper, sometimes want to control their emotions, it is really not easy, when the temper is lost, it is particularly easy to drill the tip of the horn, prefer to make the small nature, who can not be persuaded, and finally hurt, or themselves. Therefore, as a person, we must be able to control ourselves, we must understand moderation, and the meaning of moderation lies in the degree of everything. Those who can control themselves will quietly come to happiness.
In life, I have met some villains, encountered some broken things, if I can't control myself very well, I am always entangled, always entangled, in addition to wasting my energy and time, affecting my mood, and can not bring any substantial benefits.
In order to make yourself have a happier and happier life, it is better to let yourself stay away from rotten people and broken things, less calculation, more tolerance, less trouble, so that life is better.
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